| Show 31r) im UI 'AO 1 10 le AUGtIST :IL 1911 SUNDAY OTh Is- - 4 (4 sti's I p 1 S i z 7f" tO00 - - "1 Rm ' Ihgr Wo0 11 t 0-- -- -- - -- 106 1m '101homo MM 4d7P- - ' fi' 1 uoin omommipm I s 1" 0"01k14 0 0:own k A"le 411 41 - liteV' a a —s 10111001 when he wants to go out with the boys—just so he'll feel like a heel if he does go anyway DON'T interrupt him when tie is telling about something and then tell it your own way DON'T bawl him out if he spills something on the rug or He pays for the tablecloth laundry and is likely to resent it DON'T begin asking him 'a hundred questions every time he settles down to read his paper NEVER tell him that you have "given him the best year of your life" It be ahould happen to forget an anniversary or birthday DON'T put on a sulking show for a whole week and make him feel worse than ever lie feels bad enough as it I DON'T make him feel that his friends aren't good enough for A r you who want to stay on right side of the fence had -better heed these i NEVER of your wife as speak "the It might get tick to her NEVEll forget to keep in eye (4i what your wife wears If it is new remark about it If silmething i( is tsomething try a cbmpliment anyway DON'T forget to kiss hergoodby in the morning or at any other time when you leave the house Try it when you come in too A display of affection always will dissipate any tendencies toward arguments DON'T tell her she needs a psyetiologist because she gushes over favorite screen star irr !DON'T praise the girls in your office whileneglecting to comment on the ellicierit manner in which she rum the home DON'T stop at Pryers! bars on thP way4 home when olio has planned In hay company for the evening or planned to get an early start to a 1 Pi 1amme :1 om rOM j Z7!74z1t4 ) rti iI tl MIONMS114 rsAt -- gli 4 - oonomonno4 3 ' N DONT throw your clothes "all over the house The gat's your wife not your servant I I RIIMNIEIMENIONMENNA nmow dEMEIMPOEgMrMm lf1a) I Nix 4mommoolommlowlum tmoommommopownomm 4i " 4 P' - IWO r':—:te 4 f Al- - - -' L V ! 1 I l'' VP er4 I t ! Itt 41 go 0 a s 4t i 4 '' ) ‘ ib It 4 15 W A r 0 00 - Et go A go '' ' ' a ' 1 SO ' - r o k 41 I Ilha 1 d dik ''' 'A 0 44 k i ' ) ti 7-40 fl -'- '1 ‘1 MIEMMEMm e'Er s70 - 0 V t 4t S 4 er IIthe irT 4 "never-nevers"- go t41 II ' qa tO t I) i U11 '- - not-so-n- ok Z ff ) tia Ai DON'T sneer and eefuse to budge When oho asks you to leek at -- the - i V10 11169011 '11 I 6 ) 4 - I rv p DON'T act disinterested when she asks youto come to the window and see he beautiful moon DON'T give her such practical thing as a rug washingmachine or Pet icif cooking utensils f9r her birth- day or anniversary—unless it is by corrimon- - consent Even then AIL wAoiS arrange to present her with r (it :- - ) FREDERICK MILES By L PhD Consulting Psychologist I I 4N k 411 tt1' S I r ok I ' 4 t'l - irAl I ICA- - ' t i l g- Item:: I - a- t - I No I- I" IR lit 41q o opo go a ob IP 00 11 -- kill i 161 1 Ja s di 74 I :11 mar- or discipline otherwise make yoU angry or disconcerted? ls it iasy for you to lose your temper? Do you frequently just "feel miserable" without apparent causer It yoy must save or cut expenses would jou rattier xto it on anything else than clothing? Do you insist pn:' having your own way even If it Means a tight? Do you usually work things out for yourself' 'because you dislike asking for advite? Do you have periods of happiness and sadness without any particular reason? Do you have frequent "grouchy" spells?' Do you "pick" and criticize a lot? Are you particularly "touchy" about some things? An 10 question!' answered "no" would indicate you:Ore so perfect you are rather out of :this World Eight "noes" gives you a good rating as happy in your marital life Five "noes" is fair Four- - or less means you ara a rather difficult martiage partner and it would be advisable to begin to mend your ways Does In spite of the fact that marital agreements are far from news progress- in marital happiness has been achieved in the same way as anything else By a scientific study of all the factors which enter into marriage relationships and a better :understanding of human behavior An Oxford University professor said !You aren't grown up until you re married—and glad of it" Are you glad of it? Well let's see— Do you ever think that a young girl or young man having a swell time in their single state ale crazy to get married? Do you go around telling people how rouch you sacrificed when you got man-led-? Do you tell yodng people to enjoy themselves before it's too late—before they enter into a sort of life-ti- slavery? Does it annoy you to have your mate allow up when you are pleasantly in conversation with an attractive member of the opposite sex? Do you think marriage has brought ed i you more "headaches" than pleasure? The more no answers you have the more likely it 43 you are "glad of it"—and you make a pleasant marriage partner REFORE entering on the details about how to treat your mate let's look at your own personality At least let's look at your marriage personality It doesn't matter whether you are a- a husband or a wife these questions apply to either Try answering—them let nonestlye and better yet why-none of you grade the other? Here's a key to the 10 most Inver - 0 ti - ''' ! i P i ' ed 1 1 -- - - Nao løs'° c I- -- - IL r1 - '' ' v0 1 4k s '- N40-'- N - --- fir - - 0 44 -N l ' I -- - -' ' N)' ITO -- - 4 i 4 kA (----- el ''''''Aill AJV N - 01L4i - - - -- - - ick - ''''- 7 - : - 1 ' 2 -1:to W riages: self-impos- - : k‘ Idi0 1 tant personality :traits in happy - atg t DON'T raise the reef acme- when he ear tablethe thing cloth Ile stlil pays the laundry bill dis- ot 41) e lb - on-gag- 41494- Ivo you want to keep your mate —get rid of your marital doghouse With all the current jokes about hiisbands and wives who on the slightest provocation place their mates in this lowly mental habitat it in none the less a serious matter! Current statistics for 1910 show that nearly 200000 men and women ran away from each other because "they failed to please" in some way or another IP - do do ' -t i ' th lo ' p'" Ar ea a ew MoVie L 11' '4 I I Nti 1 0 (ofI II 1 1 44 4 1 0 V Li ' ‘ 'Nor 1v 7: To7 "'4'''''''''''o0::: L'o : A illb- 1 I It) :: - ' -- 4: - -- k " v I "1v - it0 : I tanked" too DON'T come home often mister That's a- short cut to Canine Inn : ' ' I L ' ' tNIs - P fbe 1Pofr fr7 1 iage peSonality traits 'Keeping our mate dut of the doghotise—is dne of the first requirements for making your marriage a success and your partner "glad of it" As a: wife yoti can probably see some familiar things in this Hat of womanly behavior patterns to which your husband will react unfavorably and for which yoU would put him in the doghouse: "You whine 'You drag him out to a 'party on a night he'd rather stay home and be comfortable You make social engagements :without telling him r' ' ' — sorne little luxury item if at all possible PON'T drop your things whereVer You know where things convenient being and besides you wouldn't like to Ithink of yourself as your wife's pe6onal servant' would you? PON'T make dates or bring com‘ home without giving your wife pay 11' you're a wife who Wants to keep ample notice She won't mind if she 4out of the doghouse take heed— has time to make things presentable If he happen to notice what some To'! a woman this sort of thing is just as annoying as if someone woke you other woman is wearing DON'T say I wear introduced you to notice what can't you "Why upat midnight and once in awhile?" lieddy Lamarr Now you know what we mean? If he has to stay late: at the oMce DON'T call him on the phone or "acWhy there's nothing to it but comto see mcin he if sense" you're saying "I knew cidentally" drop in—just that all the time!" was telling the truth Of course you did Hut it's a shame DON'T forever ask him what he has' we get at times hoW absent-mindbeen doing where he has been and YOu might keep this handy and refer with whom he was out- - lie will tell to t once in awhile Ile reyou all about it in due It will help you to make kindling sent s your continually asking about IL DON'T get a sudden' sick "spel1'11 wcitod out of your marital doghouses a d'e7 woow before hand You try to keep up with iwhile she tries to talk to you and i answer with an ‘Uhuh' and a blank the neighbors stare You think a camping trip or "You run his relatives down in public You criticize practically every!hunting lodge is the Ideal vacation spot for your wife thing he does You insist on picking "You admire the low-cevening out his clothes busi"You tell him how to run his gowns on other women but forbid your wife to make herself 'ridiculous' by ness Y9u tell him who you could have married You slap his can off wearing one You get someone else to buy your wife's birthday present— if he even glances at another woman :if you remember the date at all And youdon't like his friends" "You can drive a car and so can As a husband you can probably see some familiar things in this list of : your wife—if you're not in it You make her listen to your worn-ojokes manly behaviorisms year in and year out and get sore "You tell your wife how lucky she when she doesn't laugh" is to have you You read the paper ut 1 ut t "IMMO oror vt OM : SO much for your mar 1 ball-and-cha- in" 9 Ai 9 t'at 1 - Ode - : : ed |
