Salt Lake Telegram | 1930-10-21 | Page 8 | Local News

I Undoubtedly if quarreling is to continue you two should take a vacation from each other that lasts longer than the falling out periods if it not permanently The fact that YOU can quarrel with 5 your our sweetheart sweet sweet- heart icart over over trivial matters matteis and that you ar are jealous when another boy goes to see sec h h her r shows that you arc cultivating an attitude of possessiveness posses posses- over her that will not be bo tolerated on her part and that will kc keep p tho the pot o of turmoil boiling whenever you ou are together I am not blaming you jou entirely for forthe the quarrels for It always s 's takes two to make a quarrel But a a quarrel unlike quarrel-unlike some somo thing that once begun beSun are soonest ended once once begun s seems cems t to have no termination termination tion even though It concern itself with a 3 variety of or causes Quarreling Quarrel Quarrel- Ing Ino can become a 3 habit and the only way to end the tho habit is to tomake tomake tomako make mako up your our mind definitely that you ou will hold your jour our tongue when she starts tho the racket or for her to hold bold hers when you ou get et fier fiery This must bo be boby by l mutual agreement J if you arc are areto to continue t to go together with lh any hope of happiness Nothing can cnn be be- bemore more Ing to peace and therefore to lo happiness happiness hap hap- than the tho habit of or speaking aloud in a n. malicious manner ones one's opposition to another's views And that is js Just what makes the sum aura and substance of oC quarreling Encourage En En- courage tolerance of or another's views even though they differ radically from your jour our own Your own may be right right right-at at least part port of or the lime but time but there 1 is' is nothing that will drive a person farther from Cram the point of or acceptance of your oui views lew than limn a n. quarrel aYou You can with calmness calmness calm cairn ness and In a a reasonable manner explain your views if tho opportunity opportunity opportunity offers and anti there l let t the tho matter matter mat runt ter rest A heated argument can produce nothing but hut a ra tion Surely if It you jou ou two really care for lor each other you jou ou will not nol permit this hibit to drive 1 rIve o you j ou apart