| Show 5 TOO JOO MUCH ATTENTION FROM YOUNG MAN IS j. j SURFEITING TO MAID f By BETTY BETTY BLAIR Excesses of any kind mean death according to an ageless philosophy It is a wise vise person who knows enough to offer a balanced balanced bal bal- diet in love Io as well as in presentation of meals Den Dear Miss Blair About 18 months ago I m met t a areal areal areal real nice young man At first I cared eared v very ry little lor for him except for ch chances I 1 re- re Ii IP d through him to E g go places S After Arter I six months of his I S company he left the f I cIt city for a month Tn This seemed to be a test for me n Really ally N It was the longest f I month I 1 ever lived Jived H A I t A He mi missed ed me too and ard from then on w we we 1 went with no one else but each other He positively Is a prince In manners dress character looks everything He has plenty of money and his own car Now could any sane girl ask for half halt that much Yet l here ere Is the difficulty difficulty diff 1 culty I am never free tree from him He calls caUs at my home Just any time If It he misses mo me at home he gets In touch with me by tele telo- phone If It I go any place he wants to call for mo me He is always buying buying buy buy- ing lag me gifts and wants to take me Inc every place I have nothing to wish for tor as he gratifies ever every S wish yet yetI I feel teel that he be leaves me Utterly helpless M My parents are vo very fond Cond of him and consider me mo silly and too young to appreciate a a real areal real man We Ves go to the same college which I c consider Is a detriment to any young couple There Is another young o mg man in college whom I like very ery much but I simply am so pinned down with this one young man I cant can't get tet a chance to go o with the other to make a comparison The first one has been so wonderful to me meI meI meI I cant can't hurt him yet I feel feet I will go Insane if I keep up this kind of ot life lite any longer Perhaps if I could get away from him and have a chance chanca to tolee sec lee ee what a Jewel he Is Id I'd be willIng will will- lug Ing to crawl on my hands and knees to get back to him But right now I feel that I l' l lc c could outrun outrun outrun out out- run a champion to get away from him If It I could coula do d so without ut hurting him Plese give me meome ome some directions to follow that will offer a beacon ray FREEDOM You do need to get awa away the young man who pays you too constant con con- stant attention and that very soon But school will soon be out and then probably you ou can arrange todo to todo todo V do so In the meantime someone should put a a bug in the young mans man's ear and your our mother would be the most likely person person to do so providing she sho could handle the matter matter matter mat mat- ter tactfully She should lot him know that the most successful I wooer is he who reserves some ome of ol his trick cards cards' for the final plays It n is 9 a mistake for him to I lay a all L his cards on the table with a girl who likes a bit a-bit hit bit of C mystery who her her- lf would like to Indulge in a bitof bit bitof bitof of the adventure of at least try trying ng to captivate the man There can be too much of a good thing and it ItIs is this surfeiting of his attentions from which you are suf sut- suf- suf fering Just a bad caSe case of ot Indigestion indigestion tion from eating too many chocolate chocolate choco choco- late creams And you do need a change of diet badly If I only had the young mans man's attention for a few moments I should give him a n lesIon leson lesson les les- les- les son Ion on on balanced diet and have him feed you on spin spinach ch and carrots for fora a while Sooner or later you would L J F- F Readers of Hearts Heart's eart Haven This la iS the last day on which we shall ball forward letters In Intended for tor forthe forthe the Voice of ot Experience for tor him to answer Get your our letters to us ua today by special delivery or messenger mea mes sener and we shall air mall mail them to Voice of Experience Letters coming late will wilt be answered b by Betty Blair through the column as usual The answers to lett letters rs wired Ired back by Voice Voke of ExperIence Experience ence will appear In Hearts Heart's Haven May lay 27 21 f bo be ready for Cor your dessert again Is there a possibility you could I lay this matter before the young man as a mere dietary problem v without offending him Couldn't t you OU do so by his need of ofa ofa ofa a change as well as your own Its It's purely a psychological problem that too oo much of ot anything isn't good forus for forus us us no matter how good the tho thing In n itself may be Married people have to recognize this his truth as well wen as M those who contemplate contemplate contemplate con con- template marriage and if it they arc are wise will occasionally go about their own legitimate interests without without without with with- out overdoing the love and attention atten- atten tion lon paid the other They need to 10 take a separate vacation once in a awhile while in order that their interest in n each other s shall all be renewed And that is decidedly what you two need providing you can arrange it without causing a complete break I feel quite confident you OU would miss him terribly as you did on another another another an an- other occasion were you to stop seeing him for a while and have other friends If he is very wise regardless as to how much It ma may hurt he will vill keep his feelings to himself and play your little game with gusto by paying atte attention to someone else for a while ANNOUNCING GIFTS Dear Miss Blair At a wedding party where presents presents presents pres pres- and a donation of ot money are given should the amount of each donation be bo announced with tho the name of ot the person giving it A says it is wrong to announce the amount and B says it should by all means be announced Which Is right Thanks TONY It Is b an unusual procedure for gifts girts of money to be donated at ata ata ata a wedding but this is probably one ono of f the kind acts the depression has forced upon us to help young people to o get married My opinion is that the he separate amounts of money the he separate amounts of money and names of the tho givers should not be announced at all but that a record of f each person who gave money with the amount given should be kept for tor the bride and bridegroom alon lone alone In order that later they could write notes thanking those who were so kind as to aid them in this manner Any public announcement would be to those who gave for the purpose purpose purpose- of ot aiding the young oung people and the amounts do dolot donot donot not lot concern the tho guests but only the two wo to whom the gift is made The total otal amount given could be announced announced announced an an- at the close of the evening DUTIES OF BEST BESTIAN MAN IAN Dear Miss Blair I have an invitation to attend a wedding ag as best man this com corn cornIng coming coming ing week Will you please give I Ime me an idea as to my duties before before before be be- fore after and during tho the ceremony ceremony cere core mony It Is 15 to be a small in informal informal in- in formal Cormal affair held at the brides bride's home in the evening Would it be proper for lor the groom and best bestman bestman bestman man to wear tuxedoes or would dark business suits be bo correct Thanking you for your kind as assistance assistance as- as I ONCE IN A LIFETIME Since the wedding is to be Informal In- In formal ormal and at the brides bride's home instead instead in- in stead lead of the tha church your duties w will willbe wille 11 be e few You must get in touch with the he groom to assist him if he wants you fou concerning matters of getting himself ready tying his tic tie seeing that hat his boutonniere is properly placed that he ho hasn't forgotten to put iut his handkerchief in his breast pocket locket and that he ho arrives without accident at the homo borne of the bride bride- elect The ring is in your keeping so 50 be sure you dont don't lose it It must be bo bon In n your vest pocket so when the right minute comes that you are to produce It you wont won't pull pun out a bunch of keys or fish hooks instead You simply stand at tho the right side of the groom in readiness for lor your one act of producing the ring You may also attend to the paying of oC the fee to tho the clergyman if It the groom room wishes but this matter must be jo understood between you ou beforehand before before- hand so that the money will be in your possession and the payment made without notice If It there is to tobe toe be e a honeymoon you must bo be in I readiness to see that the grooms groom's bags jags topcoat and everything arc are arcIn In n the car What you wear depends entirely upon pon the brides bride's apparel If It hers here heres Is s a formal dress tuxedoes would be e proper providing you dont don't go gonto Into nto full dress attire If It her dress is s semiformal or Informal dark business suits arc are the thing Formal Format clothes lothes are not worn before 6 G Inthe in the tho 10 evening so the timo of ot day also determines what you wear Call mo me on tho the telephone for any other help elp needed PETS FOR GIFTS GIFIS Two lovely white mice must find new ew homes Call Hyland M or orce see ce them at 1658 Yalecrest A spitz collie dog 5 months old fine ne pet for children needs a new now home borne lome Will go only to someone who will give glye excellent care Third I avenue venue When using deodorants and depilatories depilatories de- de read the directions care- care fully ully These products of the cosmetic cosmetic cosmetic cos cos- cos- cos chemists chemist's laboratory arc harmless armless But Uey must be used correctly Cut CuE too toe nails straight across If It you ou go scissoring down at the sides you ou will have nails and life fe will never be the same after aCter that lat Always a trip to the chiropodist dist in the offing |
