| Show r R j m COME COME TO TO V E 0 1 H A E w 2 i lL E I ii SI RT I I 1 With BLAIR t 1 Affair ibo or the heart ana sue 1 problem tm ONLY ONLY ONLY- will bedl in IR In department Y I. I mentions nd request tor for should advice ahO hc d b be to SALT LAKE HISS HISEl BETTY BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN RAVEN TOW v t Write Writ legibly upon only one aldo of the paper apor It x s la necessary th that you JOU append th name namo and rand address but uhs these will wUl be held In tr confidence anti and will by no mcana moans appear In 11 Ed 1 if print K r tJ WHEN TO MARRY L I f. f jl Im 19 years year ean old and md nd very much S. S la fl love with a boy of the same name age arr I. I 5 He lIe loves lover me too top too and wants me rue to marry him He has hasa a Job fob and aN a a. a though he makes only 23 s week J 1 am aDS tare we could manure on I It nut But ButS S here Is Ii the trouble H My parents parenti think I am to too young youn V to to marr marry and they w want me to walt wait until II If- If ls H-ls Is making more money S I t dont don't want to walt wait and neither does dOH he Ve We are both willing to take chances on oh Why waste the but years eara of Df your life just Jast for the thell ll sake e of possessing things Love matten matten matters mat mat- S ten more than any anything else to both bothof S of f atus H We are miserable and unhappy t L when separated from each other even for tor a matter of hours hoars Please give me your 1 honest honed opinion IMPATIENT I People should marry when they are emotionally ready for or it it it-it if they are Bre also economically ready for tor it IL Two people really in love with each other who arc are prepared to marry on 25 a a 3 week can do so There are whole living on less But you must mustI I know your budgets S You have health and youth and love and the spirit of adventure and these are the materials out of which happy marriages are made If It you ever get anywhere or accumulate any money it will Vill be b by the general ef efforts ef ef- S forts of both and your possessions then will belong to you both The possession of ot things does get greatly In the way of bt the the happiness happiness of people It is areal joy to hear from someone who isn't all wrapped up in the idea of keeping up with the Joneses Love is not made safe by money and you are not takIng taking taking tak tak- tak- tak ing any more chances with love than if it you were vere marrying a a million dollars dollars dol- dol lars jars Of course there will wUl be hard hard- ships You must look for tor these But keep your love for tor each other and you can meet everything else with an undismayed front For when love flies out of the window all aU the possessions possessions posses passes in the world will not Dot guarantee you happiness Your great stock in trade is love and health and adventure adventure adventure ture and hope Keep these and we guarantee you happiness S WHAT CAN SHE DO Dear Deal Miss Blair My ly problem Is concerning the male mate sex lex as usual I am going coin st steady ady with witha a b boy whom I like Ute a great rea deal and andS who says he cares for me But when S he takes me meto to a a. a party heIs hels continually continually continually ally off in some deserted corner comer or orIn orIn orIn In another room with some other girl He lie flirts with these other girls and kisses them which hurts me a. a a lot lotI I rueS mess Im I'm Just a jealous little fool but bu I dont don't think this Is fair Tell me what wha to do to make him stop doing doing- this uncouth thing I Iam am not rowdy though I am full of fun fan I dress well welland and have hav a nice home Please tell m me what hd todo to ke keep p him for lor myself my my- self leU Thanking 7 you u JOAN Who Who wins jn his love liMi l lose se her who loses her shall win Weve We've used this quotation before belore In in Inthe t the e. e column b bu but itIs my it pinio is Js particularly particularly applicable in your case ease Why not give your sw sc sweetheart theart up altogether er and see sec if U. by doing so he will WUl n not t later become wholly yours The more r Jealousy over his behavior be be- havior baylor the more you oppose it by tears the more apt he Is to keep right on getting his thrills in inthe inthe inthe the same old way No girl girlin in love with a man can canen endure en en endure dure the thought of his loving other ollier women even though it be by outward outward outward out out- ward demonstration only And if she has any self respect ct she will not let him love her when she knows this to tobe tobe tobe be true about him hint There remains then only o one e thing for lor her to do do- do give him up She must expect to agonize over this but it will not hurther hurt hurther her tier more than will the thought that he lie is embracing and kissing other girls After this test is started if he lie is Inlove Inlove in inlove love with you and not just with love he will c come me back providing back providing you do donot donot donot not make it too difficult for him to todo todo todo do so If he really doesn't want you you should be glad to know the truth troth about it and to let him alone lIone entirely Love uncultivated cannot survive any more than can a summer rose in ina a winters winter's frost NOTE OTE fOTE TO WORRIED There may be a a. variety of causes for foi the effect you yon describe Let a physician give five a z thorough examina examination lion tion and prescribe the treatment S TO CORRESPOND Dear Miss 1118 Blair Here I am again for lor help belp What I want to know Is this How can I Iet Iret ret get et some boy from th Illinois Military Mili MUI- tary 1317 school of ot Aledo HI m. to corre correspond spond with me I cannot tell you the reason for asking this but I hope you yoa will wUl help m me I would like this boy oy to tobo bo between the he ages agea of 19 and 2 BI 21 Thanking yon Thanking you ou R n Our department has nothing to do with matrimonial correspondence bureaus bureaus bu bu- bu- bu nor with clandestine correspond corre corre- spond any nature Therefore we suggest that if the matter is important im- im eno enough gh you write directly to the he president or the student body president nt of the college in question and md make your request We think however you would have to give your reason for so unusual u a request or it would not be be- granted and it might not even then SECRET WEDDING WEDDiNG ANNOUNCEMENTS ANNOUNCEMENTS ANNOUNCEMENTS ANNOUNCE ANNOUNCE- MENTS Dear lUlls MUs Blair I have bave a friend who was married secretly about four months a ago o. o Now that sho she wants wanta to o make her marriage known should she send lend w wedding announcements an an- If not what would be bethe bethe bethe the proper way way to let Id her friends know Thank you ou MILDRED It would be vastly better taste after aUer such a lapse of time for your friend to write friendly or informal notes to her friends telling of her marriage than to send announcements A secret secret se se- cret marriage may after alter any lapse of time tune be announced in the newspapers BEAUTY TYPE TYrE I Dear Miss Mu Blair Will wm you u please tell me what beauty type I am amt I am an ashen ashen- blonde with willi blue eyes ees and fair fall skin Also Alsol what color makeup should I use and what colors would be most mod becoming WONDERING I You are the Joan Marsh type and should use use cherry therry lipstick and rouge All AIl the blues blueS' and greens in the catalog catalog cata cata- log warm browns certain shades of red with which you must experiment to be sure there is no clash neutral shades such as sand mauve taupe gray will be becoming to one of your type |
