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I Your Children F 1 V I First Run Fiction I HEARTS HA HAVEN VEN T Conducted by BETTY BLAIR for advice should be addressed Letters questions and requests to MISS BETTY BELIY BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN TELEGRAM L SALT LAKE Write legibly upon only one side ot of the paper It I Is ts nece necessary nry that you append the right name and address but these will be held In strict confidence and will not appear In print mint Questions Involving advertising Information cannot be an answered an- an Letters requiring personal reply must be accompanied by stamped self-addressed self envelopes Ed INTERESTS DIVIDED Dear Miss 1155 Blair I am sure lure you rou will be able to help me as as you OU have so many others I J have ha been going steady with a Do boy for more than a year This summer he went away to work Before he left JeU It was vas understood that we were both free tree to go out although he salt said he be would never take any other girl out While he lie was away I met Mr X and accepted hi his Invitation to the theater later to the dance Soon we were see see- lug each other quite often He lie smokes and he used to drink a Jo lot He still sUIl drinks a Do little He Hels Dels Is very handsome a snappy dreuer dresser and knows know how to show a girl a rood time without neckIng neck neck- Ing Ine and petting He lie Is ii 21 years old four and a half alt years older than I I. I and has hILS a a. t steady job Mr lUre A has iu come back and expects me to to go steady with him again acain He Hel doesn't doesn smoke or drink but roes goes In for necking and petting In a bl big f way I allowed n necking and kissing before he went away but have Jve grown rown to dislike dis like It very ery very much We are both bothIn In our last year at high At school he acts acta as though he owns me and this makes the other boys stay itay away from me While he was away they a. a asked ked me to go 0 places with them and the phone and doorbell certainly certainly didn't notice the depression as asther theY ther were kept plenty busy Now I must choose between Mr 1 X and Mr A. A I think I like the latter better hut butI I would have a much better better bet bet- ter chance of meeting other boys and have a better beUer time at school If I chose Mr 1 X What would you advise me meto meto meto PUZZLED to do With your mind so far from Irom being made mad up between Mr X X- and Mr A why need you choose between them Why not take matters mailers into inlo your our own hands and say to the boy with whom you have gone steady for so long I think it better for both of us that during dur duro ing our last year at high school we wedo wedo wedo do not go steady Your reason may maybe maybe maybe be that it is a good plan for high school students to lo circulate Tell him also that the two of ot you need to get away from the idea that it takes necking Decking t to have a a good time tune and the only way to do this is to see each other less often and nd nd to be sure that the only time you do so should be when the evening is filled with other activities It is a difficult matter for two young oung people who have formed the habit habU of necking to reform and the habit may come to be a pernicious element element element ele ele- ele- ele ment in their lives Judged by itself petting Is so seldom a sat satisfying completely completely com corn fulfilling experience of life at its best It leaves one in a high state of nervous tension unsettled and md unsatisfied The action is usually a physical expression of the self rather than spiritual it il is the demand of a apart apart apart part of ot the self that goes on a lark to have a good time and is not an expression sion of the whole S self lf Because of this psychologists tell teU us it may finally lead to a divided or split or disintegrated disintegrated disintegrated grated personality It is a ragged half ashamed deceitful deceitful deceitful de de- de- de furtive act and can seldom except when two people are spiritually in unison with thoughts of r marriage arriage in inthe inthe inthe the foreground be open honest sinI sincere sin sin- I cere core or wholehearted Mr X's smoking and drinking may maydo maydo maydo do injury to himself but Mr As A's petting petting petting pet pet- ting propensities may do injury to you I If you permit yourself to be taken In by them I think also you should resent resent resent re re- re- re sent the fact very much that any boy should assume ownership over you youat youat youat at this stage of the game Keep your freedom and your right to choose your our friends friends-as as you will until the day arrI arrives ar ar- ar- ar rI rives cs that the one and only shall come along There will be no mistake in jn your mind when this happens and you w will ll be glad that you have saved the demonstrations of love for him TO CHOOSE A ABAIR HAIR BRUSH Dear Miss Blair I have followed the advice of a beauty operator to use a a. stiff bristle brush with which to brush my hair but I X have found that It scratches my scalp and ant makes It It St sore Perhaps I have made a n mistake In my ray choice of ofa a brush Will you kindly tell ten me If there Is a way of choosing between stiff bristle brushes brushes' In order to Idone get Id one that t will not injure the scalp In Inthis Inthis Inthis this manner Thank you E IE G. G While Whale hile It i 1 Is necessary to use a stiff bristle brush for foX the daily brushing one must make sure that thai the brush is of good material Properly made brushes have blunt ends on each separate sep arate irate bristle and those bristles are very flexible so that thai sharp ends are axe prevented from scratching the scalp Stiff bristles with sharp ends will bring about a very difficult scalp con con- dilion The same holds true with combs Even when the bristles of the brush or the teeth of the comb are rounded and smooth these accessories must be handled with a degree of caution l If one has n a particularly sensitive scalp CITRON PRESERVES Dear Miss 1115 Blair Will you please tell me how to 14 make citron preserves I mean th the vine citron Gratefully MRS T. T I The following recipe makes excellent excellent excel excel- lent citron preserves Peel and seed with care then cut into pieces pieces' about 2 to 3 inches Use enough water to half cover the fruit and cook until it can be pIerc pierced d with a straw Skim out upon a platter and add sugar to the juice in the proportion of ot 1 2 1 pounds pounds' of sugar to each pint of juice Cook and skim until scum quits ris ris- ing mg Then cut citron back and boil boll until clear This takes about 1 hour Take citron out again and boil clear juke juice 15 minutes Take three lemons to X each four quarts of citron slicing lemons into the juice using both peel and juice after removing seeds Cook lemons emons in juice until the minute 15 boiling time is up Fill sterilized jars half full of fruit and fill up with hot juice Seal Immediately a COIN PROBLEM Dear Deu Miss Blair Is there a a premium on a 5 gold rold piece of 1897 Thank you B H. H There Is no premium for the 5 5 of 1897 S TESTIMONIAL FOR ARTESIAN WELL Dear Miss 1 Blair I I am writing you a few lines in regard re reo gard to the artesian well water at Eighth South and Fifth East I will say th that t the water speaks peaks for Itself In n more ways ays than one I have bave lived within a block and anda a half of this ares artesian ar ar- ar- ar es Ian well for tor the past year ear and a half h until two weeks ago aro and have drunk no other water Even now nw I Igo Igo Io go o up there and fill till jars with the water wa wa- ter er to carry home borne and I dont don't own owna a car either During DurIne the warm weather Eighth South and Fifth Filth East was one of th the busiest corners in Salt Lake City People eople came caine In their autos from all allover allover allover over the country to fill flU their water J jugs s. s This will continue all day lo loo long and Into the night One Sunday night at I counted 14 U cars and all 1111 had their heir Ju Jugs s. s I stop always and d take a drink of the water as I am 10 going In If to and from town and after a draught I walk away like a race horse hone I have had trouble with my Ie legrand legs and can an recommend this water as a aI health drink I also have heard beard quite number of dl discussions while stand In lug nc lib about out the well and all have M been In n Its ib favor As for Its flowing flowing- through Mt Olivet cemetery this cant can't be so 50 But hit wherever It comes from it comes come from rom several hundred feet below th the ground roand Much more than I have written written writ- writ ten en could be told about the good rood oual nual ties of ot this water W H. H M. M Our correspondent who wrote questionIng ques ques- the good qualities of the ar ar- well water should no longer doubt after reading your glowing till u ute ite as to its health-giving health properties s W H. H M. M We appreciate your in in- interest terest erest and hope we may be able to serve you ou when the he need comes I |