Show New ew Y York York- Young ng Man Ma G Gets fiefs ts a Black Eye From the Discriminating I New lew ew York Girl for Hes He's All Fault and Little LillIe Virtue He Drinks Smokes Cigarettes Cigar Cigar- ettes Is a Spendthrift Deceitful Deceitful Dex De- De x and Conceited Selfish a Gambler Lacking Lacking Lack Lack- I ing in Ambition and Ir Ir- Ir- Ir reverent l MARGUERITE MOOERS MARSHALL MOOERS-MARSHALL MARSHALL tUr The Telegrams Telegram's S Special News New N NEW YORK Dec 0 9 The The New York is S suffering from a very black I eye J A AIt And nd the New York girl has given I It t to him He doesn't suit her at all He is all aU wrong Apparently her mental mental men men- tal tat attitude toward him may be summed j I jup up in the despairing lament of ot old I Omar 1 Ah Love ve Could Could you and I with Him HimI I 4 I conspire I ITo To grasp this sorry Scheme of Things I entire Would we not shatter it to bits bits and and 4 then I Remold It nearer to the Hearts Heart's Desire Desire Desire De De- sire Nothing less than shattering him to I bits would suffice her And she he has just made a gallant essay in that di U- U She has dissected in writing the man of the hour as the Rev T. T Basil Young of the Union Methodist church No 10 22 West Forty-eighth Forty street can testify n lit Hse asked l the tle young women of his I congregation to write him letters about t the faults and ideals of young men The young youn women wrote They were wele nothing if not candid They accused ed I modern youths of ot selfishness conceit the drink habit the cigarette craze i the passion for gambling bad temper lacK of ot ambition Irreverence W Wilf Willi II the Accusations Excite I Pity for the Young Man I I suspect that the most ardent feminist feminist fem fem- inist listening to this catalogue of crime would be moved to pity the bf he- he labored bespattered criminal I know that I r pitied him that I even doubted the blackness of his guilt So I appealed appealed appealed ap ap- ap- ap pealed his case to Dr Young whom I II I found sound at his home I Do you really think Ithe the young man manI manof manof of today is such an undesirable character charac charac- I ter I asked Dr Young who Is young in years as well as In name and blue- blue eyed and pleasantly courteous I It un Is a a. serious indictment o of theNet the New Net ew York youth that the New York finds so many faults in him Dr Young replied She criticizes him with great severity and I must say that the faults sho she sees in him are re not nott t trivial Any man should be ashamed to 10 fall faU below the standards of or a decent young woman But the New York man manby manby manby by no means mean satisfies the ideals of th the New York girl Irl Oh Ideals Oh Ideals I repeated a bit imp im- im patiently p There is il only one who vho will ever satisfy the ideals of a girl and even he may give up in de de- de The average e girl wants a man is a combination it f Croesus Adonis and Henry Peck Personally I have found the New York man to be he a civili d d and entertaining individual inc What hat do ao o you consider his fault race Dr Young replied promptly W But lt jg tt isn't it true that there is much much leSs lefes drunkenness than there was a ed red or even fifty years ago I Ia It ask t Sk a Young Men Should Eschew Liquor That may be the case but t there stilt st I is plenty plent of room for improvement improve improve- improvement ment particularly in this city A man should be temperate because be be- rall cau cause e science has haF prove proved definitely that tha even en a a. small quantity of alcohol reg Jeg regularly imbibed Jed injures the body a and nh Impairs health and the chance of long life Then too the young oung malt mah who drinks greatly injures his ces of ot success The modern em- em er is strongly set against the thed dri d h t habit and often oHm will not employ o or or continue to employ men I who are its its- victims of cour course e. e the intemperate you b is ruining hi his chances with nice women who as the letters I Ih h have hare received N prove do not care to toma ma marry magy fY him or even to associate with hl hire rm ext to to intemperance rance the cigarette ci aze i is the most serious fault of the ern youns enung nun man There are five rinds kindts of in cigarettes The em- em of Japan has pas passed ed an edict for- for l bidd idd ing ng cigarette smoking in his do dominions do- do minions It seems to lo me that a a. Christian Christian Christian Chris Chris- tian citizen might do as well as a hea heathen hen one The he jack jacl of i ideals even eVE of ambition ambi ambi- tion is a another era erac crar c c defect in the New young oung man gnat Often Otten he seems to care about nothing except goo good food frivolous amusement and creature comforts com com- forts If It he has any strong ambition it Yn iri x Q iA f F t I i 1 Mugs E rI 7 r I I. I ca se r 7 mil miln n t el 1 i 1 g I 1 I r ri r 4 H A 6 i 4 4 i g is to mal make e a great deal of money money no no I matter how so lon long as he makes it He wants intensely to be wealthy to achieve material success He refuses to todo todo todo do anything or interest himself in anything anything anything any any- thing which v does not bring him immediately im- im mediately elv more don dollars aIs aI's an and l cents Even Evenin in college the mo modern youth shows this tendency He does tot rot care for courses which fail to increase his earning earning earning earn earn- ing power On the other hand there are many young men here who do not seem seem even evento evento evento to desire to achieve great worldly suc sue cess They are contended if they can enough to buy them drinks cigarettes and other of what they the call a good time Spender Type of Young Man Not No Wanted Yet there is a a. general impression I reminded Dr Young that this is the type of man who is most popular with girls that they prefer the gay spender I to more his serious and thrifty broth broth- brother I er er I j TI The e girls who sent me letters unhesitatingly unhesitatingly unhesitatingly un un- unI I hesitatingly an and ami i unanimously condemned condemned condemned con con- the spender type he said They agreed with the girls in a smalltown small smalltown smalltown town where J F once once preached a similar similar simi simi- lar Jar sermon in expressing a preference for tor the man with a serious purpose in life lite with Christian ideals Also New York girls do not liI like e eUle the Ule tendencies to flattery and deceit in the modern man I do not mean that the girls are riot not ot glad to be appreciated But there is a difference between flattery flattery flat flat- tery and appreciation clation The former flat I may maybe maybe mayr r be defined as saying saving nice th things which I you rou dont don't mean The latter Jatter consists of saying nice things which ought to be said since they are true I 1 think It Ib iii a fact as the girl said that the modern New Yorker has too little reverence for women for the nation nation nation na na- na- na tion of which he is a part for the church That i iy 41 due partly to his bring bringing ing up He has not had the right tight sort of home life Many l of his other faults are due to his lack of respect for people peo people peo peo- pIe and institutions which should be re re- re I Often the home life the social life of or the man from IS 18 to 30 who lives in inthis inthis inthis this city is not what it should be He comes comE here a stranger and he finds difficulty in getting acquainted aC with I nice girls who unconsciously r will keep leep him key d up to what they think IsI is I right A good sweet girl is s an excellent excel excel- excel 1 lent nt ideal for him I trust that ine rne I frank girlish criticism I have evoked may have its effect on young men whom It is much wiser to reform be beI before before be- be I I I fore marriage than after I Ir IttrE I r New were G TAK r A SHOT AT pr 4 S THE NEW J UJ PORK M MAN AN ANI I I I |