| Show I FEMININE Ali CORRECT iNO Tins Till Secret ot of la II Charm of The charm of manner consists In Its simplicity Its grace and Its sincerity A gra gracious lous presence and a voice have hae more power than ono one cnn can wen well estimate Training accent pushes much and n a mother or tea teacher her makes II a great grent mistake In not correcting those tau faults Its In children that will make them grow up to the Ungraceful and un unlovely lovely Children can enn be tran transformed formed b by cue care careful ful and corre correct t training One of the most disagreeable antI and unloved school schoolgirls girls ot of m my acquaintance became cune the most charming channing and p popular or of young matrons In society She Instinctively felt her lack ot of power to win friends and It made her unhappy She had often orten spoken ot of It to me Her faults fault wore fre mostly due to overindulgence of parents she being an only child She heard nn an eminent lecturer on the sub subject of beauty Ia the hems trio t r argued that It was tins ones duty to cultivate ate vate tact which he said embraced an all anthe the virtues and to try trio to OVer overcome ome the faults which created discord In the home From being unloved l both In manner and person she became the most loved loed and sought ROught after where sympathy and n a real friend were need needed needed ed Some of the requIsites that are need needed needed ed to become a woman are not so 80 herd hard t to practice A famous asked French woman was ask d how haw she had acquired such lIuch perfect elegance of bear bearIng bearing Ing and ease ense of manner and she reo re replied plied Dy By always behaving when alone alonen n as It If others were present Ah there Is the true secret e ret ot of thorough breeding It consists In the small sweet cour courtesies esles of everyday lite Ilfe First of all cultivate a well od pleasant manner of laugh laughIng Ing Nothing can atone for a high pitched loud voice olce You ma may have hae the tho face faco of an angel but It if you talk loudly and laugh boisterously you can never neer appear well bred I call to mind one In Instance Instance stance where a lady came to a dh city to live In a handsome home Her husband became a clubman the they had handsome traps and horses were fond of enter and they were rich enough to todo todo do so 80 on nn an elaborate scale but time the people never nOer gained a foothold In good society The difficulty was toe that the wife was considered unrefined and yet those who knew her Intimately said It was her loud voice olce and laughter whIch stamped her as Inelegant and debarred her from the circle she most desired Thoughtful attention to n a few rules adds greatly to one per personality We nil all like appreciation and commendation even praise and are the spirit showers that exhale sweet street odors about the soul of every human being Let us cultivate them and extend our influence We hear men and women tin say I dont rare care what people think This Is a mistake for tor we all care some thin timing for tor the estimates that Is put on our efforts our abilities and our chAr characters |
