Show WORRY DOUBLES 4 J 1 2 C COURAGE 0 u uG G E MELTS M E DAILY TROUBLES i f 1 By BETTY BErry BLAIR BLAm t f There i is no rio better way to overcome trouble than to meet it face to fa face e valiantly che cheerfully hopefully No one ever yet ran away from trouble though he traveled around the world for it has a away way y of dogging d the footsteps of those ose possessed of a fear of it But trouble itself is 15 a coward and will flee when faced courageously Dear Miss lair It seems that h t 1936 has bas no bright look ahead for us Everything Everything Every Every- thing we do seems to go on the rocks We Ve just lost our car through ugh a foolish move and our home will go unless something happens happe s. s My husband is ill and I think it is all from worrying He has a a good job and nd blames his work for his condition Now he wants to quit his hiss s A LI job and take chances on something else Do you think this is advisable I fl Do you OU think hink we should take a trip and come comeback II I back and try to settle down We cant can't afford a a. 11 Ri I trip but we cant can't afford to be without work jI iiri either Is there anything I can do to bring him out v of this state of mind It really is making me as ast t nervous and irritable as he Would it be better Detter for him to take a trip by oil himself or to take me and the two children We WeI I love each other and nd have never been away from 1 I. I each other but maybe it would help us both to have a vacation away from each other I hope you can advise us both BRIDGET t I am never never able to get the poll poin cf of view of people who think that t a a trip will Vm help them to run awa away from from the realities of life Ufe they hey are arc going to to o have to o meet Much less lessO less les O trip they can an n III afford especially when hen en th their r troubles troubles' are arc financial es Jt f It Isn't sn t your husbands husband's work that thai thatis hurting is him but the mental attitude attitude atti atti- tude he takes toward it IL It Js S s worry ti that is affecting his health and not his work York Work never hurt anybody anybody any any- body y yet t. t B But t ones one's attitude toward work worle can do untold damage A very s sensible attitude ude to take t toward ones one's worries is that advocated advocated by lash Vash Young In his recent lecture hero here h re He s said ld if people must worry they should set aside a a certain p portion of each day which v was s to tobe be dev devoted ted to worrying about I everything they had bad that might cause worry Mako a written list of all the wor worries ries rles 5 and then get It t. t over with all at Rt once If it something comes to mind during the day that the Indi IncH IndivIdual Individual vidual thinks he should worry vorry about he be should just make malte a writ written en n note te bout about It and put off oct worrying until that at particular time set apart for tOr worries This seemed to me rue to be a very excellent bit of advice for of course nobody Is going to worry at all u if he lie writes out a list of things that should hould be worried about abouL When the time came to do the worrying any sane person would be laughing at hl himself and would be starting off to spend that time tim In work instead of worry Or he might spend that time In recreation r or exercise of to rebuild body and some borne kind help 10 souI L Need Program What you and your husband nd both i need ed is a program th that t admits of more contacts with people Try to get your husband to lo take toko the money h he y would spend on a n trip In gymnasium gym gym- II ll tickets in membership In a ag g golf lf club or or In some other activity that make I him hn contact men Wl spend o a period of each day in play that renews their f faith ith in inman- inman man mankind kind and In themselves If worry orry could bring back your car cai or save your home I should ho ld jay gay iy Indulge in it to your hearts heart's content But it wont won't do either And even If I you take a trip you have ave the music all to face when you return And certainly it would bea be a mistake to give up a job on one al already already al- al r ready ady has for another he be may not get Just give your point of view a good trimming Get out In the sunshine Make it a point t to meet other people especially those who whoP can say Today loday oday Is another another an an- n- n other the day Regardless as to what happened yesterday regardless as asto to what may come tomorrow I have this one day in which to live Jive and work and play and I shall cram it to the brim with the he joy of ot living IN No man nian an ever could be called a aa failure a lure who could take this point of view And Its It's the most surprising thing In the world how this attitude draws to itself conditions comparable able ablo le to i its It own point of view GUILTY MIND MID D Dear ar Blair iI I am am going steady with a young man an and we we va weare are planning t to be e I married in about two months T There ere are are several boys YB with whom 1 I am still Il corresponding They t. t are boys with whom w om I 1 have gone opt out but my steady d doesn't know I Ii Iam am m st still ll writing to them and I have a guilty mind that troubles trou trou- b bles bies s me Shall I 1 tell tel him I have b been en writing to them or shall I itu just t stop writing alt altogether gether and tell my steady tend nothing about it Thanking you MOSEY Now that you are engaged to one boy certainly the thing for you to todo todo do is to stop stop- any and all an correspondence correspondence corre corre- that thai might be misleading mislead mislead- ing ng to those to to whom you write as well as deceiving to your your- fiance This does not mean that friendships friendships friend friend- ships ships' must be dropped bC because ause one ones Is s to be bo married Naturally yo you will want your friends after marriage as lis well w ll as M a. a before But it does mean that a any y friendships frIendships' that arc not clearly learly understood as such and as nothing more should be dropped It depends entirely on the reaction reaction tion lon you may expect from train your fiance as as to whether you should tell ell him himl abo about t your correspondence The he very fact that you have a guilty mind about it shows you think you haven't been playing the game quite squarely But if your confession confession confes confes- sion slon to your fiance is the kind whose purpose Is to relieve your mind Ind while It disturbs his then I would say ay it is better that you should suffer uffer than that he should be made madeo to o do so for an act of yours People who must make confessions confes- confes ions should do so to their spiritual adviser rather than to those whom they hey love for the thc latter are re only tormented by the very very thing that lifts the burden from the mind of the he wrongdoer To G. G T. T H. H Trunk bending and g swimming correct posture posture pos- pos ture ure while walking lying flat on floor loor and stretching legs one at a aIme aUm Um time Ime straight up and down are cx- cx ellent exercises for reducing abdominal abdominal ab- ab muscles VENICE TO TOAST ST Dear Miss Blair At a trip around the world party part th there re are to be small tables each representing a 1 country Music Music Music Mu Mu- sic toasts and songs to fit each country or city will be given I have been chosen to give a toast to Venice Can you give me some information as to how to get it J I Iw would w uld appreciate your help Im ku- ONE OF THE G GIRLS Go to the library and read up on the he historical and nd geographical background of the beautiful city of ot Venice It has been the home of great artists architects scholars md and lov lovers rs It Is thought to be an ideal deal place for honeymooners Ther There are so many different angles an an- gics of gt approach for a toast that after you have havo satisfied your mind with the necessary knowledge concerning concerning con con- th the city you sh should uld relate it t in some manner to the lives of those hose pres present nt who arc are to take this Imaginary trip around round the world B tI I must not make up your y ur toast I for or you for the sl simple reason that the he exercise of ot your own mind Inthis Inthis in inthis this direction gives gIve you the ne necessary essary es- es sary experience every every girl in your position needs |