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Tex. 77011. without attacks on one another's character or personality. Anything less than this can usually be reconciled. Analysis and criticism of a mate's behavior are often used to mask repressed hostility. Examples: "You don't seem at ease with people." "Where's your "Must you wear those awful hats?" "Did you have to tell all those dumb jokes to the company tonight?" Another way of "getting at" one's mate is by presenting an image of depression, illness, and suffering. The household martyr is a familiar figure. It can be either a man or a woman, and it doesn't take long before the individual has the whole house feeling guilty or irritated about the martyr's woes. Tho thro main tests for marital survival are: (1) Can you fight and still remain friends ? (2) Can you fight and still be partners? (3) Can you fight and resume courtship behavior and a happy love life ? When these three ships of marriage-friends- hip, partnership, and courtship are sailing smoothly, it may be the time for family formation. This could be the biggest test of all. If a marriage is not solidly grounded in these three essentials, the chil- dren suffer the most squabOftentimes, a good ble is needed to clear the air. For instance, man turned over most of his a salary to his wife. He observed her conduct ed good-natur- ed urns niTiais Vhsn Yen Miracle r4nic DENTURITE rtfcd loose denture in five min uses, Tbii "Ciuhioe of Com ion" aae tore sum . You at anything. nmm without Laugh, talk. embarrattiaeiM. No more food particle under plait. DENTURITE Ism for month. End daily bother of powder, MlM A, rtlftlltfMlft- - 1ut MRIOe By Grta Fra et Odorkss. Money back guarantee. At ail drug counter. The aanae ami mw sm anaoxol far abawy by Fammy Wmttg, mrj fa. AafMGaV lata? taHL fttYej SNa9a rev and thought she was extremely stingy, going blocks for a can of coffee that cost a few cents less, and economizing very closely in other ways. He said nothing for a long time, being rather stoic by nature. Finally, he could stand it no lortgsr and blew up. She, in turn, blurted out that she had been squeezing every cent so they could have enough money saved to go on a second honeymoon together. She said that she actually enjoyed going to great lengths to conserve money. Once the matter was out in the open, the man was glad to help economize to make any 14 Family Wtskly, May S, 1970 possible the trip she had planned. The wife, on the other hand, learned to talk things over more with her taciturn but observing husband. Sometimes not fighting can bring serious discord into a marriage. Some years ago intellectuals in the a pair of avant-gard- e Greenwich Village section of New York City decided to follow the plan cf a writer who advocated separate apartments. Soon the wife began dating other men. Her husband, proud, sensitive, and sophisticated, took no obvious notice of this and never mentioned his concern. The wife, taking his attitude for indifference, finally divorced him and remarried. If we can realize that most of the actions which come across as hateful and s, angry are caused by insecurity or then half the battle will be over because we can then be compassionate or understanding. Quite often, outside influences such as are the cause of marital' squabbling. Perhaps the wife wants to invite her family over for a holiday dinner. The husband had planned to invite his family. What can they do? Well, they might ask a few from each family, or take turns hers this year and his next year. Continual criticism is very likely to kill affection. And there's a big difference between constructive criticism and constant nagging, picking away at small weaknesses and tearing away another's While it is important to know feelings of anger and at times to express them, if too frequent or too intense anger rages, it becomes apparent that they are out to destroy each other. Sometimes the damage is so great that professional help must be sought, but the fcsuma may bs too great to save the relationship. If something is bothering you, say so. Try to remain polite, to let a little love shine through, and try to maintain a sense of humor. defen-sivenes- in-la- |