| Show I ft HEARTS HEART'S HAvE Conducted by BETTY BLAIR 1 I Letters questions and requests for advice a ato sh should uld he be ad o to MISS BETTY BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN TELEGRAM LAKE Write legibly upon only one side of the paper It is necessary that you append the right name name and nd but these will be held in hi strict confidence and will not a ar print Questions involving advertising information cannot iii Letters requiring personal reply must t be stamped self addressed d envelopes Ed I AGE NOT l I MIN MAIN IN ISSUE Dear Miss 1155 Blair I I have ha to laugh at tt these children who concern themselves so 50 much about abouL the right age to marry marr- I J think when they have reached the a. a ago e of decision or of marriage without without with with- lib out parental consent that the main Issue is whether or not their personalities per per- agree arree I have traveled and have huc seen the results of both early and late marriages marriages mar mar- es in different localities and both are arc disastrous unless there Is harmony har hare mony of pcr personality and unless both have ha been taught l' the rule of ot forbearance forbearance forbear forbear- ance and common sense I think thou though h that men arc are In Inmost Inmost inmost most cases more to blame for Unhappy unhappy un Un- happy marriages than are arc women They are as a a. rule far more selfish if there is sacrificing to be done the woman must do it all Everything must resolve Itself into glory lory for the them m man n. n I have In mind now a a. college man married to a girl who was only a high school graduate She worked before her marriage and dressed well welland and had bad a good rood time She was a 1 abright abright bright ht lovely girl Id lie Jle n now w has s the idea because c he is a college c graduate and she is only a high school graduate that he be Is far her superior Although they have Ve been married two years he has taken her herto herto herto to only two dances She dearly derly loves to dance and before their marriage he took her often and was the life of the party He lie is beating beaUnE her down down because be cause of his neglectful treatment oi ot her She Slit doesn't seem or act net like the same girl In this case as in inmany inmany many others I know of their ages had bad nothing to do with their It is purely a a. matter of or selfishness selfishness self sell on one side coupled with the attitude that one must endure at ataU atall atall all aU costs on the other ONE WHO WIIO KNOWS Your letter calls caUs for a plea for or better better bet bet- ter acquaintanceship between contracting contracting con con- parties before marriage This also implies the question o of age for how is one to judge until he is mature enough to sift silt and weigh values Even then people arc are ap apt to b mistaken ten in each other for abstract qualities are for the mos most part hidden until commonplaces o of everyday living reveal them to view Thank you One Who ho Knows for your timely contribution A AWFULLY LY BLUE Dear Miss 1 BI Blair lr w What t mb do cIo you 1 0 do when youre you're just awfully awfully awful blue When youve you've been marr married c just two months am and your our husband Is discouraged am and amI youre you're already beginning to be afraId that he lie doesn't love 10 you ou an any more I dont don't want to make a failure of ot marriage m before weve we've well begun berun Please help me NEW BRIDE Life Lire is like n a pendulum New Bride It can cm swing only so far in one direction and then it must swIn swing back again The farther it goes one wa way the farther back must its return return re re- return turn swing be Strive to strike the happy medium in all your relations with each other then you have no noso not so far to travel back with the return of the pendulum I Slop Stop bothering about aboul whether or not your our husband loves you Do your part to J keep him cheered up to mJ mJe your our Income meet your expenses expenses ex to keep your own personal persona appearance and that of the home to relieve his mind of worry when hen he hc comes home at night Love doesn't doesn grow by forcing your husband to tell you of his love but by descry descry- ing lug It and by loving him wholly and unselfishly DRY SENSITIVE SIU SKIN Dear Deu Miss liss Blair Will you please tell me what to todo todo todo do for an extremely dr dry sensitive c skin Thank you OU M 1 J. J Sometimes a dry sensitive J s due to the use of unsuitable methods Most skins should bt 3 to stand washing with pure i soap but if the skin ha has hIlS tender it Is often otten wise t to ch cleansing d d entirely j time Ume 1 t Combine almond or orthe o othe oatmeal the purest of soaps by shavis' shavis soap fine and placing ti it i in cloth bag baI with the meal C n the he face race and neck with t th lh v lathered with the mixture bag or with a soft cloth RI R iun ir J iii and md pat with ice lee or M 0 S astringent afterward U Use eVS base for ma makeup eup and after ei cl the face at night wit the aa tH meal and soap mixture skin food pat pal p You may make YOUr own I Iby s kin f by combining six tablespoons or oil with one of oC almond oil teaspoon of ti tincture of b bEAUTY BEAUTY FOODS 1 Dear Miss Blair f I Arc Are there particular Ii one should eat to Improve J the o q and color of 01 ones one's skin Jt for tor any Information in thu this LO Vitamin is the technical t used med for the magic hidden aw the humblest of vegetables Ii fruits that produces both beauty Deep in the lowly Sn an for example is a mineral mineralS ral S brings whiteness to the skin Sp Sota lettuce milk raw oyster oysters oysters- the thc 5 the stuff of which pink cheek chew i flashing eyes are arc made and the feed e ei tit to the step of evert youth o th j The mineral salts found In or eras ord lemons and grapefruit are fa fat and pastiness of o Every well regulated day dar w. w begin with a sugarless le en made with the juice of half a fa fa in a glassful of hot or cold ml Fruit of some kind should be beof a B Bof i of every breakfast Other fruits which come under general heading of beauty food foods i II figs dates raisins prunes dr dri peaches and ond apricots Tur Turkish i imen men are apricot addicts b bee ts I Ithe the essence in the thc fruit that thit II directly on the skin endowing endo with a new loveliness i But one carrot wont won't make a be bet skin any more than one n low will wi make a summer You a eat daily daiy of these beautifying loin fa fO in order to obtain results i I TO SEND sEIS GIFTS 1 Dear Miss 1 Blair Dalr Should both wedding and ana tin sIn gifts ris be sent fro from the shop wh they arc are purchased to t the b brik be Thank you NED Wedding presents present are sent tro r the shop where they are ae bou bought 1 gifts girts for a shower arc given n. s nall or r by whatever sel system hostess decides they shan shall be he le leTe jh gin The Te main point is that they tey are aret to the house of the te hostess hostes by br I 1 donor on oi 01 the afternoon or the shower Wedding presents preset nt a abe a abe t be sent as son soon as a one can cm pi the purchase after the invitation been received and should prefer reach the brides bride's home a day or ort ott before the wedding takes pJ are arc ac sent always in the brides bride's r sr CIRCULARS FOR FOl Am Amy and an Dibble Dibbley 1 stamped self sel addressed envelop circular on Treatment of and Pimples i KITTEN FOR GIFT Gil KIEN FOR GF t tA A old month kitten well cU mid house manners perfect Is I anft an the arms of some kind children C Hyland W or call can 14 W iU avenue a |
