Show Come to- to AVEN VE VEN N HA H EAR R T S 'S ii With Belt Betty Blair Blar Affairs of the heart rind kindred problems ONLY will Mil bo discussed In this department Letters questions question rind ond requests for lor advice should bo addressed to MISS BETTY DETTY BLAIR BLAIK HEARTS HEART'S HJ HAVEN VEN TELEGRAM M. SALT LAKE Write legibly upon only ono side of ot the paper It Is necessary that you append the rl right ht como namo and address but butI I these will bo held beld In strict confidence and nd will by no 00 means mcana appear In print Letters requiring personal reply must bo io by tamped stamped d addressed envelopes Ed WOMANS WOMAN'S INTUITION Pear near Miss Blair Blar I am nm 21 2 years ears of a age e and from last st September until three weeks ago I J Ivas was vas engaged cn to be married to the one boy In the tho world for me If I hadn't been a n oman noman of Intuition I J would doubtless still be engaged d. d I suppose finally I will be able to say that things turned out for the best but at present I J am disconsolate This Thu womans woman's Intuition what Is b it ii nn If I hadn't hunt loved lo him so much maybe I J wouldn't have seen cen so o clearly Into his nature and disposition tion lion even cen Into his vcr very acts When he be called me occasionally and md gave c a reasons wh why he lie coul couldn't nt see sec me on certain evenings I didn't need to be he told that he was lying to me inc 1 just knew It It I knew also that ho was out with th someone else Even my premonitions premonitions premonitions pre pre- monitions as to who the other companion com corn panion was were true truc rue I am ant not naturally of a 1 suspicious mind 1 I am more Inclined to trust than Irian to mistrust people When hen my sweetheart made matle love lo to me I felt II that he meant It When he didn't come accord according In to schedule I knew also 1150 that somebody else had a 1 hold on him I did not mention my mistrust to him but I had it all figured out I just as It really was wac Then the inevitable ine happened One night when he had made his excuses to me mc I decided not to stay sur in and worry My Iy brother Is a wonderful sport port and just for Cor the fun of the thing we decided to o go 10 to a night club and see sec one side of the world that was entirely new to us I think It was Intuition also that made me decide on this particular place I saw sass my 01 fiance and his companion companion com corn panion at their table long lon before beCore h he caw aw me I tried to engage my brothers brother's broth broth- cr's ers attention so he would not see sec them but he finally did and drew my attention to them When they danced and passed our table they saw us He lie nodded and turned white as they p passed aSSed Finally h he came over o to our table I spoke to him cordially as if everything c ere in perfect order My ly brother played up fine and told him what a 1 hard rd time be he had lud persuading me mc to come there with him to see sec the life lie He made no attempt to introduce introduce intro intro- duce me mc to his companion Ill I'll My brother broth broth- er cr and I danced and amI soon I noticed that my fiance and his partner had vanished The TLe next evening when he came to tosco see seo me he started to make mako explanations explanations but I told him kindly and quietly that Hut it wasn't necessary I understood He lie Ie said he would never marry the woman that there were times limes when he positively Cly hated ted her but that she had a hold bold on him and exerted her power over o over ocr cr him I had understood all that too before he told me mt He e said he lie realized that now things thing had ad come to an end between het us but that I was ws the only woman lie e had really loved or ever would I am heartbroken yet ct I cant can't take him back My Iy ethical standards have luve such a hold on me rue that I can never really forgive e him much as l I love him What Shat do you OU think shall I try to forgive or to forget foret INTUITIVE Perhaps you need to do a little of both Intuitive Both forgiving one and forgetting Suppose it t turned out that your Sour our love for th this s man was greater than anything else that had ever come into your life me It hasn't yet had time timeto timeto to find itS Ks pr proper per perspective among the other events that have crowded upon you Perhaps when it does docs anc and you ou Y know ow it for its full fuU worth you will marry the man and break the chains of the other spell that holds him Im I'm not urging you to do th this s against your better sel sell self I have full con confidence that your our intuitive powers will continue to guide you rou as they have done in the past last The intuitive Instincts of ot the female arc are clairvoyant in their relation to the future as ns wen well as to the present where their heir loved ones nrc arc concerned With this endowment they can get in touch with a thousand rhythms in the system tern tem of things that the masculine logic misses Continue to depend on this gift which seems to be exceedingly ly strong in ill you oU You will not fail fall far farin farin farin in your estimate of things and In knowing what to do when the right time comes SISTERS SISTER'S KEEPER Dear Miss Blair Ilir I am ant 18 and my sister I Is 16 yet nt she worries me a great deal Maybe I Iam Iam am too much of a 1 quiet stay home hod jody body but I rea really II think she goes out too much and is not particular enough as is to the kind of boyd bos she goes oes with My 1 mother worries about her too antI anil is always trying to get get- get me et me t to sa say something to her She Is a a. sweet kid and very pretty and I dont don't want her to think I would think she was doin doing anything wron wrong I dont But I think she should hould be bemore bemore bemore more particular How can I J tell her this his without offend offending In her Man Many thanks s. s SISTER Its It's a refreshing thing to know that you rou are so considerate of your sisters sister's feelings in this matter of a choice o of her young men companions Some sisters would not hesitate to speak right out in no uncertain terms to 10 a younger sister thereby of course doing doing do do- ing ins more harm hat than good It is my suggestion that you become more more actively active actively interested in your sisters sisters sister's sis sis- ter's ers affairs Tell Ten her to invite her friends in after the movie and you will have lave refreshments prepared for them Make opportunity to talk to these boys bos joys Use small chatt chatty talk nt at first to engage their interest Then talk about what particular interests may be Boys like to talk to women who arc are interested in their welfare without having strings attached to this interest Do not suggest to your sister that you disapprove of her choice of com com- Suggest always alwa'S by the positive positive tive ive method that is by pointing out fine Cine attributes of certain ones that their ideals are arc more like her own You can be your sisters sister's keeper inthe in inthe inthe the truest sense of the word by treating treat treat- ing jag her friends with kindness and her with understanding KINDS OF HENNA nEN Dear Miss Blair tell me mc what Is s the difference differ differ- ence enco between Egyptian henna and powdered henna Thank you MRS D. D Two T types t-pes of henna are in common use today One pure E Egyptian henna the other compounded henna Compounded Compounded Com Corn pounded henna has copper in its composition composition composition com com- position and arid when peroxide and ammonia ammonia am am- I am-I monia come in contact with hair that has had compound henna on it a chemical reaction results which breaks off oU the hair Egyptian henna is made from herbs and is free from metallic content It may be bleached from the hair without without without with with- out injury providing the bleaching agent is not too strong GUEST CONFORMS Dear Miss Blair lair I am a guest rnest in a family that thai is very er religious Every Sunda Sunday thc they go 10 to church The They always Invite me to go o with them and so far I have gone one though I would much prefer t to st. stay in my room and write letters Would it be an impropriety for me to make makem my m- excuses to them NOT OT RELIGIOUS One is not forced by b the proprieties to attend church with ones one's hosts yet it Is a gracious thing to accompany them even at your own discomfort To seem to slight the religion of an another another another an- an other is to offend the deepest feelings of which religious people are capable Save your letters for another time and please the people who are arc so 00 kind to have you as their guest by accompanying accompanying accorn- accorn them to church |