| Show p- p H Conic Come to- to HA VEN R T S EAR With Betty Blair flair Affairs of ot the heart beart and nd kindred problems ONLY will b bIn ba be discussed In this department V Letters qu questions and requests for advice should tn b. addressed addred to MISS BETTT BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN SALT LAKE Write legibly upon only one oue lIdo of ot the paper It L la necessary r that you fOU append the tho right nome name and and address but will bo be held In strict confidence and will by no means appear in lu print Lott Letters ra requiring personal reply must bo be accompanied by stomped stamped self addressed envelopes Ed LOVE THAT ENDURES Dear Miss Blair For five years yun I have loved the same boy I met md him in high school chool and we went together the last six months month of our senior year After that he went to college and I secured a a. job He I is now through h college with one year extra to his credit on a medics medic course coune I have seen him only a few times In these past put years lie He always stops and talks to me but doesn't doesn seem to have any other interest in m me than as M an old friend 1 I have he gone Ione out with other boys In Inthe Inthe the meantime but cant can't work up an any enthusiasm over o any of them though h a few of them h have e seemed by their speech to be interested In me more marc than just as a friend I do not ask this boy to come and se see me rue and he doesn't suggest that he wants to do so 50 I know he lie has been and that very ery tight light run for mane money he hasn't taken any girl Irl out regularly reg He ha has of course attended college functions s but seldom with the same same girl twice e I feel that I am much behind him himIn himIn himIn In training and that I have grown rusty through throng working steadily and finding little time to read I Imagine he thinks this about me mc and that I would be far from being the sort of woman h he would want for a a wife I simply worship him Miss Blair I have not had him out of my 01 mind during during during dur dur- ing all aU this time When I meet him It affects me so iO that I grow row weak al all allover over oer and ind am so tongue-tied tongue I cant can't think of a Do sensible thing to say I must either cither take definite steps to forget him him or get g-ct him Which would you ou advise me mc to do I ONE MAN WOMAN I No less a personage than George Bernard Shaw has said that women were the real wooers You have done nothing at all to help your cause in inthe inthe inthe the past four lour years You could at least take definite steps to improve your our mind b by reading with a definite purpose in view If it doesn't help you to get your man it jt will give you jou a new point of view and help you to get rid of a complex Libraries will vill help you to map out outa a reading course Correspondence and extension courses given by the University of Utah which you OU could follow in your spare evenings would be invaluable in helping to bring you up to time in a chosen field of study It would also give you something to talk about to your friends this friends this one in particular when you meet him You could through this interest find contact with his mind and interests to the extent that you would feel justi lied fied in asking him in an impersonal way merely because of your our interests in common to come to your home Suppose you were to study courses that dovetailed in iii with a phase of his own work like physiology psychology and psychiatry atry There could never be anything lost to you oU for the time and money spent It would be a field of knowledge that would be a source of vital interest to you Oll always and one that might lead you to do further research work It would bring you ou friends after your our own heart hear and would teach leach you ou to get rid of your present complex if il necessary and to safeguard yourself against others that permit you to do nothing but think in a n continuous circle QUESTION OF C CHAPERON Dear Miss Blair I am invited with a crowd of young people to a Do canyon canon party part The crowd will sta stay overnight and there Is to be beno beno beno no chaperon other than thana a very young oun married couple who were recently married and have always belonged belong to this same same crowd My Iy mother objects to o letting Jetting me me go because there is not an older woman going g along as chap chap- ron eron No one else In the crowd is b hay have Ing ng this trouble Do yon you think my 01 mother I Is rl right ht In saying saying- that such uch sucha a young yonn couple are not proper chaperons chaperons chap chap- for the crowd Thanking you ELISE A giddy Jiddy young couple arc are not proper proper prop prop- er cr er chaperons for a crowd of young people especially one of their own age and immaturity for an overnight canyon party Young people who will vIll be indiscreet whether or no of course need no chaperon but those who would preserve their good names mImes will vilI tak take the necessary precautions todo o do so both in action and by adhering ing to the conventions Chaperons have been dispensed with for man many functions in this modern modem mod em ern age but tradition still demands that hat overnight parties be safeguarded by the presence of the chaperon who should be of an age and measure of dignity that would leave no opening for or comment NAIL NAn POLISHES Dear Miss 1 Blair Please tell me rue what kind of nail polish olish to use Do people as ns a rule like Uke the he brilliant and bright ht polishes Thank you ou TED There are many people especially men who do not care for tor the brilliant bright right polishes any more than they like ike lips that are too red or or checks cheeks that hat are rouged too much But no one objects to a soft lustrous pink Liquid enamel has become the choice of most well groomed women However if it you dislike it it there are powders that will add luster without color In enameling your nails nalls on one coating coatings Is s always enough Leave the halfmoon half halfmoon moon noon untouched If It you haven't a half moon pretend that you have and leave cave the same amount of space un un- touched A thin cotton thread coated with white bleach should be run under under under un un- un- un der each nail after the polish has hardened There are white pencils hat are useful too If Ir you use liquid polish don't dont leave leavet it t on until there is a noticeable rim rimon rimon rimon on your nail announcing the number of days since you have applied the polish INNOCENT T ARE R GUILTY Dear Dur Miss MESS Blair I ant cant believe that D has bad had as much experience with girls as he claims to have hae had I have also had experience with girls and I know quite quite- a lot about them Some of these faced sweet Innocent looking ones are the he ones who turn out too many times to o be the real gold rold diggers I have had bad experience with about four our different types of girls rids who claimed to be my friends These were honest lonest with their boy friends even though dough they were not with me They did Id not want to lose their boy friends whether they had bad money or not A boys boy's personality and friendship mean mean nean more to me inc than the fact that his ils pockets may bulge with money I think I have found the only one now but to hear him tell it I never would have got rot him if it I had bad been a and expected him to take takene me ne somewhere every time he came cameo o see me RAE RAEr HONEYMOON b Dear Miss Blair Please tell me where honeymoon gets Its name Thanking you MERLIN It It was the custom in ancient days to serve a honey wine to the bride and groom at the wedding and for 30 days afterward From this this' custom to that of th the bride and groom taking a trip seems a far cry yet et from this the name honeymoon has been derived d. d |
