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Show c w-w- ,r'V w v w " w m rmr rr" wvw-- w w w"'w w ,i'Yrv ?'" 'T'" g Child Behavior Wednesday, June17, 1944 DESERET NEWS AND TELEGRAM, Can Inferiority feelings Be Overcome? . By THE GESELL INSTITUTE Dear Doctors: Tm writing to you in desperation regarding my Amanda. Ive tried so hard but seen unable to penetrate her feelings of inferiority. Amanda is liked by everyone but she wont believe that this Is true. Her teachers keep saying that she is very capable, but she wont believe it and thus does average messy wort If things dont go well socially she gets awfully upset and doesnt evenseem to know what class she is in. - very much if mere feelings of inferiority are causing her to do grade, and socially well liked and successful with her friends, then you can assume., as you do, that its all In her mind.. If thats the case, then do what you reasonably can to as- sure her of her worth and worthiness and thenTtELAX. Some people seem to have an almost neurotic inability to believa themselves loved and appreciated. Some of them enjoy suf- average, messy work. I Check, too, on her sodal problems. What kind of problems are they? Why is she having trouble? Is she for instance the kind of a girl who does well in a structured social situation but very badly when left on her own? Are the other girls, perhaps, too mature for bar? , That is, start out by assuming that there may be' some reason for her difficulties. Just because sKVlooks so good to you is no guaranty, that Things could not be Improved in the outside objective world as well as in her mind. You will probably find things that can be changed. But if , hot if the school assures you that she is bright, in the right No matter what I say, she seems convinced that she is nobody and nothing, absolutely worthless. How can I convince this child of her worth, that she is important and that she is lovqd? Answer: first of all, realize that youre not going to solve this problem by talking. Amanda may really be unable to do the work 'of her grade. If this is the case, telling .her that she could do it if only she would try is not going to solve anything. Check with the school and find out whats die matter. Is she in the right grade? Is she in the right kind of school? We doubt . 03 fering.. Dont take It as your responsibility to convince her of this worthwhileness which she denies. Its the same as when your child insists that you dont love him. You can assure him that you do, and show him that you do, but if he still insists that you dont, YOU shouldnt accept the burden of proving that you do, because you will just knock yourself out to no avaiL 3 . Top quality from our regular 'stock of fabrics dotted fabrics swiss Select from Oxford Dacron polyester and cottoa 45 wide, washable and Doth, Sportswear Sateen, .Cotton and Shantung .Sportswear many others. 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