Show i I HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN Conducted by BETTY BLAIR Letters questions and requests for for advice should be addressed to MISS BETTY BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN TELEGRAM SALT LAKE Write legibly upon only one side of the paper d It It Is necessary that you append pend the right name and address but these will be held In strict confidence and will not appear In print prIn Questions Involving advertising Information cannot be an ane Lett Letters rs requiring personal reply must muse be accompanied by stamped addressed sell envelopes envelopes LOSE TO 10 WIN OB OR Dear Bear Miss Blair Blik Can you explain this his to md me I can cati chatter my head off oft to boys t that t I I dont give Ive two pins for but to the boy I 1 really l like ke I I. cant can't say uy a word Im I'm Im I'm and all fluttery flattery and ridiculous If I have any natural wit wil It deserts me I am nm worse than dumb The other girls Iris can charm chum this boy with ith their clever lIn line while I watch them win him right away from me 1 I go 0 home and put my head in a pillow pil low Jow and suffer Burrer agonies for being such sucha a a total loss before him I can even cven turn away from him dm in dumb misery and talk to oth other r boys bo about trivial nonsense even while m my heart hurt Is being be be- ing all twisted Int Into knots over this one boy Why cant can't I be different Why cant can't cantI I talk trivial nothings to him ilm Just asa as asa a m starting point toward saying something some sOme- thing worth worthwhile while I suppose I meyer never enter his hb head except when he be sees nie me me in In a r. crowd and then he must say sayto t to himself that I am too dumb to pay any attention to I x cant can't t bear to lose him Just because be be- cause I am not myself when I am hear herr him What can can I do to break breakdown breakdown down this terrible wall of silence that has arisen between us help rne De e to win him IK IN LOVE You do not want this boy to think you trivial and minded light-minded by utterIng utterIng uttering utter utter- ing the choice choke bits from your chatterbox chatterbox chatterbox chatter chatter- box mind with which you regale the theother theother theother other boys You must prepare to meet him him on a different plane from that on on n which you meet other boys and to this end pr prepare parc a special diet of words with meaning for this boy I. I It is quite possible th jh that t he also feels the resistance surging between you If life and md emotions could be simplified simpli tied fied to the point that you could sayto say sayto sayto to him hint simply when you met him I. I I love you and you were then prepared prepared prepared pre pre- pared to take the consequences either cither I of a return of love or of indifference I how many complexes complexes' could be saved 7 But you must not forget that timid timid- Ity of the sort you are encountering is isas isas as apt to be working havoc in the theeart heart beart eart of a boy as in the heart of a girl denied the privilege of speaking first of ot her affections Would you if 1 tt n were were your place to do so make any greater effort than you are now now doIng doing do do- ing to let this boy know just what your your feelings are in regard to him We doubt it Timidity of this nature i is not Snot easily ov overcome even with precedence all on on th the side of the one wishing to make known his feelings But you might start to break down I Ith th the barriers the next time you are arc in ina ina a crowd boy by saying to them all all Lets go up to our house and Have Dave an informal hard times party We can pop corn and make candy and dance to the radio Informality of this sort is a great help in trying moments moments mo mo- ments meats of restraint and self conscious ness ness Or you might Invite them to come and then serve light refreshments refreshments- crackers and cheese toasted lightly with hot chocolate Encourage your our group to engage in winter sports to to- gether Climb a mountain for sunrise sunrise sun sun- rise breakfast of hot sausages coffee coHee and nd rolls Conversation takes care of Itself under circumstances of this kind Or even the lack of it is never noticed Who needs needs' to 10 talk when down a mountainside or watching sunrise a or sunset If It you cannot win the boy you love under informal circumstances the chances are you will lose him to the girl with the clever line who may grace formal occasions RETURNING INVITATION Dear Dur Miss Blair f A fA boy whom I have not known very veT long Ions has taken me to several shows and dances I would like Uke to to invite him to my home for Thanksgiving dinner dianer Should the fact that he has also been taking other girls out o t keep me from learn giving him this Invitation Even thou though h I like him a great reat deal X I I dont don't want him to get Cd the Idea Ides tint that 1 am m trying to get et him to go 0 st st. steady ady adyth with th me Thank you T 7 IN DOUBT S By By all means give your invitation InvitationS S t to the boy who has shown so much friendliness to you Do Io so in a charm charming charmin ing in impersonal way that has in it only sincere friendliness and your motive will not be mistaken It is only when we wo are arc insincere and try tryo to o camouflage our feelings that our motives are misunderstood or taken for or what they are really worth TO 10 SOFTEN FLOOR WAX Dear Miss Blair S The lid was accidentally left leU off my can of floor wax the last time It WM was as used and almost half a can of the wax ax has hu dried d to a n condition where ItIs it itis its Is s Impossible to use It Is there an anything any any- thing hing I can cm do to it to soften the wax gain again aln Thank you MRS E. E Set the can in a pan of ot warm water and nd add a little turpentine gradually until it reaches the proper consistency Do 0 not on any apy account set the floor wax on op the stove or near a flame as asis itis is inflammable S ELBOW GRIEF Dear Dur ear Miss 1151 Blair I 1 suppose nearly every woman Is lunching or playing bridge bridgen In n short sleeved dresses this winter want to be doing so with the others but bot nt my elbows are the fly in the ment What is to be done with unsightly un un- sightly elbows that simply arent aren't pre pee pared ared to appear in public in the daytime day day- time Ime Thank you youl l MISS SS PRISSY If you have little hard prickles on your our arms try scrubbing th them m with a abrush abrush brush and using a harsh Turkish towel on n them afterwards It may be just justa a a matter of poor circulation See Sec that your our arms get toned up A good idea ideas is s to use bath salts on a wash awash rag and scrub them with that too The more scrubbing the better If there is hard skin over the elow el el- bow ow somewhat like a turkeys turkey's foot use some of your cuticle remover on onIt onit ont It t let it stand awhile and then rinse rinseI of off ff in warm water rub dry and masage massage mas mas- sage age some nice smelling rich cream over ver the spot A little pumice stone often oCten helps too oo I If your elbow is discolored use a little lemon juice and salt on it or r some commercial bleach Always oil il the spot up afterward because the bleach leach is drying Take Take- care of your elbows once you have them in shaie sha shape e as you would your face ace and they WIllbe will wille willbe be e agreeable party companions CALVES' CALVES BRAINS Dear Miss Blair My husband Is very fond of calves' calves brains rains but I dont don't know how to prep pre pee p pare are re them for him Will Vili you please give Ive me a recipe for them Thank you yoo on MRS W. W Wash the brains in hi several waters and nd free them from skin and fiber Boil Boll 10 minutes in salt water mixed with a tablespoon of vinegar and when when the they arc are firm cut slices dip them in butter butter- and fr fry to a light brown EGG SHAMPOO Dear Miss Blair I have heard that for brown brawn hair egg eKr gg shampoo made from the thc yolk of nn an n egg er is rood good Will you OU please tell me mc how to use the e egg yolk to shampoo dark brown hair Thank you MERCY ul It is claimed that for lor dark brown hair lair egg yolk olk shampoo gives a luster to the hair that is enviable Kindly send end a stamped self-addressed self envelope en en- elope for our circular describing this particular shampoo ilia Great Britain's commission on edu- edu I edu-I and cultural films after two years of investigation has decided that hat good motion pictures are benefIcial bene bene- iclal to children both as a classroom t tool ool ol and as a form of childhood rec rec- cation III S |