Show COME IE TO- TO 1 HEARTS HEART'S HA VEN 1 0 With BETTY BETT BLAIR BLAIR I Affairs or of tho heart and kindred problems ONLY will bo discussed In this department Letters questions and requests request for tor should hoult bo be addressed to I MISS BETTY BETIT BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN TELEGRAM S. S SALT LT LAKE Write legibly upon only ono ouo side aldo ot of the It Is necessary accessory that you Oll append tho right name Dome and o. but DUI these wUl will be held helt In strict confidence and will by no means appear In print Ed print Ed ADVICE FOR FOE MART Dear Miss l Blair I would certainly like to talk to Mart and md his Ills sweetheart but as that Is Impossible I will talk through Hearts Heart's Haven My I experience ence as a wife has taught L' me mc that thai even if a girl has made mis mistakes kes ii k her life If she sIre Is determined to do dothe the rl right ht thing and be better betler she can be Before Defore I met the man mais of or m my dreams I lived a n very ery disgraceful life me But nut I knew I would never be happy unless I got him Right nIght then I decided derided to turn urn over a new leaf Icar And nd I did When ID my husband to him I told him asked mo me to marc marry everything e We IVe c h. h had hd d a lon long serious talk t. and finally came to 0 an under under- standing lie He wanted to forgive and forget as as' as Ion long as lS I was trying to 0 be beho bethe betho ho tho girl I should have e been lie He told old mo mohe Jie would woold never bring up my past pastS pastas is S long long long-as as I was true to him That was as five thc years ago and I am amure sure ure neither of us has hs regretted our marriage So Mart If you jou also have lave love Jove enough to for forgive lve and lud forget for for- get Iet persuade that girl to 0 marry you Promise her and yourself that you ou will never ne mention her past no ma mater matter mat mat- I ter er how angry you jou ou arc at thc the moment mo ment and Im I'm sure she abc will make you youa oua ou a good faithful wife I wish you oU both success and happiness A HAPPY WIFE Mart should feel encouraged ed So Soar far ar only those who have made a success suc sue cess ess of the experiment of ot forgetting ng the he past of one entering the marriage contract have written We hope the successful ones arc are much in the ma ma- onty After Aller all it depends on the individual himself whether marriage I can be made a union of or happiness But it does docs bolster up ones one's courage to o know that others similarly placed have lave played a winning game DANGERS OF 01 NECKING Dear Miss Blair The following is my opinion of this called so-called necking An old Chinese proverb pro states vice ice and lie He who finds pleasure In Is still a novice In pain In virtue both And nd one ma may reasonably apply apply ap ap- ply this statement to the hackneyed term necking If it It really bo be a i vice I If It necking can be designated as kissing or other physical affection Ican Ican I Ican harm In this activity Of or can s see e no course In this modern day there can be no doubt as to the potential school girls girl's diver diver- rc results of or this high slon sion Bacteria do o you jou know and they arc are not tender little JUtie play play- pla-I pla mates If It anyone intelligently desires to become susceptible to the various arlous diseases diseases dis dis- dis eases let him use his Ills mouth as a means of bacterial transmission Personally Personally Per Per- II fon I never nc did enjoy the thou thought of at possessing Vincents Vincent's aD angina lna Further Fur Fur- ther flier if it mutual affection disturbs one of our most basic emotions and causes us to indulge In social Improprieties the rigorous punishment which society sod sod- soci ety gives such cases should be bo sufficient dent admonition against such lack of ot Inhibition Now If It anyone is sure that nothing nothing noth noth- in ing averse to social standards will result re reo re- re suit sult or that no diseases will be bo con con- It St would be perfectly moral to neck However er rubbing Ii lips po only for the sake of ot doing doing- so and hu hugging hug hug- 1 ging each other for Cor the sake of hugging hug hug- Ting ging only seem to be one of the most shallow and inane sorts of pastime No Im I'm not writing as Little Inno Inno- But nut I cence Ive I've necked plenty plent certainly er didn't enjoy m my trench trench- mouth to any considerable extent further after ler the thousandth kiss leiss I railed failed to o e any felicitation and andI I 1 found that osculation became me somewhat somewhat some some- I what lir tiresome Where love lovo exists and affection cUon is genuine then the tue occasion for caressing ca ca- ca arises but arises but this J Is distinctly not necking J 1 F. F II H. Is Kissing Dan Dangerous Dangerous' erous is js the title of or an nn article we have before us liS And we read following this title title- Some Sometime Sometime Sometime time ago ngo a sc scientist st made a test to determine just how many germs are transmitted while two persons kiss The results were surprising Lips to which lipstick was applied transmitted trans a greater percent percentage gc of germs than lips The average amount of germs transmitted by natural natural natural nat nat- ural lips was about while rouged lips yielded about germs erms per kiss Vincents Vincent's angina ancin trench angina trench l-trench trench mouth- mouth was was not the least perilous of ot these Streptococcus found in m some orne forms Corms of or heart disease staphylococcus acreus nereus which causes boils cus which causes pneumonia month monia and a few other species of organisms were also found What's the use of having a war when we wo might all stay at home and indulge e in m promiscuous necking to kill off the human race TABLE ETIQUETTE Dear Miss Blair I have seen In various arlous stores dinner din ner ncr tables s completely set to o show the correct use of china glassware and sliver sll In many cases there have hn been at least three goblets all graduating In size Will you OU Ju please tell me mc for Cor what tho three arc are Intended and what That to ask for when buying them Thank you ou EM I. The Thc water goblet heads the array of glasses set for the formal dinner Its place is at the top and to the right of ot the knives Grouped to the right of the goblet in an oblique line linc are the wine glasses three in iii number num num- ber bee as a rule for cordial cocktail and wine Today in our own country these glasses are arc used by people who observe the eighteenth amendment for water and cordials that keep within the law When buying buy buy- in ing ask water glasses and cord cordial in glasses for the formal dinner table S DREAM I REPEATED Dear Miss Blair I have had the same dream for four different nights and although I know It 11 Is ridiculous to believe c in dreams this has preyed on my mind so 50 much I that I am curious to know the inter inter- Four nl nights ago I dreamed of or huge hUJe kites flying about The night following I dreamed of doves and the thc night after that I dreamed of tin tiny birds flying against the window Last night I dreamed of or many different different differ differ- ent kinds of birds all flying about me Thank you ou for your our kindness II JI L L. L Flying birds in dreams mean prosperity prosperity prosperity pros pros- and success Birds with bright plumage pluma e unhampered success birds of ol dark colors mean worries and obstacles obstacles ob ob- ob to be bo overcome before success This is the interpretation of th r-th-c-d the dream book ROUGH SKIN Dear Miss Blair I The skin of or my arms is very ery er rough Can you Oll tell me mc what hat to do to overcome overcome over over- come this condition Many thanks RUBY Soap your arms well vell ell in your bath then rub a piece of natural pumice stone over them At first the skin becomes becomes be be- comes somewhat red and sore The application of equal parts of lemon juice and glycerine to which a few drops of ammonia have been added will do away with this condition and will wiIl make the arms soft and white |