Show BOY by PLACED IN DOUBT GIRL OVER LOVE FOR FORMALLY EDUCATED t. t Sudden udden and Violent Anger Sweeps Girl Retards ConJ Control Con- Con J V and Brings Trouble l Pets for Gifts 5 S By BETTY BLAIR 5 Men haven't changed changed since Adam They may say they are looking for intelligent and efficient women as life partners But what they rea really ly mean is that they want women to look f far lor r it in them to find it and not to forget to exclaim about It As for themselves they may be efficient but make no noise about It U. Dear Drar Miss Blair I think I 1 am in love with a aswell swell girl The reason I say think is that sometimes I 1 am just jus t a little bit afraid of her knowledge knowledge knowl knowl- edge and efficiency It U You see we grew i UP together in the they Ut y I lU il 1111 same small t town tow o w n 1 I 1 1 i went through high I school and then she I i went v nt away to go to toI I I All N t I 1 college My d dad a d dM M M needed me at home homeI I It and I didn't especially espe espe- daily cla want to go Co to college anyway Now that my ray friend return is returning return return- from college and will teach l lag ins school chool here next fall tall it is only should start going going go go- natural nat that we Yle s ing lag together again since we have carried on an irregular correspondence correspondence corre during the last three She has been home every ery years ears lummer and though there has never been anything serious between between between be be- tween us we have always gone together through the summer va va- va I know this girl thinks something something some some- I thing of me as she has has always s 's seemed eem d to welcome my friendship and attentions My family stands high in the community and I am now in business with my father lather but the thing that worries me inc is that she knows much more about some things than I do and at times she goes to great pains tomake tomake to tomake make explanations of certain thi things gs she mentions in history or literature lit or art that she knows I dont don't know anything about This always annoys me a little as I am amnot amnot amnot not especially interested in in these things that interest her so much It sometimes makes me wonder if her college life has unfitted t d her herto herto herto to live in a small town become the wife of a rising citizen be willing to narrow her life to making makIng making mak mak- ing a home for a husband and a much desired family and maybe join the towns town's elite literary club for her outside interest and rec rec- To put the question in a a nutshell nutshell nutshell nut nut- shell do you think it pays for a aman aman aman man to marry a woman who S knows much more than he does IN EARNEST y Yes s If the woman woman oman is smart enough to make her husband think he knows a great deal more more than she in a good I many things and is able to supplement her own knowledge in a helpful way and not parade it That alter after all is one of the secrets of marital happiness It isn't possible ble or at at least least- is most improbable that any two people contemplating marriage can have exactly the same knowledge It is however quite important important im im- im that their interests and tastes lie somewhat in the same directions At least that each have a vast sympathy sympathy sympathy thy with the others other's work and plans and the manner In which leisure time Is spent But let m me warn you that if a col eol- col- col bred lege-bred girl sets her own own knowledge mostly theoretical up above the practical practical knowledge that a an ad ambitious man may gain out of college she is making a very great error H Her r theoretical theoretical theoretical the the- knowledge will net her very little unless she is able to adjust herself herself herself her her- self to a workable life and to make practical use of what she has learned from books She may have facts a aher at ather ather her linger finger tips but they are worthless as mere facts acts She must be able to relate them to her everyday life Neither must you have a scornful at toward facts They can be very useful at times You will learn more from tion with the girl after her permanent return home t than an you could possibly do io o from anything JL might say about aboul Letters questions n a and n d requests requests re rc- re- re quests for advice should be addressed to MISS BETTY BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN TELEGRAM SALT L LA LAKE A K E. E Write legibly upon only one side of the paper It is necessary that y you u append append ap ape ap- ap pend the right ri ht name and address address address ad ad- dress but these will DC oe held in strict confidence and will not appear in print Questions involving involving in in- advertising informatIon information information tion cannot be answered lit it Men like intelligent efficient women women wo wo- wo- wo men but b t they must never be more I intelligent or more efficient than their husbands unless it be along a aline aline aline line entirely individual and one that does not Injure his pride nor ton con filet with his own plans WEDDING APPAREL Dear Miss ML Blair I am invited to a wedding reception reception reception re re- re- re the hours of which are between 8 and 11 What sort of dress shall shan I wear a sports dress or a semiformal evening dress Thank you E liE E. E The hours of the re reception coming after alter 6 p. p m. m demand that you wear an evening dress Your semiformal will willae willbe be be ae the correct thing I If the wedding is to be a very formal affair and you have a more formal gown wear it I J judge ludge that your semiformal will be just right VIOLENT TEMPER Dear Miss Blair I wonder If there is any cure for a 8 violent temper Mine flares up every once in awhile and always always always al al- al- al ways gets me into a peck of trou trou- I ble After it is all over I always feel sorry and then go to the theother theother theother other extreme belittling myself in trying to make amends I have really and and trul truly tried to control my temper But when it comes over me it makes me angry 4 before I have time lime t to think and th then n I have said something qu quickly quick ck ly and cant can't stop until Im I'm through Then when it is all aU over and I am sorry I plan ways to control it but none of them have worked Now because of it I have fallen out with the boy I like best and andI I dont don't think he be will ever forgive me I am very mean when I am mad and say such nasty things i I dont don't really mean them but something makes me say them What shall I do to control m my temper right at the time when Im I'm mad Thanks awfully GINGER There are a lot of theories about this Ginger but whether or not you will be able to use them depends largely upon the amount of will power pow er you are arc able to bring into pIa play after after af af- af ter you have arrived at the point of becoming angry Nobody can give you will power to help you ou to control angry moments It is something every person must develop for himself himself him him- self sel and be able to use when most needed Have you tried the simple device when angry of turning and walking away from the person over whom you are about to explode Try walking quickly away and saying nothing At least an act of this kind can be much more easily explained away than can angry words that carry so much meaning and have a way of being remembered so long After you have tried this a few times make the attempt to remain facing fac ing the person and saying nothing J And after that try the expedient of saying som something thing very calmly though you may be in inner turmoil There are graduated steps to take in this control business and cant can't you ou expect to leap them all at at once After awhile you ouma may find that you ou no longer become become become be be- come really angry You may be perturbed perturbed per per- but you may not have the overwhelming desire to murder someone someone someone some some- one with the sharp rapier of your tongue as formerly Try remembering that each time you become angry you have loosed a flood lood of poison through y your ur system tem tern through chemical reactions going on in the body that are harmful to your h health and nd nd mentality This may help you toward the control you so much desire PETS FOR GIFTS r A lox fox terrier about three months old must find a a. new Dew home Call Hy Ily R or see him at East Thirteenth Thirteenth Thirteenth Thir Thir- South street Three kittens about two months old are looking for new quarters and new masters masters- Call Hy ny W or see sec them at 1523 East Ninth South street |