| Show ti J.- J. f SCHOLARLY RATING il iti BRINGS NO FRIENDS J TO GIRL GIRL GIRLIN IN NEED t J 1 S i y By BETTY BLAIR J J There is is- sound reasoning back of the statement that tha to make friends one must fir first t be a friend Bromidic tho tho they J c may be to many the application of an old ld adage such as this this has S. S Been eer the leaping leaning post by which others have learned to stand on on their their own own del f I i Dear a ear Miss Blair t I This yc year r I am m to be college In-college In college and already tready I I. am becoming panicky beS becaUSe because be- be S cause of my usual backwardness backwardness' and I i inability to snap Ii out of It My high 41 school life IlIe was a to toS tor total to- to r r r S 5 tal loss BO so fur for as any I IS f social life me for tormo formo mo was wa concerned Oh Oh yes t I was a good stu stu- tu- tu S dent It was no I trick for tor me to rate 11 RI A As s In most of my my I It II courses But life V I J 1 must surely mean n i more to some people I than merely being r an n A A student V I 1 have e looked at atthe atthe F. F the boS boys and girls 1 passing through b the halls hall with their S carefree chatter that came as t easily eully h as running sparkling water and land have havet t had a big ache In m my heart that my myown myta ta own tongue and manner were like mud What does a girl do who knows how bow mu much h she ehe Is lacking yet who gets bo ho help from herself or her associates t ates tes to help make her over over or or rather help olp add to her attractiveness Several times I have forced myself I to speak to people whom I know casually cas cu- cas- cas In classes classel In the hope that they would take up my lead and that a conversation would follow tallow But In each aen case i i I L was YOS answered In m lU the IU t each aen case i i I L was YOS answered In m lU IU t briefest possible manner and In such away way that I felt I had bad Intruded Such SuchS S depths of misery swept over me be because because bet be- be t or cause of my failure that I thought I friendless and continue con con- would rather go co Untie to be the clod I 1 must be rath- rath j IV 1 th than n make any more attempts to bb gay gy 0 or light hearted 1 But the thought that 1 I mn may have to go bO through college like this simply lImply i appalls me I like the fact that studying and grasping Ideas come easy tasy to me but even my achieve achieve- 4 often lose their flavor or and drop With a dull thud to hit I gl against theS the tho S I play play- Iy bottom of what t must be my unattractive un un- un- un attractive personality And so ao o It Is with a real need that I come to you X hope I have made my JOY problem clear And nd thank you TRIED AND FAILED t tZ Z You write so very well welI Tried Trie and d' Failed that not even the dullest dullest dull dull- est of oc ocus us could mistake your meaning mean mean- ing or or yo your r great need As a mall matS mat mal matter S l ter tr r of fact you have become so abr ab- ab r ed in yourself and your beS behavior be be- S havior problem that your personality personality person person- has become lo to you like an in ingrown ingrown in- in 1 grown toenail that festers and hurts t you all over And so the first thing thingS thing'S S 'S you fou have to do is isto to get out of your t. t j own wn self The gayest of oC I f parties and people will not help you to do dOl this at first The contrast between your own Jack lack of adaptability t fly ity and the freedom of the others Uld be so apparent to you as to toi tomake 4 i make the situation still more pain- pain 1 ful The J-The The very first thing you must do t either cither as soon as you start to col- col g or before is to find someone who is worse off than you and Administer inister to her or his needs In Inether Inether ether words help to pull another out q of the slough of oC despond The thrill you will feel in seeing another respond will give you an added courS cour'S courage cour cour- S 'S age to make you respond ond to your S 2 own needs WIth your ability to rate As A's so easily you might for instance offer t tp tc lend Jend a helping hand to someone Who is having a struggle to get a 5 tossing Issing grade The gratitude that person will feel fed toward you will vill be warming and will give i lJ a feeling of of comradeship with human another another human being 5 The second thing I want you to toS S do dp is to join groups groups- Language groups ps literary groups music art artor or athletic c groups and therein make ake your fine scholarship your 5 art rt dr athletic tendencies count for something Such groups provide so social so- so cal cial contacts that you will enjoy with others of your own mental caliber As As tAs you begin to mingle with peo peo- S. S S e on on your own terms and on on your own well known ground yo you will ii S.- S. almost 1 ost ably begin to tread 1 their domain with e easy sy feet tAnd And my dear I want you to know that in your dean of women Miss Myrtle Austin you have a humanly V Understanding guide one to whom I j tou ou may go with your problem as you iou JOU have come to me one whose Intelligence operating right on the 1 ground will provide ways and cans cans cans' of caring for just such i per- per problems as yours Dont Don't Don'tS S I g l. l fall to make malte an appointment to talk ith her at your earliest S aUy allty S f t J PLAN RECREATION S V Dear Miss Blair re reading the letter from Anther An ther her Lonesome a small group of ot the be younger generation responded We ff want Mit more more young folks to t-o Join us so soS soB S are re B asking you to send out our SOS or more recreational seekers The 11 j f r Letters questions question and find requests for tor advice should hould be bo addressed to MISS BETTY BETrY BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN VEN THE TELEGRAM SALT LAKE JAKE CITY Write legibly upon only one ono side of ot the paper It is necessary ary that you ou append the right name and address but the these o will be held in strict confidence confidence coat coat- dence and will not appear in print t Questions involving advertising information cannot be answered V 1 meeting place is to be at lit the east cast steps of or the city and county building at 7 p. p m. m September 15 We hope Another Lonesome will not feel we overstepped our bounds but as no one ap appeared eared to officiate we took It upon ourselves to organize THE YOU YOUNGER GENERATION Another Lonesome will not nol mind that no age limit w was set in her invitation for the to foregather at a certain pl place ce and that a number of the younger generation generation gen came too We trust your invitation to more young young- people who have no specific recreational plans will have a response that will satisfy your fondest wishes Certainly Certainly Certainly those who come to this city with no friendship attachments should make an effort of their own to meet others similarly situated We Ve wish the thc venture the greatest success NOTE TO L ilL AND V. V So sorry that we may not use your our problem since according to I Ithe the ho notice that appears daily with our our column no advertising of ot any kind cind may be used We Ve advise that on OU use uso tho the classified advertising department and inquire how it may maybe maybe maybo be bo d done ne to the be best t advantage to overcome o the delay you yu have made SUPERSTITIOUS BELIEF Dear Miss Blair I h have of ke le i u. u ye a pl picture I U. U of a a. a 11 hang hang- i u. u ye I U. U of a a. a 11 hang hang- hangIng Ing on the wall and In the corner there Is Is' a snapshot of my mother and andone andone andone one of me My mother passed away last February Night before last this picture fell and since then It has hl bothered me rae very much Cnn Can you YO tell me what the meaning of this is Is III ifan If an any BOTHERED You are wrought up Bothered because of your mothers mother's passing pasing and because somewhere you have heard of an old conc concerning con con- c falling pictures Please get the he thought out of your mind that there here can be any meaning at all attached attached at at- to such an incident The hole probably became too large for the nail or there was an extra jostling of the wall vall or some ome o other he natural phenomena caused the picture to ti fall all and that's all there is isto to that DOG FOR GIFTA GIFT ir GIFTA irA A smart cute clean dog that doesn't like children but 1 I Is a good watchdog and a nice pet for lor adults m may y be had by c calling at 2 2871 71 Adams street below park with nth the offer of ot a good home |
