Show 4 THE SALT LAKE TRIBUNE 1 1 M ' Twenties’ Most Unsatisfactory Years 1 OCTOBER 3 1937 HEART TO HEART TALKS— By Kathleen Norris A 4 SUNDAY MORNING Romantically By Robert L Ripley BELIEVE IT OR NOT Speaking Declares Famous Authority 1 “Eear Mrs Norris: I am old and have liked a certain school high cause feeling of Be- tour years ago him never for have I days my Years boy since 23 paid any particular attenI- - tion othar- - any but have saved all my love for Juto boy In the lian be- ginning our friendship we to say used how much we - would Jilts to be e n gaged of for about yearawent and two about together “Julian went east June to l&’w firm start work with He is not as yet making enough money to support a wife' but I have a little money and we would have checks from uncles his parents etc to start us off “However although he came back apparently delighted to see me and We had one or two happy evenings of dancing together since then he has been dropping away and now 1 feel as if I had no hold on him at all There Is no one else I am sure of that but unleu I telephone or get in touch with - him every few days I feel as If he might never ring me up or come out in the evening “My older sister Sally was the victim of s very unhappy affair last her young man breaking- off year their engagemert after the invitations to th®' wedding were actually in the mail since when she has hardly gone out of the house She advises me to this turning father’s his - send for talk with bim and for alL Do you think this would be Wise? "If not how can I get him back? I am getting nervous over the whole thing and don’t feel ono bit satisfied to let things go on this way 1s it possible that Julian is feeling the same do but is too shy and awkward way as boys often are to clear it up? Or and have an honest fettling the matter once Julian I he could possibly with some girl willing dening me to tell have to tbis In in very have been flirting the east and be unabout it? It is mad- day after day go by summer when 1 had dreamed of being married afld have him make no sign Please advise dis“Roberta” tracted It's NT o Problem at An My dear Roberta: You are not the first Kiri no nor the thousandth girl has writfen about this exact la that it problem really is no problem at all it is a simple fact Julian probably likes you and thinki you an attractive enough and wishes he never need see girl you again that is the brutal truth If Julian heard that your lather was who The me sad thing would be relieved Young men like to feel free in matters of the heart Free very often ' he V-- efr‘ to marry the wrong girl and wreck their lives but gf course they don’t know that Julian has changed in his year away from borne he has begun To to appreciate his independence find you affectionate and clinging all ready to act the wedding bells ringing probably startled and irked bim Then remember he found you changed too Instead of the joyous happy high school chum he found an -- exacting woman scared bitter experience What you and Sally must do now is return to yoqr previous status make yourselves happy busy interested wowho are not bothering about men beaus Regain that very charm that Julian used to like and you may regain Julian with it This is your only And hope as far as he is concerned anxious by i her frankly and sister’s man lias for years When a slim one once had an affair lasting with a woman that is the woman in the world who it is a last going to lure very But there him again Is Roberta and you and are othef men like thousands of other women Sally may find yourselves happy wives and mothers one of these days able to laugh at the agonies and humiliations -- I these trying years Personally may I say In an aside 1 consider the early of 4) twenti-r- s the mohtcom factory time of life? Here’s Dolores asking advice in the situation that arises when young persons change their minds AFTER mar- — riage — “Lee and love when I— iye In were married seven years ago” nher Jetter says “I was We 19 then and he two years older had a tiny hot three-roobungalow ns modify and soon a big aweet baby boy who almost wrecked his poor little mother with his colic and his nutrition difficulties Lee worked hard and I worked hard and it was all right while we loved each other “My mother asked Baby Lee and me to go up to the mountains for two months when little Lee was 3 and it was when I came back that I discovered that my husband had been run- nlng around with another Yirl Mrs Norris it simply crushed me 1 couldn’t believe it and for a few weeks we lived in the same house and shared the same room without speaking to each other Wife Regrets Retaliation "Then there was a sort of reconciliation and Lee promised not ever again even to see this grass widow who by the way is a professional home wrecker and thinks no man can resist her This went on until Christmas and I then learned that she had a yob town and that his busi-- n ir a near-b- y s trips there were really to see her "What I did in retaliation I don’t defend I know it was very wrong But all my old love for Lee had turned into hate and I treated him to a dose of his own medicine I went dancing and dining with an old friend of school days and one day when Lee in a mood of contrition made a sort of confession to me I made the same sort of confession to him He was stunned and for a few days nothing but bitter recriminations were to be heard in our house We decided on an immediate divorce each to have little Lee for six months a year "Then several things happened The man with whom I had been playing around got married I think because he was afraid of being mixed into our divorce case Then Lee threatened to sue me and ask for little Lee all the time Then I threatened to bring the name of his friend the widow into the case And right in here his mother who had been offering him and my little boy a comfortable home died and left quite a pack of debts He Seeks Reconciliation "Lee - Implored me not to mention Ethyl as she had had a good chance to marry an old man which would be ruined if scandal touched her name He assured me that their affair was ail over he was tired of her had never cared much for her and was sorry about the whole wretched thing He Is making good money now and we had started to buy a very pretty home with a nice back yard front garden and some oaks "Now he wants to be reconciled and what I am asking you is Would it be any use? In my heart I hope you will say yes Perhaps we do not love each other as once we did but we seem to belong together and then there is little Lee who loves us both Do you think there is any possibility of our mcpffding with a ipeond trial?” That’s part of the letter and the answer is that I do believe you can make a success of marriage and 1 believe further that more of that early love survives than either of you know There is something deep and abiding in the marriage relationship whether we choose to believe it or not something in those early days of heat and struggle and poverty and young responsibility that binds you two together Must Forget the Past Make an honest effort to build a real marriage upon this young mistaken start And for a first essential wipe away the past Or if you speak of it and its bitter mistakes speak of them as lessons that taught you the value of each other and home and parenthood School yourself to endure his occasional reference to what you did when he is tired nervous rasped about some business worry Don’t retort then that ha showed you the way this argument never holds with men Be patient and await the moment when he will say “I had no business to talk to you that ' You were terribly sweet about way it You see there is still a double code Dolores where this particular thing ii concerned and even your most liberal-minde- d friends would consider that what you did was much worse than what Lee did You were equally wrong PAUL RGLENISTEfc Chita a ACE 14 26 24 2 m But it really can be forgiven ahd for- gotten if you will bring to it everything that you have of patience and gentleness To “M M” I want to say that she Is insisting upon somethingthat will cause her as well as everyone else con- r Ja 5 26 BONES YOU HAVE N YOUR SPINE' MORE IN THAT CHEST OF THINE RIBS AND BONES in EACH SHOULDEROnE IN FRONT ONE IN BACK IN EACH ARM TO GIVE A GOOD WHACK LITTLE BONES in EACH ONE OF YOUR WRI5TS BONES IN EACH PALM TO MAKE A GOOD FIST BONES IN YOUR FINGERS TEN BONE IN EACH HIPANDTHEN 2 - Bone in each thigh if you please BONEtmcKNEEPAN in each one of your knees 2 Bones in each leg and theyare quite long 7 bones in each ankle to make them strong BALL EACH FOOT 5 BONES ARE THERE IN THE 28 bones injhe toes are put 14 BONES IN YOUR DEAR ’ OF FACETS SAID 6 Bonesare there your heao 3 BONES IN IN each listening ear make 206 BONES IN ALLMY DEAR most Southerly Church IN THE WORLD GRYTVIKEN SOUTH GEORGIA ANTARCTIC AllLivma Matter is COHN C ARBON O XYGEN Hydrogen N itrogcn yx ri rvy tulip GROWN without LEAVES V ND by ED HILL EtyNevoAi Kirkalw 1869 Johnny “Cigars" Connors MAKE caH SOU WORD HAD TO SINK A oxbory Massachusetts ONE TOWINTHE Smokes SO cigars a Pay ! andTwelve at one Time 0Src3VJ0R°5 yoN Worn BRITISH 4 OPEN CHAMPIONSHIP AND -- T Wi SS Kerf EXPLANATION OF TODAY’S CARTOON All Item 1937 Copyright Hoivjo Be H(ippy After Havng Been Married 70 Years "What does it take Tor a successful marriage pne as Successful as ours? Well nothing more than the patience of Job and the wisdom of Solomon” That is the simple formula of Dyke Garrett a mountaineer preacher and his wife Sally of Logan W Va who c? rnedy only great unhappiness in the end Her good parents! her friends her whole community will suffer if she after an absence from home of several months returns with a baby and boldly assumes the position of an r unmarried mother' Even if as she says she is sure "some of the girjs” suspect what ts going on they don’t KNOW and in a fey yeaYs they will be scattered their interest drawn to their own affairs and the whole thing almost for- gotten Go away have your baby and leave And then come hitj for adoption home and get into some work that absorbs your end try to be of some service and comfort to those whose confidence in you has been so terribly Don’t shadoiy their lives shattered and the child’s by insisting 'upon a course that has never yet been successfully fallowed in all the thousands of cases hkeyour own Copyright 1937 for The Tribune for The Tribune have made marriage work for 70 years without “a hitch ami it’s still goin’ on” Garrett and his wife celebrated the'ir seventieth wedding date recently and were overjoyed when "a couple of folks from the big towns came up just to see the woman who could stand livin’ with the same man for 70 years” Celebrated as hardly the word lor' their anniversary Garrett and his wife didn’t have a party didn’t call the folk from around Big Creek to see them they just "so£t of had another day like we always did” To- - Garrett and his wife recollections of their life together appear to more interesting than the fact that “Miss another year has just ended Sally” can look back and still remember when she was a "Dixie girl” and married Garrett when he was a Confederate soldier who stood "6 foot 3 without his shoes and wasn’t a’fear’d o’ nothin’ dead or alive” She can remember when he was con- -' verted to religion and became “the babtizenist circuit ridin' preacher in these parts” She can recall and so can Garrett mornings that it was he had to break ice in mountain creeks to do his ‘‘babtizin’” and occasions It was so cold his boots froze to stirrups of the saddle on his mule Garrett sand that while he was out on the circuit up and down the mountains as far as southern West Virginia “Miss Sally" would stay at home be Corn Grown in Tanks Upon 466 Bushels to Acre Ratio The corn belt may lose Its identity if experiments conducted by two Ohio scientists prove practical Dr V H Morris and Dr J D Sayre of the Oho agricultural experiment station -- at Wooster grew corn this yeat without soil says a - United Press dispatch Stalks more than 11 feet high were produced In tnks containing nothing but water and a chemically proper diet of plant food They were said to compai favorably with stalks of the same variety produced by normal field culture Other stalks equally normat' were grown with their roots in pebbles Agricultural experts point out that nutrition of plans grown in this manner is wholly under control and that valuable studies in botany are pos- ' three-fourth- of s a pound the theo- retical yield of the tank culture corn would be 466 bushels to the acre as compared with 116 in the field sible The method has been used not only for corn but in greenhouses for the production of tomatoes and other food plants Flowers said to produced d by field superior to those culture have been be without jown In their soil ’experiment with corn the Ohio scientists used hybrid strains in an effort to determine whether disease attacked it as it does field corn Little difference was noted Far in advance ot their undertaking the experts worked out a diet for the The solution used contained corn Gjiifiili selves and a "middlin’ siz?d” family ot nine children One thing neither of them fill aver feud forget was the Hatfield-McCo- y As the McCoys picked off the Hatfields Circuit Rider Garrett extolled each one's virtues 'Why back when Anse Hatfield was born Garrett had "babtized” him held in tanks made of sheet iron coated with asphalt 5 feet long by 2’ j feet wide and 9 inches deep ’Each tank supported 12 plants four times the rate at Which corn normally is planted In Ohio fields The plants were fed by approximately five gallons — “ Tjf solution The rate at which the corn was planted in the trays would yield 43000 plants per- - acre as compared with 10 000 per acre in a field Observers reported that on the assumption that the ears of com weighed and that an Wie same in both case would weigh average ear of aybrid-eor- n the same ratio as they were found to occur m field corn Solutions were analyzed weekly and the Important elements replaced as needed Oxygen was supplied to the roots by blowing air through the solutions at frequent intervals The corn was planted in frays covered with hardware cloth “the solution! 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