Show I Life Lire or Always Alway e Al J Holds Out Dreams By the Wheeler Syndicate Ino Inc Isn't life liCe the contrary thing Alwa Always stuffing us on the bread and meat w wi w. have no appetite for tor and holding back bacle the gar S plum for tor which our mouths arT ai watering m Heres Here's a pathetic example for tor it 7 young man writes me that he Is in love lova with a girl who doesn't love him and I that a girl he doesn't love is in love with him and he wants to know how to ma mathe make the girl who doesn't love him fall taU In lo lowith love with him and the girl who does love hi him fall Call out o of love with him NO RECIPE RECIFE Alas Alas Alas' poor youth 1 Z am afraid that the theis there is no reliable recipe of or the follow tollow the these directions and you cannot fall fail kind f for winning a womans woman's heart as there is js s f for making sponge cake A girl falls faUs In m Jov love with a man for a million different re rca rca- sons or for no reason at all and w wh she prefers one man to another she ge genI gsa gen doesn't know herself 1 I Sometimes a girl falls taUs in love with a a. aman man because he is a a. carpet knight who whose step matches hers in the dance and wh whIs who Is 15 full of or gallantries and delicate atten atten- Again a brute who hands her ou out caveman stuff sweeps her off ot of ot her hen feet fee She may fall in love with a man because o ot his saintliness and spiritual look aa as witness the havoc preachers make malte amon among the fair tall sex but she sha is equally liable t te become enamored of a profligate with a lurid past palt and consider that she sho has a a. sacred mission to reform him and lead him up to the higher life Ufe DEPENDS ON WOMAN And there you are and nobody can te tell you jou ou what is the winning way with a a. woman For it depends not alone on ott tl the woman but on the particular mood sh she happens to be bo in Once upon a time I interviewed a bl big big big- on this vital subject lIe He had wooed and won twenty-seven twenty different women so was entitled to qualify as an expert guide to the feminine heart and ane he said Aw hAw any woman will fall for you jou if you will Just tal talk table to her about herse herself I II 4 I am inclined to think that the whole of the law and the prophets on how t tomake to tomake make a woman fall in love lova with you jou Is is contained In these words of ot wisdom and that practically any woman will fall faU i ilove In inlove love with any man I if he will keep th the J spotlight turned on her without wearyIng wearying weary weary- Ing or growing growing- tired J A m There are many reasons why this should be true One is that we Just naturally naturally nat nat- admire those who admire us Fora For a man to show a woman that he has singled her out of the whole herd o of woman as the most bea beautiful the most moat charming and fascinating and desirable I of oC her sex proves to her beyond all questioning that he is a man of great grea discernment of rare taste and sound r. r Judgment all an o of which are qualities must roust appeal to any woman LISTEN FOREVER Secondly the the- theman man who talks to r. r woman continually about herself Immediately Imme- Imme t becomes to her Jer er the most fascinating fasci- fasci conversationalist in the world She could listen to hll forever and then beg for tor a few Cew more words on the same caine subject The Tho things thing's that concern ou out ou selves are the most Important and Inter inter- esting things thing's on earth to us and we wa never weary of hearing them discussed The moat most learned scholar who ever lived h the wittiest t tm man the r adventurer adventure 1 tu fh who has had the m most hair r raising ex experiences ez- ez and tells s o of them i in the most o dramatic i manner n cannot a enchain n i ja a womans woman's attention as can the man who talks to her for hours upon hours about how beautifully the tha hair hall grows on tha nape of her neck and tells her how sl she looked in her new evening gown own at the ball last night Boredom is the great enemy to love bove I 1 both before and alter after marriage a woman begins to yawn and look at th t clock a man had as well grab his cand candY box and go home but no womans woman's interi est ever flags nags wl while she is Is' Is the thrilling t topic of or discussion and that is why whyman man who ho talks to a woman about he heis is pretty sure to win out She n nhim marries him in order to get a spellbinder for life companion M OTHER AIDS A h I O Of course there are other aids that C a. a J man may bring to his assault upon womans woman's heart Discreet gifts that sh that he has remembered some whim I o r sed ed wish of hers s delicate attentions t tI tha than prove his desire to make her happy a aR amft Indulgent and yet jet an Independent attitude attl atti tude towards her for Cor every woman trie to henpeck a man and despises or rf him according according- as he yields or re Above all making a girl feel thai i in he n is going to marry her whether i t b wants him or not all t these e break dow the wall o of a girls girl's resistance and makl I her run up the white flag nag of or surrenders surrender he her But feel eT most that potent she nis is of IT T all the is s one Just tada and makini makin t ther 11 t l woman in the world orld To be all and a aj tl i ito to some O than man Is a mania a an obsession with lt 1 tI afe i the entire female s sex and an woman will fall In love with any mil 11 who can convince her that she sha Is tl w whole o e shooting shooting- 0 match a c to him iI II As ec c for making a girl f fall out of oC ov ov t. t with a man that Is a still easier prod A little will do I. I 10 it I trick As a womans woman's love Is born horn o of a go so It is slain by faultfinding faultfinding- J K Women will endure neglect they w ilz forgive unfaithfulness they will wilt bea belt i hL with ever every fault and weakness of or a mat I and love e him still but let him i r P tr the way t they d dress and do t their hair tell them that they are getting too f fat fator 11 or too thin or correct their gramm gramma 4 15 and pronunciation and Cupid turns UW his toes and Its It's all over but the The man who knocks a woma kills her bel love with a bludgeon It 1 Is brutal wa way to do it but effective III After al aI aIr there is only one thing e. e easl i ithan than winning winning a womans woman's love and thais tha is losing it i mM Wt |