Show 1 t K BY AMY ADAMS 4 4 t WHEN MOTHERS FIGHT EVERYONE LOSES LOSES LOSES' I I Dear Amy Recently while visiting my son and his wife wiCe his mother law and I got cot into an nn argument My Myson Myson Myson son left leet tho the room roost saying he ho was not going to get involved Ills his mother mother law in law has a sharp tongue She made mado a very nasty remark and I gave her a well deserved deserved de de- served slap across the lice face She struck me back knocking me to the tho floor Moor then she got on top of oC me mo pinning me down She struck me several se more times and would not let lct me up until I apologized All this time neither my son nor his wife wire intervened His Ills wife wiCe Is just like her mother Afterwards he said he be forewarned forewarned forewarned fore fore- warned us that ho he would not get involved I was so angry that I haven't spoken to them since Do you jou OU think that I should forgive forgive for for- give them my son and his wife wICe Also how bow can I repay his mother in law for her vicious attack at tack upon me I anxiously await your our advice ad and will viii abide by your jour our decision BR DR Dear Bill BR If theres there's am anything worse than two ill tempered lerel men slugging It Ladies out cut its it's two lass women dont don't permit a 1 el verbal bal argument to degenerate Into a knockdown knock drag out drag out battle baUle And Its It's your jour our fault for slapping her first no matter I what hat the provocation Stay away sway from each other In Inthe Inthe Inthe the fui future ure Your son should have havo stepped In and amI stopped stop you both regardless regardless regard regard- less of what ho said However er its it's time to make peace with your joui our children hildren as you should not hold them responsible for your jour per personal personal fracas I CO o 0 PERSONAL TO Mrs hairs Chapman Chapman- You certainly do not have to put up with a 11 truck load of high explosives parked in front of your house There are arc ordinances against the tho improper storage o of same Call the tho police e eDear Dear Amy I Just read one of the letters you OU receive every week The letter let let- ter involved a 14 year old girand girl gir girland girland and a 11 21 year old man and the girl lost lies her boyfriend over a 11 stupid phone call This girl asked you what to do and you said she was still a little girl who enjoys playing games whilo while her friend Is a man who doesn't s want to play and to find a young boy joy her age age Amy I am 20 years ears old and I Ilove love 10 a man who Is 39 I 1 also have havea a sister who is 15 and she loves Joves lovesa a man 27 years ears old My fy sister and I are very mature for our n nages ages and dont don't think it is right for you jou ou to tell this girl to get a younger boj boyfriend friend because she my sister and myself like many others when we love someone more than anything thing In Id the world age doesn't make a difference Concerned Dear Concerned I dont don't know about you and your YO sister but the 14 U year old oM girl you ou refer to was very Im im- mature The advice ad I gave her was lS gauged ganged by her mentality more so than her age gel Dear Amy Recently you OU published a letter letter let let- ter from a 17 year old girl asking asking ask ask- ing for help because she was in inlove inlove inlove love with a guy who was married before My Illy problem in a way is similar simi lar tar to hers Im I'm 21 years old and anel the guy Im I'm In love with Is 27 My Illy family and friends disapprove of oC me going with this guy because because be be- cause lies he's been married 3 times and ho he has lass one ono child They all believe Id I'd be the fourth mistake only they dont don't understand 1 I Ilove love him Am I supposed to give that love lov up to satisfy others Jane Jano I bleat Jane You arc are not supposed to sat sat- Isly others It Is up to you tl to determine whether hether your guy Is husband material since material since It Is un un- unI unusual I usual for a fellow of 27 to have havo already gone through 3 mar r. r rind find out why Some men are arc beautiful beaus but make horrible husbands r AMY ADAMS f e cro THIS TillS NEWSPAPER For Tor a personal reply enclose a stamped self addressed envelope |