Show DOROTHY DIX TALKS I I n tar nIX Dix the World IC Pa Woman oman you KNOW Ti THAT T HYOU YOU ENJOY TALKING T TO AND BEING BENG WITH OTHERS HER S IN IN A A HARMLESS ARMLESS r SOCIAL WHY WAY-WHY NOT BE BE- BELIEVE LIEVE YOUR HUSBAND OR WIFE IS EVERY BIT AS DECENT AS YOU ARE AREZ WOMAN Wm N A wants to know If fr for Cor thero is k any euro curd for jealousy true and I H faithful says a al C CUatt that u i to she her hel knows kno s 's her husband loves her devotedly He Ile Is 0 He is as Il domesticated IS s s tho house cat and casts no roving eye eyo at the tho pretty flappers lose less every into ho scata to lo another woman she en- en endures en- en dunes dures grinding Blinding torments of cC suspicion There Is to I cn y one no cure for or Jealousy That Thatis w is to use lIC z a little sense but this puts the remedy cut tU of or the reach of the green eyed because jealousy is a form a Insanity It is i n I of mental balance that makes people Imagine things thing that do not exist that there them tu to cee ee deep deen dark plots lots in the ther n r t Innocent In sit cats ti and that make them dellb dellb- r jar c. c ly tenure c themselves by believing that 3 the Jhc ones ones that t t C they love most are traitors to them Alto Also It i is 16 what hat the alienists call the theA a exasperated A ego that th t makes any man or wo woo jn n n believe L that he or she can supply any aty tier other her Individuals Individual's In whole need for human com corn tn n ip FOR F OR jealousy Isn't confined solely to lovers Some ot of the most acute acut attacks are the jealousy that men and women feel for Cor their laws In Sometimes parents are aro even jealous of ot their own children Wives are aie often oCten Jealous of ot their husbands husband's business and always jealous of the old friends of vf their bachelor days das But ut however and wherever it is and no matter how causeless and needless Deedle s It may ma be Jealousy poisons the life lICo and ruins the happiness of at an all of oC those who vho indulge in It It Is the source of endless quarrels between husbands and wives and It slays love quicker than any other one thing Indeed the jealous bring down the curse they fear upon their own heads BY B T THEIR suspicions they the materialize the tho very thing they most dread for there Is no surer way of driving a 3 man or a woman into philan philan- philandering philanderIng dering than by b keeping dangling continually before his or her eyes ees a romantic possibility in which ho or she is likely to indulge at aey an moment Many a married man would never think of himself as a lady killer In fact he would consider that he was married and settled end and nd done with sentimental episodes except that his wife keeps alive his belief In himself as a heart by her jealousy If she considers him so fascinating that th t she is afraid to let him have a casual conversation with another woman or take a turn around a ballroom floor with a pretty girl he argues that he must be tome come sheik And so he buys him some klassy kuB kul and sets his hat on the side of his head and proceeds to justify her once groundless suspicions I FURTHERMORE F jealousy is Us Its own n undoing because it strikes a adeath adeath I death blow at our personal liberty which is dearer to t us s and aud more mora necessary to our happiness than HUlD any man or woman ever is None of ofus ofus I Ius us likes to be called upon to furnish an alibi None of ot us enjoy being put through a questionnaire about everything that was said to us and everything we ie said None of us but resents not being free to go and come as we like within reasonable bounds and to hold ordinary social Intercourse with any anyone one we choose So if husbands and wives ives went about d deliberately to every particle of affection that their mates have for them hem they could take no better way to do it than by spying upon them by attributing unworthy motives to them by curtailing their freedom and by making such jealous scenes that for the sake of they are forced to lie and deceive Besides this Jealousy Is an unforgivable Insult HERE arc women women who have bave conniption fits every time their hus bus husbands husbands THERE T bands make themselves agreeable to their dinner partners or tike take a met chance-met old woman friend out to lunch These The e are arc wives wis wi s who never believe belle that their husbands can admire a beautiful woman or enjoy the society of oC a brilliant one Innocently v They attribute the basest motives to the men they love and accuse them not only of being faithless but of the grossest animalism which was was far and away from the thoughts of the poor gentleman Jealousy jealous is an indication of the Inferiority complex The FINALLY F woman who is Jealous of all other women in her heart believes them all her superiors She believes them better looking more intelli intent intelligent gent more moie charming with more attraction for her husband than she has That IB Is R why she is so BO afraid of their getting gelling him away from her You cant can't Imagine a queen being Jealous of a milkmaid or a Lillian Russell being jealous of an ugly duckling or a a. star dancer not being willing for her husband to tread a measure with some lump of oC a girl his feet Ceet who ho would walk all over All of this being true then the way to cure Jealousy Is to apply common sense to the situation Try to look at it fairly and squarely In the first place your husband or wife would not have married you if he or she hadn't preferred you to every everyone one else In the world If you had charm before marriage you have it still If you will take the trouble to use it In the second place you know that you enjoy talking to other people and that your contact with them Is perfectly in in- innocuous innocuous nocuous and harmless Why not believe your husband or wife fIfe Is a decent as you arc i N THE third place why keep your our husband or wife always nh fed up IN I with h the Idea that he or she Is a 3 fascinator fa that no woman or man can resist It Jl makes them want to try and see Bce If they th can stand can stand them up t 1 lJ And lastly If you are married to a man or woman whom you believe to have so little Ittle truth and honor and who care so little for you that he or she cant can't be trusted out of your sight why worry about him or her He or she Isn't worth a single pang of jealousy DOROTHY DIX MX Copyright by Public Ledger Company |