Show p i 1 HEARTS 1 i f BETTY At c C arid and q questions for the department should iio 10 td lc J b be addressed to MrM r Haven Lake Laki Telegram Writ only n oni l ft f tho pIper paper It Ie I Is necessary to append your name and i but ut U U 4 r neld In nci confident and will not be e pu Lost Coat and found notices net I or r to songs long I and cinno annot b 1 bl published In thi thu column cc J Jf LOV LOVES Si Pa PLAYGROUND Dia Mi Miu Mi Blair SIar For Far thi three months month t I hav hay have k kept p with the most mot wonderful Boy in t the tt w world r d. d I 1 do not know what I h have v done don that he ho Iho should ld suddenly t stop p coming to MB me mep but bu ab we k ago h. h called called me m rid d Id id h he V wouldn't b be b. d down wn H nd l hiJ h Just aut t took it Jt for for granted grante that that something had happened h he didn't sw want nt to talk to me m. about abou over the telephone and that h he wo Uter rd a explain t H h s neither called me m. up sine since nor nor- norh h has hir i he Ii b b ri down d wn On One On of my friend has hll told me me ah she he saw him with another girl girt at a danco last las Saturday night I am to tax x plan his hi actions action as h he h. seemed med to think much of me mo aa as I of himIn him In apt of th fact act that I resen hist hij action ti nl very vry much uc I tilt still care care careo so 0 o deeply that it t hurts hurt not to be bl ablerto do Clo something about it iL Iam I f fam am only years yara old but I fe feel fee r that tha h his i the tho only onry boy I will iII ever ever trul truly love Can you advise me me what to elo tio FRITZI Gra Gratefully J Sixteen eighteen Ight en twenty twenty these years cars constitute the playground o of romance L Love Iove ve is Js more difficult t to hold at this time than at at an any other time In a n life lite Tho reason for this is t that boys and girls are arc really not with each ach oth other r at It t all they aro ap ao In love e OVo with love Naturally affections at light on tho person clr or persons er of ot greatest attraction 1111 whom th they y como como in fn contact conta And suid t they ey imagine themselves to be beIn jj In love Each E Dc time they find themselves ir love ve they tio ui yo vow w that it H is th tho real thing that the they will love until death or r accident a clent or some som woman or man sc separates separates' ar tes' tes them and then th the first thing thinE you ou ou k know ow love has taken z Mother another flight of oC fancy and alighted d on some Orne other oIlIer victim The Then n near tz tragedies of ot unrequited d l love v the tho the e everlasting OW vows how bow quickly ly they are f for for- rU r- r U n Ix In this playground of r. r ro romance rol ro- ro l mance nance But Dut t. t when one ne' ne sf ps over OV r the threshold cah ld of tho playground into the tho real domicile of ot romance romance but but IS not your story story- If Ito t. t Vou are o any overt action that has lias s ca caused 2 sei E this sudden Budden and ns n's chan change o on the part of ot your our beloved d l it lt is lis almost t useless to tr try t to get getan etl an n c explanation that is s' not noi forthcoming On thing ng- ng ngot of of ot his own accord accord- N Nothing can sowell owell p Dut put ut the tle finishIng finish finish- Ing mg toc touches s to-a to oa dying dIng r romance nce- nce a. a as a win back e love Suffer ingis i as much a part of lifo Uto al MIe eating or working Tho The les leso less les y you o t fear ar it U the greater ter the for fortitude wih with Which you bear bea it i the te sooner sooner I yourself elt of it May lay Ma th the 1 die a 8 natural natura death ad adUe and th the Ue n new nw i be born orn and flourish with wih the theN New wT Tear e. e eFRIEND i FRIEND HAS NEGATIVE I QUALITIES De Dear Deir r Mist Miss Blair I 1 have hayt a friend frind whom I love very dearly rIY yet her attitude of criticism toward everything e throws throw cold coldwater wa water on on all I that we WI do door or might otherwise othir e enjoy in common We cannot listen to to a c concert nc rt see ae a pl play rad read a a book bock bok in club view a work of art without her d disapproval cheap cheap- up- up r roval being bing vented in strong Itron She ma makes make et it a point to t always pick out th the flaws flaw never th the go good d points W We have friends in common of Whom she says ny She a nice looking looking look look- ing girl but Her Hens a good fellow fel fl low law but 1 Sh She She's very clever but r and md following the bib there thea is il always a long line lino lne of criticism Sometimes Som tir e I f I. I become bome ao so 0 exasperated exas exas- trat rated d I w want to blurt blur out and tell her hr I think think she sho is il a very very wonderful woman woman but and then tell tl her just jUl what h her r critical attitude is i. is going fo for her herself lf by way of driving friends friend from her hor ils JI I there any way of helping her hert herto herto t to ae I. I thit glaring fault in herself lm sure if she Ih law saw it she ahe would oe overcome m i it at as sh she i is otherwise a cultured rd refined fir d well wel educated woman Thank hank you FRIEND Other Ulan than coming staunchly to tho defense of ot your your friends and of oC art artand and literature and ad other things that taU fall under the h critics critic's hammer I think there I is n nothing definite that you ou can c do Next to tb tho carping critic the tho person erson most to bo ho 1 avoided is 11 tho ho reformer especially th tb person p r on who takes tes it It upon him him- alt to correct coret tho faults fault and de deficiencies do- do tc t n es of ot another's personality It I mu must mut t bo ho b remembered that we C Cr all mu r 1 havo a o our Ou HUo p pet t t faults fault that none of ot us can cn seo eo our own aa aS a plainly as we can see those thos of ot another an an- oth other otier r and ld nd that if it w we- we were all I to tk take upon tipon ourselves the the friendly act of ot reforming each other we wc would lave no ro friends left lef The rho thing tod todo to todo d do Js to Is-to o strengthen your own forbearance forbearance for tor- b. b bearance arc and immediately that the negative e but buts se seem som m about about to be voiced to hiv havo such a. a 3 line lne- lne of or positive post post- tive tl de defense nse that that they will ba be ut utterly ut- ut torl terly vanquished d. d There Thero aro are so torl many knockers of ot their fellows that thata that a person en n vrho cho enlists In the the- thin ranks of the tho 10 boosters is i certain to rind find f favor vor I BRIDAL SUPERSTITIONS Dear Cur Miss Mil Blair T The month hi In which a marriage hk place is il lupp supposed by t the e up superstitious to ex exercise ri a great in in- in nunce over th future f fut t of the tho part par nell ners J 1 am going to use us these su superstitions u in entertaining for a I elect bride that that ii is if you u can gi give e the to me ins Also Alia will wl you please add any other old time bridal su superstitions IU that 1 I may use us u. u I. I IN IN NEED Here ITer are Gr the tho superstitions connected connected con con- wih with the month chosen for forthe or the wedding If married in January January Janu Janu- ary the wife will live longer than In February domes- domes tl t tip happiness will wi prevail In March arch the couple will wil event eventually al mako their home abroad broad Th The April bride very bride very r decidedly rules the roost May ays ay's IB considered unlucky for wed wed- cd digs dings June Juno Is an exceptionally and promises lasting to i its bridal dal cou couples les J July lY marI mar mar- VOLO I an art r. r apt to bo be crossed criss-crossed cd with sunshine and tc shadow bad w. w August Is noted for tor its Id ideally ly mated couples September marriages run runa runa a a smooth congenial course coUrs Either love or money will b be lacking in the future for those who join hands this month November promises prosperity pros prosperity pros pros- December fICe a life full ful of bye loye H Here r is 18 an old rhyme concerning J the wedding day Monday for tor he health th Tuesday f for r wealth V Wednesday Wednesday- the tho to bet best d day y of aI all Thursday day for tor l losses boses s' s Fiday y f for r crosses s Saturday t n 1 luck buck at aU ali aliOn allOn all On 10 no ac account ray should a a. a 3 bride or bridegroom bo landed handed handed a a telegram ani anin on n the tho way to t church The bride must mast be careful cretul when leaving the tho church to to put her right WrIght foot toot first fist It is fa deem deemed mot most unfortunate tor for tora tora fora a a I bride to to tomako mako the first step into tho new world wih with the loft let foot toot n Your main concern In using sing these superstitions Seven even e In in friendly e en entertainment en- en will be to t se see to it that no no one ODe actually bel believes ves in them You may be surprised to o know that even v n in fn this day da of of ot enlightenment there aro are hundreds of or- or people all aU about you ou who wish by the new newmon m moon mon on who are afraid to walk under undera a n ladder or oven to tobe be maried married on ona ona n a 5 a certain erlln day or in a a certain month month HONEY CAKE Will Wi you ou please gi give e m me a recipe for honey c cake e Thank you ORA Hero aro are the ingredients for forloney honey loney cike Ora Ora Four ur table table- spoons spoons shortening 4 egg g whites hites 3 4 3 cup p wat water r. r 2 2 1 0 4 1 cups cup flour our S 4 cup cuphone honey hone 1 cup pecan pecan meats meat 4 3 cup ugar r. r 2 tablespoons baking powder Beat Beat the the shortening shorteninG honey lioney and sug sugar r to a a 8 cr cream then hen add d the the water water and ad flour and stir until smooth add half halt the well el beaten n whites then tho nuts the remainder of the whites ail and the tho baking pow pow pow- der er Pour into a a square flat fat pan pm panl l cd with 1 greased d' d paper to a a. depth of r 3 inches and 8 a p moderate oven for or 45 minutes If It wished ho tho mixture ra may be b cut into int cubes and iced ice Honey pecan can icing king 1 2 1 cup 2 tablespoons mele melted l butter buter pinch Inch of or sal salt 2 cups cups' po powdered ugar ug r 1 cup salted t cd pecan pecans 4 t tablespoons table table- ble- ble spoons whipped c cream am Mix lx honey honc utter butter buter whipped cream together add powdered sugar susa pecan meats a and d sal salt alt I NEW YEAR P PARTY Dear ear IMi Miss Blair I am am m giving a New Nw Yer Years Year party pary arid and nd would like Ie some suggestions for or matching partners partner for dancing Also Allo can you give gye me a list of games amet that may be played ayed p between anew Thank you QUANDARY Send K a a stamped self addressed envelope for our circular on games or adults another if it you want ant one onen on n games for tor children Following Flowing is ts s sa a 3 New ears cars resolution game gamo by DJ whIch dance partners may be he chosen chosen It Is called caled Turning Over a aNew aNew P Party h New Jew Leaf See eo Main Magazin for fe December for further urther directions of or a New Years Year's party part Sheets of paper are prepared d witha with a resolution on each They are laid lai one ne on top of ot the other and so arran arranged ar- ar ran ranged Sed that o only lY about an an inch of ot the tho lie lie- top of ot each ech sheet is visible le Themen he men are called to register each placing his namo name at the top of a sheet hect of of tho the paper After they have been well wel shuffled th the papers are placed face tace down own on a a stand or table in the tho te middle of ot th the room One at a a time the tho 10 ladies ladles stop step up to the table and nd turn urn over oyer a un new leaf leat Each then reads aloud ud her re resolution Ech a tion ton on printed thereon and ad afterward ewald the tho of ot the gentleman gentle gentle- announce announces naino naipo nalto gent man who h has placed his 1118 namo name on the he paper and who now no noot of ot course i a her partner Following are somo some resolutions s I cd to dance dance My toes toc so 80 neat We Were made mado to be stepped on by your big feet feet The woman om alwa always pays how true For 5 see e. e 1 L now noW must dance danco with wIh you ou Resolved at at least leat tho the music's great When dancing with wih you jou Is i my fate fate Resolved that with wih you ou I shall hal dance danco daco DeU Because 6 you OU are my only chance Resolved Resolve to dance dace but lets let's be beran frank frankFor frankFor frank frank- For me ran ran- Ji it will wl be Just jOst st a a blank Resolved Resolve m my dut duty must must be bo done Ill I'll Il 11 dance with wih you you you-a you you- a danco dance sans sans- sans fun lun Resolved Hale well we'll dance like dance like Nathan Ill I'll Il 11 meet my fate ate and never quail quat Resolved that Damu was quite quito right right- I should have havo stayed at home to to- to night Resolved Resolve to think of ot self sel no more nut But step with wih OU ou onto tho the floor Resolved to dance dance hard to say say say- Yes Tree dance with wIh you wIth you |