Show Should a Man Propose fore Before He Can Cai SUU ort a Wife there Is la no point In regard PERHAPS to love 10 and marriage on which all allmen allmen men aro are moro mora agreed than that no noman noman noman man has any to ask IlSk a a. woman to mury marry him until ho la Is In a position to support her In a Sitting fitting manner That they bj by no means so universally I I lire op up to the belief belld 1 Is of ot course COUNe the lire question There are re other masculine lne theories more r bono honored d In the breach than In ID the obi observance ob I servance le nod and with which bt It Is 15 well to accept the ancient scrap of ot advice and Do Dous us they thel say not as u they do dot dol dolI I Dut putting aside such quaint little Is It a not not to to bo quarrelled quor- quor fact that a man must not Dot ask uk the girl pir Irl he be loves to marr marry him until th the way t to fortune Is straight before rc him If It the tie asking means the suggestion Uon of ot an aD Immediate marriage with a reckless disregard as 88 to bow the claims of ot the butcher and ODd baker are to be met and oDd In j i finitely less thought given to a 1 future habitation bat ball Hatton than that bestowed by the tho birds Jo Jn the Spring who Jo do build buld a 11 nest why v then It la II s absolutely certain n that tho thu answer an 8 elver er la lit r most mos decided negative I however cr ouy marriage In the dim lm and Dt future U Is It ItIs t Is by ny DO no means meADS eo so c certain that tbt a r lover love should r. from trOD asking the question union shine alone can assure his hla love lady beyond be yond fond a a. doubt as aa to bis exact wishes and nod j i intentions Intention Of Ot course thc flown f will prate glibly of ot lug leaving the tho mold maid of bU his r. r i heart fru bl himself that he be Is S. nobly standing aside aulde and nod pc per per- mitring b her Der r to rake to-rake take her ter choice of ot other and I richer suitors 1 feminine perception i particularly par par- particularly I on the subject of ot lore lote and marriage mar mar- 1 rl are arc exceedingly keen and ad It U is prole j j J- J 5 M able that long ro bd th the gentleman awake to tho situation anti and quietly busy ln grasped that b bt wn wa lu the Hie tolls loll of either cither encouraging or It waster Master Dan Daa Cupid the lady was ke keenly Thin Thle being i lO o makes It ic tees LeU ad ad- oil lu visible that silence on 00 the subject should always be bu lined It is true that very lon long engagements ate by no means altogether tb r desirable bui but between n an nn engagement l lasting e even eu u fo tOI years yean and the th- same period of ot mi miserable ml uncertainty what but would woman choo i ithe the former Only the curious blindness of or man out outside side ilda his bIll own particular beliefs boilers could permit permit per per- cr mit the masculine lint of ot creation to Ilie Im Imagine 1 agine lo itself particularly noble simply by front from asking WIlt Will you ou marry after olD its me IDe doing very cry best Lest to a J coveted heart burt Unless huless she age Is asked the tho momentous question question ques ques- tion a 1 girl Irl Is never uever comfortably positive e as to her ber right to love the man sue sire does docs love lose That she Bile Is aware of or his love Joo for tor herself ta is nut not h lore More than thuu anything lu in the the- world nbc be desires to know a 1 doubt that he lie bus bUI clio n lI lien her r front trum grit ail il the tho other f In III existence Let her ber be bo assured of ot this thin and aud she ahe will bo be content to cheerfully welt wait until the tb ship routes comes home howe thud makes a wedding possible pO Leave Leav the question unasked and she sho still halts lf waits If ci abet j loves loves but but wale waits luly tutee nth CU tee tue and fears f that t ever er lJ beset act the path tb of ot love There lit is yet snottier another to the cue case which seems to i prove i o eb It l I In sr well II for a 4 lover loc to not ask for what hat be a wants art even al although although al al- though tb the tbt ille l for the the- gr be Lc pct Ilet for force far tar away aW In 10 th the future lii In their anxiety t to co i Ise hl e generous men forget that ii tI woman adores to be generous goner gener ncr ncr- ous ow also alio Once let tier her get luto her bend lu that a mau b has no so little belief hellet In la the tho reality of ot her bor love lott that ho hI la is 1 n until be can In tempt her ber Into becoming hi hIs bit wife with all sorts of ot w worldly o i OO i her ber once t believe that ami bo bl bid bidgood good good good-by hy to all nit chances of oC winning her Should a 3 man ask ul a girl to fry him before he be Is 18 In n position to support H e wife Indeed yes res when b be be lo loins lifts ins permitted her hor to Me see he hI loves lore her No o mutter bov long Iou tb the waiting both will hp hI the tbt happier for tor thu the thu question b being asked and t answered |