| Show HE hEARTS hEART'S Conte eRTS to- to HA AVEN VEN With Betty Blair Affairs or ot the Heart and problems ONLY ONtY will t be discussed 10 lD this department toi 01 adVIce b. b addressed to toW Letters questions end and requests LA LAM LAMand HEADS HEAD'S SALT W BETTY BLAIR GLAIR H HEARTS HEART'S E ARTS ART'S HA HAVEN TEJ TEI Write legibly upon only onh one tide elde at the the tb ri ht name nAmo sad and address addre- out append that you fOU It t is II necessary and by no means appear strict confidence an appear these thew will be bo bead in to b be ile f by in Trint print Lett Letters ra requiring personal reply mUle Ed Ed stamped lUmped self addressed HUSBAND DESERTED Dear Miss 1 Blair Twelve years ago ato my husband left lef alone We me to fI fight ht lifes life's battles had five children yet et he Just Jast walked out on us He Ue has never given riven one om penny jenny toward our support since I have ha lave reared my children sent them then through grammar and high school and married three of ot them creditably all by the work of my own hands No the thc children have helped too for tor fora tora a large part of all they earned came tame back Into the family to help meet ex ex- I have two boys stilt still at home The youngest Is now 15 and the eldest 19 Hy My daughters are trying trIn to get rd me meo meto to o take their father back again lie He Helas has bas las no ho home e and In these bad times has had to knock about from pillar I Ito to o post lie He has seen them and talked biked I with them and of coarse has won their heir sympathy I IM M My sons however object very veryl much to this The eldest still re remembers remembers rel members lilt his fathers father's cruelties to me and how cross ho he was to all aU of ot them They simply cant can't stand the thought of their father returning They know there have been times when he made fairly good rood mone money and Ipe spent It II I I all on himself never once thinking of us as In our struggle They think it Is Is not for love of ot as us but simply so we can keep him that he wants to come back I once loved him very much and If he had been the man I thought him to be I would love him still I do feel teel sorry for tor him Do you think 1 I should let him come back or not notT Thank you yoa CANT DECIDE I If it U is a matter of support it would seem that your our husband could still manage to take care of himself if it you could do so for tor yourself and five children and can still continue to do doso doso doso so t for r three If It however he wants to come back with the idea of ot adding addingto to your support and that of his minor I son if If he has in view plans to put into effect to add Idd to your peace and happiness as M well as to his own if it there is still some som of the old love of husband and wife left well left well why not nott let t him come But I should want to be sure of at this his He deserves none of your pity so do not mistake that for love He Helas has las shirked all his responsibilities toward oward you for tor twelve years There Theres Is s no legal or moral reason why you should take him back Is the sentimental senti senti- mental reason strong enough to warrant warrant war rant it Would your our daughters for forthe forthe the he sentiment they bear be willing willingto to do as much for their father as ac they expect of you ou and their brothers You must look hard facts in the theace face ace He showed no human kindness toward you for tor twelve years during your hardest struggle Can you OU because be be- I cause rause of this show none to him now in n his hour of need It It would not be thought strange if you ou couldn't It t would be thought humanly divine if you could KNOCK KNEES Dear Miss 1 Blair I am ama am-a a little knock kneed otherwise otherwise other other- wise I have quite well shaped le legs s. s I I wonder if It there is a way of correctIng correct correct- lag Ing ng them as I am still growing If It Ifo so o will you please tell me the thc surest safest and cheapest way and place I am closing with hope ANXIOUS BEBE Knock knees are more common height and weight Such cases than han the opposite defect detect bowlegs frequently the condition ap appears ars in ht adolescent nt boys bos and who girls girls girls' who are growing rowing so rapidly that they lack strength commensurate with their should have a physicians physician's care It takes more than exercise to correct conditions of bone like these If the deformity Is very great its cure should be put in the hands of an orthopedic surgeon If U however there here is only a slight toward this his condition the sensible course iso isto is to o wear ones one's skirts long enough to keep the knees out of ot sight This should not not be a hard thing to do now that fashion has c decreed the longer skirt A little attention to the position position tion ion of the feet when standing will make the defect less noticeable If you decide on orthopedic surgery vIsit Isit the various clinics clinic or get in m touch with one In which you have ha confidence S TWIN TWI L LOVE V P PROBLEM 1 Dear Miss Blair There are twin boys whom I like very much One of ot them I like more than han I do the other But the one I like ike best Just doesn't seem to pay much attention to me I know he heikes likes ikes me a little but he be Just wont won't show It I am wondering If you could tell ell me how to win his love or make him ilm notice me I have nice clothes and all aU of my friends say that I am pretty I am sure you OU can help me as is you ou have helped many others who have had love loye problems KITTY Well Kitt Kitty since there are two of them alike and you like both and andone andone andone one of them likes you why dont don't you just shut your eyes and grab Be Beure sure ure you get the one who likes you ou jest best because there isn't so much chance of making anybody like you if lyOU you cant can't do so by just being your best test most natural self seU Make a alIst list of your best points and of ot your worst ones Try to work upon up upon upon on the ones that arent aren't so good but dont don't do it in a manner that will breed consciousness self in you OU Then when you feel teel yourself to be best prepared Invite the twins down to your house to o spend an evening Either have them hem all to yourself or ask another girl jirl to come too Then take a sport sport- tag ing ng chance on which one will fall tall to your lot We serve no other love potions than those putting girls girls on on their heir bet best behavior which behavior which always me means nean r. r that particular brand of b bc- bc havior that will wilt attract a particular I boy oy You know the boy we do not Good Goodluck luck CATHOLIC CATHOLIC MARRIAGE MARRIAGE CEREMONY CERE Dear Miss 1 Blair I will certainly be grateful to ful to you youIt It if f you will help me as you have helped others Will you please tell me If It one can be married In a a. Catholic Catholic Cath Cath- olic olio cathedral without being a Catholic Cath olic Is It always alway necessary to have ban bridesmaids at nt a church wedding Thanking you yon ANXIOUS According to the laws of the Catholic Catho- Catho tier church lic Ic church non Catholics may not be married narried in the thc cathedral If one of the he marriage party alone is Catholic I the he ceremony may be performed by byo byn I o n priest in th the priests priest's house or rae rec- I tory ory One must realize the nature of ot the sacred sacrament of marriage to o a Catholic to be able to understand this his restriction One need not have Bridesmaids nor ushers at ot a small hurch church wedding You are welcome 1 |
