| Show MADAME SCHUMANN S Advice to J June Brides 1 I V J IN THIS ARTICLE FOR THE BENEFIT OF THE yOU YOUN WIFE NOTED SINGER SAYS A FEW WORDS t j TO BRIDEGROOMS i By MADAME SCHUMANN SCHUMANN-HEINK F. F The Famous Diva I And now I want to say just a few words to the bridegroom When you turn from the altar aUar and put a first kiss on the lips of ot your bride you are sure that you rou havo have married an angel but after the first few months you will find that she whom you thought was an angel is only an nn ordinary woman For instance Before marria marriage o your wife wICe never seemed to have decided decided decided de de- de- de views on ones one's duty duly to society in fact she seem seemed cd quite as happy happ I as you to keep far ar orom the maddening mad mad- dening crowd Since that wedding however she has bas developed an alarming habit of or gadding galding about and insisting on your going with her She Is not content to remain at home borne more than one evening a week and then sho evinces great interest In your our red headed stenographer She does not seem to realize realise that you have enough of or the red headed stenographer dur In lag ing the day clay You are also astonished at the high cost of ot living and never had an idea that pretty hats and gowns cost coat so much and you ou sometimes wand or if it Is so hard to cook cool an egg or toast a piece picco of or bread erly erb prop prop- Of or course the dear girl Irl is all that you thought of but hut oh oil oh what a talker talk talk- er she also is Someway married life is not Just wh what t you expected it to be Is be-Is is it iou ou unconsciously thought you were getting a beautiful kind new of or toy which you desired more than anything since you wanted your first pair of ot topped red boots boots boots-a a toy that you could wind up for Cor pleasure your our own and put away in silence when yon you did not want to pia play Instead you are tied close with an other human being one being one with the same virtues and faults as have you The bands are beginning to chafe hafe How will you adjust yourself so that the places will not become unhealed un un- healed sores Do not put your wife wICe on n R tal tat She would much rather be the one woman you OU love than the o ono Olt woman you respect Tell her truthfully your income divide it into proper proportions and then let her run the household rind and living expenses as you rou do those connected con con- with your jour our business Do not look too closely Into her manner of doing it provided the re reo suIts are all right Do not be Jealous nor suspicious Above e all do not try to make her over different from the girl you mar mar- ned ried And now dear Bride of June the time has come conic to say God bless you and goodbye Je The other day lay I came across a bit bitof bitof bitof of poetry which has been heen singing ing in m my ears every time I have thought of you Love Love must kiss that mortals mortal's eyes Who ho hopes to see sec fair Arcady No gold can bu buy you entrance there But be Jard love can eau go o all bare No To wisdom won with weariness But love hove goes gocs on with folly's tolly's dross No io fame that wit could ever over win But only love lovo may lead love loye in To To ArcurY-To To Arcady It d Arcady oh oh all bride of ot June Is n an art easy place to find and havi hav found it YOU ou must be he over ever on y yo guard juard lest the envious fairies w late hate the tho happy lead head you OU away away darkness and dc despair r Nowhere on this lila broad earth c bride ride of Juno June is there a placer beautiful us as Arcady and the tho swe est eat wish that I can give to of or you who have read my 01 words that you OU shall dwell within its C cc fines Cines until death do 10 you OU part Goodbye to Brides But know you oh bride of ot Ju if you would live hive in iu Arcady y 7 must ever welcome loves love's soft tou ton upon your eyes that it may shut c o the ugliness of ot strife you yon must 1 J I love close your ears to whisper words of or jealousy and doubt y must make your lips the resti place of tender words so that wh timo time has blanched their crime crims youth to ages age's pallor love still W call them beautiful you must re re ye Izo tze that love e will never nover find t hands grown old which ha smoothed his achin aching brow wl when en 1 heart was wear weary with the storm a ni stress of every day i God pity them whose wander feet are aro ever er turned from the port porI of ot this Joyous domain 3 I God pity them more whose Joy eyes can look only to the tho count where love warms the flowers lowers j happiness to fullest bloom I t God pity them most who havi once known all aU the bliss which within must go from that fair la lai aJ to travel oer o'er the rugged roads j disillusionment disappointment a 31 ai regret i |