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Show Page 9 APRIL 23, 1986 Miss Davis County contest seeks entries Obituary KAYSVILLE-Th- e Davis County Fair may still be months off, in the heat of summer, but its not too early to start planning for competition in the Miss Davis County Fair Scholarship Pageant. Ralph L. Cottrell Ralph Layton Cottrell, 90, of 163 S. 200 W., Kaysville, died Friday, April 18, 1986 at the Humana Hospital of causes incident to age. TO BE STAGED Tuesday, Aug. at 8 p.m. in the Davis High School auditorium, the annual event is 6 open to young women years old. Other qualifying rules require at least six month:, residency in the county for eligibility plus status of high school senior or graduate at contest time, according to Kathy Skidmore of Layton, whos helping put much of the fair together 5 HE WAS born Dec. II, 1895 in Mountain View, Alberta, Canada, a son of James Alfred and Edith Sarah Layton Cottrell. On Feb. 11, 1921 he married Vera Estella Layton in the Salt Lake LDS Temple. The couple celebrated their 65th anniversary last Feb. 11, 1986. HE WAS a member of the Kaysville 16th Ward where he had served as High Priest Group Leader, Seventies President and home teacher. He had also served as a sealer in the Ogden LDS Temple. He and his wife served an LDS mission to Canada. He was a life long resident of Kaysville, attending school there. HE WORKED as a farmer and as a miller for Utah Poultry and Farmers Coop, and was a veteran of World War I. Surviving are his widow of Kaysville, two sons and three daughters; Frank L. Cottrell, Ralph L. Cottrell, Jr., South Ben-nio- n; Ogden; Mrs. Douglas (Helen) Nelson, Salt Lake City; Mrs. Walter (Ruth) Doman, Sacramento, Calif.; Anne Hackley, Missoula, Mont.; sixteen grandchildren and fifteen HE WAS preceded in death by three sisters and two brothers. Services were held Tuesday, April 22 at the Kaysville 1st Ward Tabernacle with Bishop Kyle R. Stephens officiating. A pageant information-preparation- In addition to naming the queen and two attendants, awards will be given for talent, congeniality and " meeting, open to those interested in the Davis County Fair and other upcoming competitions, will be held May 1, 10 a.m.-- 3 p.m. at Weber State College in Ogden. Those interested in more Prizes and valuable scholarships will be awarded in all of those categories, she notes. Most Photogenic. Hearst at 626-634- 9. THOSE WISHING to enter the Davis pageant will be judged Shades Of through a private interview, evening gown, swimsuit and talent com-petition- s, Mrs. Skidmore indicates, with talent limited to two mi- Kelley Greene nutes, 50 seconds, or less. Child abuse lunch set COTTRELL FAMILY prayer was by Frank L. Cottrell; prelude, LuAnn Lyman; opening prayer, Lewis Blood; In conjunction with National Child Abuse Month, the Davis Family Support Center, 1141 W. Antelope Dr., Layton will hold a luncheon Saturday, April 26, 12 p.m. at Oakridge Country Club in Farmington. fund-raisin- In My Fathers House Are Many Mensions by Anne C. Hackley accompanied by LuAnn Lyman; life sketch. Bishop Ralph L. Cottrell Jr., remarks, Rulon KilPerfect Day, by 'Bishop lian; Frank L. Cottrell; remarks, Bishop Haroild Gailey; remarks, Bishop Kyle Stephens. Dedication of the grave was by Ralph Cottrell Jr. with interment in the Kaysville City Cemetery. PALLBEARSRS were Bradley R. Cottrell, Ralph Layton Cottrell III, Gregory Cottrell, Stephen Hackley, Paul Hackley, Douglas Nelson and Walter Doman. Funeral directors, Lindquists Kaysville Mortuary. g THE SUPPORT center is a personal care facility for children facing an emergency crisis situation, cases often involved in child neglect or abuse. Children ages eight and under can live at the center up to 72 hours in a safe. HE WAS born June 10, 1983 in Layton. his are Surviving parents of Kaysville, two brothers and one sister, Joshua Dell Winward, Joseph R. Winward and Sarah Elizabeth Winward, all of Kaysville. environment. Professional counseling is also available for the children and their parents or home-lik- e (292-2183- MRS. GREEN serves on the cenwith Utah Sen. Haven Barlow, Karen Letts, Ann Benson, Milt Schaum, Sam Lee, Lynn Trenbeath and Monica Newsome. Morgan; medley of songs by Matthew Naylor; benediction, Rene F. Winward. Naylor; prelude, Lois Rasmussen; medley of songs by Joshua, Sarah and Joseph Winward, Rachel, Rebecca and Alexis Naylor, Jana Marie Frisby, accompanied by Dedication of the grave was by LaDell Winward with interment in the Kaysville City Cemetery. Elementary menus Lunch menus for the elementary schools for the week of April 28 include: dressing, French bread applesauce, chocolate chip cookie and milk. Kindergarten snack, carrots, combread Jello jewels banana piece and milk. Kindergarten snack, banana piece and milk. WEDNESDAY, April 30, Italian spaghetti, shades of green salad w- - and milk. able salad cherry shortcake and milk. Kindergarten snack, bread stick WEDNESDAY, April 30, taco salad, cinnamon rolls and milk. Jr. high choice, BBQ beef sandwich. MONDAY, April 28, Italian spaghetti, shades of green salad French bread with butter, applesauce, almond sugar cookie and milk. High schools have a choice each day of burger bar or salad line. Jr. high choice, Thursday, May 1, barbeque chicken, potato salad on lettuce leaf, baked beans, parkerhouse rolls fresh fruit cup, chocolate brownies and milk. Jr. high choice, stacked ham sandwich. footlongs. Tuesday, April 29, chicken steak, whipped potatoes gravy, buttered carrots, hot butter and honey blueberry pie and milk. Jr. choice, cheeseburger. Funeral directors, Kaysville Lindquists Mortuary. rolls cup, high FRIDAY, May 2, baked fish sauce, tator rounds frozen mixed vegetables, cornmeal bowknots banana pudding, fondant cookies and milk. Jr. high choice, hamburger. i McCombs Funeral Mass for Mildred B. McCombs were held Wdnesday, April 16 at St. Rose of Lima Catholic Church with Father Michael Kailock CSP officiating. She died April 13, 1986. HOLY ROSARY was held Tues- day, April at Lindquist's Clearfield Chapel. Interment was in the Lindquists Memorial Gardens of the Wasatch. Pallbearers were Dennis James Thurell, Jack Howard, Pat Herman, Lou Ridl and Steve Montoya. y, h, Send your questions today and watch for Kelley each week. , HE PLAYED semi-pr- o baseball in Salt Lake City and enjoyed fishing. He lived most of his adult life in Montana before moving to Layton Joan Duckworth, West Valley Cit-two stepsons and three stepdaughters, William Farrar, Farmington; Jeffery Healy, serving in y; the U.S. Navy; Mrs. Edward (Geraldine) Merkley, Vernal; Mrs. Robert (Linda) Moore, Ogden; Susan Allen, Salt Lake City; 19 grandchildren and 20 great- grandchildren. Also surviving are two sisters, Mrs. Amos (Frances) Fullmer, Bountiful; Mrs. Robert (Martha) McIntyre, Kearns. He was preceded in death by one son and two brothers. in 1981. SURVIVING are his widow of Layton; one son and one daughter; Ronald Holst, Washington; Mrs. SERVICES were held Thursday, April 17 at the Spanish Fork City Cemetery. Funeral directors, Myers Layton Mortuary. 1 self-estee- m Glen J . Holst Glen James Holst, 71, of 1500 N. Angel, Layton, died Monday, April 14, 1986 at St. Benedicts Hospital of arteriosclerotic disease. HE WAS born Feb. 18, 1915 in Spanish Fork, a son of Paul L. and Metti V. Neilsen Holst. He married Theda D. Healy on June 5, 1981 in Great Falls, Mont. A recent conversation with a friend reminded me of an incident which occurred a few years ago. My daughter came home from her last day as a high school junior, excited about all of the activities associated with the closing of the school year. She sank down into a chair with a sigh, and I expected that she would tell me how happy she wasforthe summer vacation. Instead she said, Next year will really be hard. Im on the yearbook staff, student council, in Madrigals and accompanist for Concert Choir. Besides that, I have three A.P. classes, the musical e job. Of course I have to practice production, and my three hours a day, and Im taking an early morning class... About that time I asked if we could go over her schedule a little more slowly. By the time we had gone through everything which would be expected of her, she was in tears. How can I do it, she sobbed. Im so tired now I could sleep for a week, and this year hasnt been anything like next year is going to be." I thought back to a book, Walden Pond, by Henry David several times. Often Thoreau, which I had read and had wondered if there was any solution for the rushed and hurried feeling which seems to surround so much of living. Like many others, my tendency had been to feel that I could do anything, or more correctly, any number of things. I would get so caught up in the excitement of a project, or feel the necessity of doing just one more thing, that I would fail to add up how many things I was committed to and what the demands on my time would be. Before I knew it, I would have too many things left undone at the end of my time, just as sometimes I have too much month left over at the end of my money. Now, here was my daughter, imitating me and other adults she saw, and unwittingly becoming caught in the trap of overinvolvement. Sad experience had taught me the necessary steps she would need to take to untangle herself from her predicament. I had her list on paper all of her activities in order of their importance to her. She had not gone too far down the page, when she realized that except for time spent eating and sleeping, she had already used up almost every available hour. The choices were obvious: either cut some things out and do well at what was left, or try to do everything, and end up doing nothing very well. As she realized that should she try to do it all, she would most likely end up frustrated, and not thinking very well of herself, she knew that the only alternative was to let some things go. It seems easy to fall into the trap of feeling that we must dp everything. As my friend and I talked, we discussed an organization to which we both belonged. We observed how many people in our group didnt seem to be very committed to our e plans and goals. Many came to our meetings part of the time, but not regularly. Others came late or left early. It was difficult to get a group that was cohesive enough to accomplish our aims. I thought back over the incident with my daughter, and several other things in my life which made me feel that the Variety of reasons given for these incosistencies was the same thing. Many of these people had tried to take on more than they could manage, and as a result, this one particular commitment was suffering. I think we could safely assume that other obligations were suffering likewise. As a result of overprogramming myself at different times in my life, and with the help of Thoreau, I've come to appreciate the meaning of the word. Simplify. Periodically, it is a wise idea to sort our life by listing all of our involvements in order of their importance to us. Our first few listings will probably take most of our time, so if we have a very long list, those toward the bottom will suffer. Over the years 1 have found that my credibility rises with my ability to do what is also improved when 1 Ive commited to do. My at hand to my own and others am able to complete the tasks April 9, 1986 Ricky and Nancy Dean, Fruit Heights, boy April 10, 1986 Bounthone and Oulay Lokham, Clearfield, girl April 11, 1986 Michael and Jayne Gailey, Syracuse, boy Gary and Janet Hamblin, Syracuse, boy April 13, 1986 Alan and Susan Winter, Hooper, boy Carl and Robin Helton, Layton, girl April 14, 1986 Martin and Cheryl Preator, Clinton, boy for C. Starnes Mildred B. BounUful, Utah 84010 long-rang- April 8, 1986 H. Kevin and DeAnn Homer, Syracuse, girl Lee and Edwina Allen, Ogden, boy Robert and Holly Butters, Sandy, girl Services held Hen-ness- fried Local births Saez. Charles Donald Starnes, 46, of 722 N. Hope Circle, Layton, died Wednesday, April 9, 1986 of leukemia. HE WAS born June 19, 1934, in Hildebran, North Carolina, a son of Charles Willard and Ruth Jarrett Starnes. He married Jean Transue Oct. 6, 1973 in Layton. He was an occupational safety and health specialist in Air Munitions Management Division at Hill Air Force Base. He was in the U.S. Air Force for 20 years, serving in Vietnam and Thailand. HE WAS an active member of the Professional Archery Association and other archery organizations throughout the state. Surviving are his widow of Layton, one son and six daughters, Michael Starnes, Layton; Sandra Graves, Clearfield; Genia Roy; Jackie Funk, GoodTracie Starnes, Ogden; Ida.; ing, Donna Starnes, Clearfield; Kristie Starnes, Layton and three grandchildren; SERVICES were held Friday in the Myers Mortuary Chapel in Layton. Interment in the Fort Douglas Cemetery where military honors were accorded by the Hill Air Force Base Color Guard. Contributions may be made to the University of Utah Cancer and Leukemia Research Department. Clipper Publishing Co. P.O. Box 267 Attn.: Kelley Greene re-re- FRIDAY, May 2, barber pole weiner, buttered corn, crisp veget- Lunch menus for the secondary schools for the week of April 28 include: Dell Winward, Seth Naylor, Matthew Naylor and Rodolfo George Kendon Naylor; eulogy, Kevin Dodge; remarks, Bishop Gaylen Sprague; speaker, Ray Davis County part-tim- bread stick and milk. Thursday, May 1, fried chicken, pars-lie- d whipped potatoes MONDAY, April 28, pizza, green beans, carrot and celery sticks, sliced peaches, gingersnap cookie and milk. Kindergarten snack, cookie and milk. Tuesday, April 29, French dip sandwich tator tots apple slice and orange section, peanut butter finger, milk. Kindergarten snack, peanut butter PALLBEARERS were Joshua Kaye Anderson; invocation, a uniquely Of course, Id be happy to... ters Board of Directors Secondary menus WILLIAM ANDREW WINWARD We welcome reader questions and hope to create forum herein. Send your ideas and question to: ). ? ALSO surviving are his grandparents, Mr. and Mrs. Rene F. Winward, Logan; Mr. and Mrs. George Kendon Naylor, Centerville; Mr. Answers Shades of Kelly Green is both an issues and answers column featured weekly in The Davis County Clipper and the Weekly Reflex. Kelley is happy to answer your questions, and will also contribute y columns on issues and events found in our world and in living. guardians. Luncheon tickets for a $20 donation are available at the center of by contacting Eleanor Green & 24-ho- ur finger and milk. FAMILY PRAYER, John 524-488- 0. information may contact Judy Issues William Andrew Winward, son of LaDell and Sidney Naylor Winward of 624 S. Main, Kaysville, died Wednesday, April 9,. 1986 at the Humana Hospital Davis North. and Mrs. Fielding Winward, Whitney, Idaho; Mr. and Mrs. Marvin Neeley, Franklin, Ida. Services were held April 12 at the Kaysville 11th Ward with Bishop Gaylen Sprague officiating. FURTHER information is avail- able by calling Troy Thornton, chairman of the pageant, at Bill Blimes of Kaysville is overseeing all fair activities, under the direction of County Com. Harold Tippetts. 17-2- William Winward : this year. satisfaction. There is nothing wrong in saying No." It is neither a weakness nor a character flaw to admit to ourselves and others that we have reached our limit both in time and ability. It is wrong to agree to do something and then not follow through. Several people of my acquaintances say yes to everything. They feel that giving the correct answer is more important than doing the correct thing, and that no one will notice if they fail to do w hat was agreed upon. This lack of commitment has a ripple effect, and it is impossible to tell how many are affected by failing to keep our word. As we short through our responsibilities and commitments, we each find on our lists many things which come under the heading of have to do. These obligations are abundant in each life. Since this is the case, it seems important to me to make sure that with the time we have left, we include some things that we want and like to do. This adds richness and color to the fabric of our life, which may become dull if we do only the things we have to do. Likewise, doing some things just because they need doing, builds character and discipline, as well as serving others. Providing a balance in our lives is necessary, though sometimes difficult. However, life will be more satisfying, both to ourselves and others, if we limit our commitments to the things we can do and for which others can depend on us. Our and the respect of others for us will be commensurate with our ability to keep the promises we have made. Sorting out and simplifying our lives will help us to see more clearly what we can and canhot do, making us feel better about ourselves and others. self-respe- ct Kelley Greene |