Show f i HEARTS SHAVEN 1 Letters and questions for the department ho should ld be addressed to MIs Mica Betty Catty Blair Hearts Heart's Haven Salt Lake Telegram Write only on one side of the paper It Is necessary to app append pd d your name and address addrell but these I are held In confidence and will not be bo published Lost and found notices cannot be published in the tho column v MISTAKEN LOVE TACTICS Dear Miss Blair When I read the letter Utter signed Love Mo Me I shuddered a as aG it t re reminded re- re minded me of my dreadful mistake mis mis- take tako made mado six six long months ago I too was wa anxious to be bo loved to be shown more consideration especially especially espe espe- when in a crowd as I was very proud of him him tall tall dark and very handsome I knew several girls were ware very envious of me still stilt stillI I was determined to make them more moro envious I wanted him to show affection for me ma before them So SoI I thought Id I'd wake him up by do doing do ing a little petting with a fellow he I know liked me mc I did not go to any extremes but enough that it t hurt urt him or as he expressed it U disgusted him and I lost him My heart hurt is crushed I cant can't care for or any other boy Before ho left he lie explained that ho ne was was' through and would try to forget me Ho He said his trust in me mo was as destroyed that ho wanted a wife who wh would love lava him for what ho was one in whom ho lie could place explicit confidence confidence con con- fidance and ono one satisfied with love and not with bei being ng loved by every gu guy who wanted to neck So watch your step Love Me If that fellow loves you ho he will tell you These expert dont don't rare care for you nor any oth other r girl My advice is that you stick to the slow ono one or you will bo be a victim of a broken he heart H HEART EART SICK We think it extremely generous of or you ou Heart Sick to tell your our own stor story with its Us fatal mistake for tor tho the benefit of or Lovo o Me Ire It is our opinion that other girls mn may maywell maywell well profit by W tho the same story First to thino own self be true and it will follo follow as th the tho night the thc stay day 3 thou not then bo be false to any man Wo We do not think yours oms an altogether altogether alto alto- gether hopeless case Heart Henrt Sick 1 What you ou havo have lost In him you OU Vave really gained for lor yourself V v d whether it b blo be 1 he ie or another like him there thero will bo be someone to recognize his own Like attracts like Ike and the qualities your our ex- ex thought you ou had and that ll at a l. l crisis came amo up missing will be fixed forever be because ause of this experience That is so much to the Rood good He or someone else looking for Just such qualities will re recognize O nize them Jn ln you ou You will In recognize nize his need eed and pronto two components components com corn undivided portents of oC a n. henceforth h cn-h Mi or whole cholo will ha have found Ira Ilo sometimes funny how ho- things s happen but they Just do do If Ir you OU keep on on wanting them to and working working work work- ing for them ANXIETY COMPLEX Dear Doar Miss Bleir I have wanted to write to you after fter reading Dorothys letter letter- about nervous fears I thought it would help me some somo to como to you with my troubles too I am 25 years vears old have havo four children baby just 7 months old I know exactly what it was that started my nervous fears It seen seems that after each child was born I became me weaker and this last one has surely wrecked me After buSy baBy camo my husband went nw away lY to work and I was alone alono with th babes babec and very nervous There was hardly a night that I wasn't kept awake tending sick kid dies One Ono boy 2 years old had convulsions convulsions con con- and one thing after another another an an- other happened until all I knew was When mv my husband camo came homo home I 1 was all in in-he in headaches in-headaches headaches daches dizzy and other things the tho matter One doctor advised ed an operation but lut for this there was no money Every cent we have has to go for 1 or for for me I have taken eight bottles of md just when I think I am netting getting better hetter I have somo some other ailment I 1 get set so disgusted I think what's the theU U ue uP C C My nervous fears make mako me afraid to io stay alone I pet tho the fear thaI that tha I will ill die and leave my babies I pet worked up to such a pitch I 1 thin I will go crazy Oh to get well to 0 b be b able to tend mv my home my babies I am so o downhearted If we could only go away from here where there was steady deady work so I could have hav medical attention but it r ems we wo cant can't get out of here My husband huband is very good to me and does docs all nil he can for me mo He feels reels so badly bi to think he cant can't do more moro for I me He is a wonderful worker if only there thero was a chance chanco for steady work Surely the clouds will roll sway and the sun shine for us some someday day If I could only control my fears and mind Im I'm sure would be better J JUST U ST 25 There Is nothing In this world for you ou to bo be afraid of except your our 0 own om fears Sorrow can come sIckness sickness sick sIck- I ness death all can bo be borne with a a. quiet dignity and patience o that Inevitably in inevitably In- In le lessens sens their destructive qualities because tho the constructive forces of dignity o of patience are eo ISO great as aa to overwhelm o them But fears cars can gnaw V and corrode ode and utter utterly destro destroy You must first be begin begin be- be gin your our attack on tho fears that anno annoy you jou and keep you awake at and finally como come to the point where death itself has no fears No Now my dear this cant can't bo done lone b by Just thinking about It In tho the first place stop doing the things thins of which your our doctor would p prove ove Throw awa away your our patent medicine You have discovered that It docs does you OU no good Substitute in Its place good reliable cod liver oil for the It contains Take lemon juice immediately afterward to take talo away the fishy taste Be- Be Begin Begin Be Be- I gin gilt with small doses and take tako them regularly before meals Perhaps not more chan chart a teaspoonful at a I time to start with Later Inter on a table- table spoonful I lake the tonic for your our special needs the doctor prescribes At night when you ou go so to bed drink a a. glass lass of ot warm milk say your OUr prayers In tho the manner in which you OU have been leen accustomed to saying them them them-somo somo da day I ma may toll tell you what hM hMan an Infinite variety of or prayers there are aro that have received recognition and and whether you oU believe bellevo in a her ner- fonal God or a no Great Kind Ind Spirit that permeates everything e and makes everything akin you ou must know kni that that you ou are a part of ot for which and to which you ou pray pra and as such no real harm can come Hope draws hope and brings bIngs its ts lIke 1110 returns Fears attract the timings things feared and bring their re re- re turns And thero Is nothing In all this world of or which to bo afraid Isn't that a a. marvelous thought Maybe if you ou sa say 1 It t over O and over o overo overto to o yourself you OU will finally come to believing it and when hen you ou do your our health will actually improve But Dat 11 my may dear here is is one thing I want to be ver very frank with you U about You ca can have havo no mi ml about the fact act that your sickness has lias been brou brought hl on b by having ha your o our r babies fast In your our condition of or health It is not only unfair to yourself but tut to those already de dependent de- de pendent upon yo you OJ to have more Neither are you ou able financially to support more to give them a fair chanco In life lite I 1 cannot tell ten you what you OU should do to avoid having moro children Your husband huband and yourself must plan this thing out and determine upon a course of oC ac action action action ac- ac tion which advice advice ad nd- vice will help you ou to regulate this matter You doubtless know that it Jt 13 is illegal to 10 dispense knowledge of oC contraceptive methods You Tou are are also er very wen well aware that many people have such knowledge It Is up to you ou to get et such knowledge for or yourself and uso use It In an in intelligent intelligent in- in manner for your our own health and that of your our family When hen you OU begin to take a a. fe few real steps lor tor yourself you ou will begin to Lo see how strong ou ou will bc become ome both Joth In mind and bod body And yes yes yes- S- S the clouds too wilt will begin to roll awa away Come again ANOTHER KITTEN Dear M Miss Blair I regret to tell you that I havo another another kitten I am forced to give giveaway away These partings parting are Iro sad cad but must be endured Will you please tell tel interested parties to either come cometo io to o 83 Westminster avenue or call Hy DINKY Well ell but DInk Dinky we cant can't understand understand understand un un- un- un the regrets You Tou must remember that your our sad loss II la is somebody osos oso's gain And then goodness me inc what shat would the column col col- do if lC you didn't have a a. kitten now and then to give I e u us Think of her partings poor feline We Ve hope all your kittens find homes as asgood asgood good as those the they leave Wo o shall await aalt with pleasure your our next com corn ing Ins TO DOLLY LOVEJOY Your request is for the advert advertising advertis Is- Is Jn ing columns Or Ot you oU might write tho the various parcel post libraries in inthe tho the city ant and obtain for tho price of or ortho tho the postage tho time u use uso o of the limo book wanted Th The Tue book Is Js still so new ant and is still being so widely ly read end that I doubt If it sc second ont hand copies could be obtained MONSIGNOR D. D G. G HUNT Dear Miss Blair Is it permissible through your column to settle a little argument In tho course of a conversation it was mentioned that Monsignor D. D G. G Hunt of this c city ty W was prior to becoming a Catholic a member of the Mormon lormon church I should like flke to know if this is true Thanking you kindly for this information MRS p P. P Monsignor Hunt Informs me that thal prior to hi his becoming a a. Catholic he was a Methodist Many Nany of u up knew him as debating coach at the tho University 1 of or Utah You are aro wel wel- I come collie |