| Show ty l ome TO HEART BETTY f Affairs of tho the heart and kindred problems ONLY will be d dis discussed discussed dis- dis cussed In this department 0 Letters questions nn an and requests for adIO 4 1 o should be addressed to MISS 1 BETTY BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN TELEGRAM SALT LAKE Write le bly upon oni anI one side of the paper It IL Is necessary that you yon append the right name and address but these will be held In strict confidence and will by no means appear In print Ed v pear near Miss Blair I hope you you will mil permit penult my bion I am a S blond boy with a strict abhorrence for blondes blonde I have been oin with a girl steadily ny for or approximately one year and two months I Iam Iam Im her for our am m certain that I love friendship has been partially shattered shattered shattered shat shat- numerous times but each time W vre TI have ha had bad a reconciliation n. n Lately however she has shown a 1 posit positive ve partiality for or another boy who goes to her school lie He comes to see see her frequently while I limit my visits to tolne toone toone one lne a week Miss 1 Blair I have long lone Lad had a theory that I could find a real sensible girl who was immune to conceit one whose nature was not to absorb all aU flattery as strictly the truth h. After Alter probing her Intelligence I tho thought I had one girl with ith whom I could cn en entrust entrust trust my secret t 0 of love Ion that she Would not violate that trust imposed into the upon her bee by trampling me inc dust However it was apparently a case of mistaken Identity I t have the support of or parents for I am ama ama ama a boy of upright ht standing and clean reputation D But t even If the parents like me I cannot marry them Its It's she that I want She breaks appointments appointments appointments appoint appoint- ments with me and arid appears unconcerned unconcerned unconcerned whether I see her or not unlike unlike un un- like her attitude of or the past year They say Faint heart neer ne'er won fair lady but she is not fair she is brunette What'll I do I do not Intend in intend intend In- In tend suicide but I J consider her conduct conduct con con- eon i duct outrageous outrageous disobeying her parents par par-I wishes in ln selecting her friends Evidently she will not be frank and enumerate my many failings Miss Blair please s suggest something more applicable than spanking and less painful than shooting I fear my faith raUh and trust in the human nature of or members of or the Ule feminine gender Is Isif shaken if not utterly demolished BLONDY J A spirited girl Blondy is usually brusk with the man with w whom she is b falling taPing In loye bye She resents what seems to her to be an enslavement of ol her feelings the feelings the change from a f free ee untrammeled state to a condition which finds finds her thoughts th and emotions emotions emo emo- controlled by a subtle master LOVE whom sh she does not know how to dismiss She ones cries out against that which she doesn't understand She is In against the forces that are breaking her spirit Naturally Naturally Naturally Nat Nat- at this particular point if an another another another an- an other comes along whose presence of offers offers of- of fers freedom from Cupids Cupid's enslavement enslave enslave- merit ment she grasps at his services as a drowning man does at a straw If when you ask her what is the matter she snaps back Nothing Leave me alone I She doesn't mean meana a single word of out f It What she re really means is that she wants attention re redoubled redoubled redoubled re- re doubled b by someone who ho can look beneath the surface of things and help to make this slavery sweetly en en- en durable This Tilts falling she needs to be made to right about face on her own accord by being left strictly to her own re re- re sources A clever rival in most cases helps a girl to realize that some kinds of ot slavery cry are are preferable to other kinds Have you tried taking out another another another an an- other brunette Have you tried adJusting adjusting adjusting ad- ad your our prejudices prejudice's to a dizzy blonde If It you haven't there is an experience worth probing Here is a tip Up all aU men should know Dont Don't try being too clever for the dears The feminine mind resents having to grasp too much at a time And this goes both ways Neither man nor woman likes to be made to tc feel that the opposite sex is trying to tc lord it over them intellectually Both want a good time but they want it without too much mental effort As for tor the happy medium between the spanking and shooting cannot say too emphatically that it does not lie in the realm of caveman methods Refinement plays lays a much bigger part in capturing a a. womans woman's Interest than anything else And another another an an- other thing since you are not going to marry the girls girl's parents cant can't you enlist their help by getting them not notto notto notto to be so much in favor or of you Get them to hate you a little to find fault with you ou before the girl to say to her Were glad you ou arc are seeing more of this second boy than you are of Blondy He is such a good boy much better than Blondy If She will nih begin immediately to defend you and once a woman begins to defend a man she Is won over forever It never pays to be too perfect GRADUATION GIFT Dear Miss Blair I wish to give a graduation present to a wonderfully sweet girl but I hate hae been unable to think of anything suitable Can you aid me me by giving a afew afew afew few suggestions as to what would be appropriate I wish to get something really nice I thank you very much NEVADAN Propriety still holds out on the matter of gifts gUts that nothing except flowers candy or books may be given glen to a girl to whom one is NOT engaged engaged engaged en en- and to the engaged girl nothIng nothing nothing noth noth- ing that may be classed as maintenance maintenance maintenance nance As an example of the latter kind of gUt gilt one mil may not give a coat yet one may give an elegant fur which is an ornament rather than an article of clothing However Just as in the matter of chaperones custom in the matter of gilt gift making has been set aside by the younger generation and as also hi lit the matt matter r of chaperones authority may yet come to extend the liberties of gift making providing the thc gifts to unengaged unengaged unengaged girls do not extend to things I of great intrinsic value Charming Channing costume Jewelry necklaces rings bracelets pins ARE being given ghen Party bags gloves silk umbrellas may maybe maybe maybe be included But the line must be drawn when it comes to the giving of intimate articles of wearing ap ap- ap- ap parel parch Zipper leather overnight bags leather desk appointments and dresser dress dress- er sets are also being given We hope hopewe we have given an idea from which you may choose TYPE OF BEAUTY Dear Miss 1 Blair I am tall and have ha dark duk brown wavy hair dark gray eyes and tn my complexion is clear What movie type do I resemble and what colors should I wear Many 1 thanks KID You resemble the Norma Nonna Shearer type of beauty so far as your our complexion complexion com corn Is concerned Soft gra grays s and other neutral shades peacock greens greensand greensand greensand and pastel tones In hi green pink blue and apricot are your our most becoming colors TREAT TREATMENT FOR SUNBURN Dear Miss Blair Please tell me what to do to relieve a beautiful blossom the sun planted on on my may nose at the theair air rodeo last Sunda Sun Sun- da day clay Thank you G P P. P Send a stamped self addressed en envelope envelope envelope en- en for our circular on the treatment treatment treatment treat treat- ment of sunburn |
