Show I I IS 1 S BETTY BLAIR o. o S Affairs of the heart and kindred problems ONLY will rill be bc discussed dis dis- dis cussed in this department 0 Letters questions and requests ts for advice should be addressed 0 to MISS 1155 BETTY BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN TELEGRAM I. SALT LAKE Write legibly upon only one side of the paper It i is necessary that you GU append the right name and address addre I 0 but these will be held in strict confidence and will wilt by no means I appear in print Ed 0 SUPPRESSING EMOTION Dear Miss lbs BI Blair r What would you Ou do in a z case of this kind I 1 have ha a n. friend whom I Ilove Ilove love Jove very cry dearly But sometimes J he hc does thin things that irritate me mc and md I fly lIy into a passion I know knew that she gets an angry y too loo but she never nevel shows hows it It except in n refusing to go o out with me rue until unU I have made things thins right rihL She doesn't say y angry words or contort contort contort con con- tort her face as I Ida do and nd I am sure that this tills outward composure makes her the winner in the cud end have ha tried to control m my anger auger many ny times but in spite spile of e c I 1 just fly lIy off ore the handle Please ad advise td- td vise me mc It Itis is ls said that tha a peI person on can suppress sup up- press ress his own emotions either cither by changing the mental picture in hi his mind or by suppressing those charI charF characteristic char char- I F muscular contractions Inthe in inthe inthe the face and neck that show anger anger- or whatever the emotion may be bc that thatIs Is being displayed For example when you ou are arc angry you set the teeth together firmly raise the upper Up lip so as to show how the Tipper t teeth eth clench both fists lists dilate and quiver the nostrils heave hea the chest up and down and scald your lungs with hard hot breathing pound your our fist on the table but if you ou were suddenly sudden before this display occurred to command a rn mental picture your friend would have no way of knowing that you were angry For as suddenly as the thc pleasing picture occurred on the mental horizon the corners of or your ur mouth would raise the center of your lower lo lip Up would drop your our nostrils would dilate as you draw in and hold holda a a. deep breath and arid Instead ad of or angry tones you would begin to speak in a. a deep enthusiastic voice However if the pleasant picture is not forthcoming in time tUne to supplant the feeling of anger try repressing the muscular contractions and supplanting supplanting sup up planting them with muscular evidences evidences evi evi- evl- evl dences of feeling pleased It is said raid that this muscular control will in and of itself produce a happy emotion Try grinning the next time you Jou be become become become be- be come obsessed with an angry emotion emotion emo emo- tion and see what the outcome will be Your friend has learned to emulate emulate emu emu- late the poker face and it Is this control that gives her the advantage ad MANY HAPPY I MEDIUM GIRLS Dear Miss 1 Blair I have hac never had the courage e to toTite write Tite your corner corner- before belore but since reading about Charley Chancy wanting to find the tue 1 e happy medium girl r I am going to enter I have hac gone gon with fellows lel- lel lows for lor five years which is the length of oC time he lie has gone with ith girls but I have ha always found them to be straight ht clean cut clean boys And Am I think If f Chancy looks in the right di direction dl- dl he be will find the girls as fine line fineas lineas as ho UIO fellows It is true that birds of a a. l feather lock flock together and no matter where here you ou go goor or what nhat you jou ou do you'll meet all kinds of people and must make your jour our own choices of or friends So Charey Charley Char icy ley ey m m in bo boy look some more and Im I'm Ewe ure you'll find her All of my girl girlfriends friends arc are good sports good pals good gool dancers no dancers no petting smoking or and arc are also effeminate with qualities Id I'd like to lo Introduce you to the theo loveliest cHest o elicit crowd of boys and girls you ou vcr ever met I admire you OU very cry much if tr you treat the girls iris as you ou would want rant your own orni sister to be treated That rea really II is more marc than most boys do nowadays although I J attribute some of f their ca carelessness to forgetfulness Cry try again lri Charley Maybe laybe day Ill I'll find lind the real man Im I'm coking for lor too loo maybe Thank you ou Miss Blair for lor admitting this in- in ruder EFFE EFFEMINATE So 50 long Ions as women still have faith In the loveliness of their own sex e. e why should hould the men despair There are areno areno areno no greater critics of or women omen than women themselves They are arc merciless merci merci- less ess with each other where the least fault ault is to be found but generous to toa toa toa a fault toward their fine qualities You can therefore know Charley Chancy that hat when Effeminate t tells Us you Jou about bout the sportsmanlike qualities of her friends she means exactly what hat she he says We must scold you a little Ef El for lacking lackins the tho courage to o come to Hearts Heart's Haven until utter utterly ut- ut ter driven in defense of or erly terly your our own kind ind But now that the Ice is broken we hope you will come many times And were we're prophetic Ii In ill the hope that you ou will find the thc happy medium man Your philosophy couldn't miss him BEAUTY TYPE D Dear r Miss Blair lair I am 5 S feet 1 2 11 12 inches tall bU 20 cars old have brown hair and mc- mc complexion Will you please tell ell me mc how much ranch I should weigh what that type I am and what colors I should hould wear Thanking you ALICE You should weigh In the neighborhood neighborhood neigh neigh- of pounds If with your bI wn hair hah and medium complexion you ou have blue or gray eyes ees you ou are he the Norma Shearer type of beauty and nd should wear soft grays blues peacock greens and pastel tones in gr grcen en blue pink and apricot Use raspberry rouge and lipstick but do donot donot donot not your our face or lips TO GET RID OF HENNA E A ADear Dear Miss liss Blair About three months month ago I put henna on my hair and now that ItIs ItIs it its Is s growing out I want to remove all aU allf of f it rather than put more on How low may I do this VE YE Hot oil oU treatments treatments' either given alone or In connection with a steaming steam steam- ing ng process given by the hair in the beauty parlors will successfully remove henna from the hair Send a stamped self sete ad addressed addressed ad- ad dressed envelope for our circular Treatment of Dry and Oily Ony Hair Therein are given directions on how howo to o give yourself the hot oil treat treat- ments |