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Show cause you are afraid that you are about to lose something necessary to your material well being you might try explaining how you feel to him. Be honest and let him know that you at least realize that you have been selfish and unfair un-fair and that you want to start over again. I don't know whether he will accept you on this or not. Unfortunately Unfor-tunately few of us realize how hard it is to rekindle the fires of love once they have been trampled tram-pled out. Dear Louisa: I am a woman who has been married ten years and have two darling children. I have a generous gener-ous husband who has always been so considerate and thoughtful ! that I have made the mistake of taking him for granted. During all of our married life I have been the one who got the luxuries and attention at-tention and it never occurred to me that I was being selfish. John always seemed so understanding and good natured about everything every-thing and never seemed to recent being left out if there wasn't enough for. two. But during the last few months he has seemed to change into a different person. Instead of being be-ing in a good humor all of the time he goes around the house in silence and has nothing to say and I find him looking at me in a very critical manner. The situation situa-tion has me worried and I don't know exactly what to do. I really do love him and I should hate to lose him but I am afraid. What can I do? Worried Wife. Answers .... My guess is that "the worm has - turned" at last. There are some people who will take and take but eventually they get to the place where they have had enough and are through. You had something very valuable and worth while but you have carelessly care-lessly thrown it away and, while I hate to be the bearer of bad news, I doubt if you ever get it back. I Your husband has probably been making excuses to himself for you all these years. He loved you and wanted to believe that you loved him the same way. But perhaps you've been particularly selfish and more inconsiderate of late than usual. Perhaps all of a sudden he realized that the only person you cared for was yourself and that he had been living in a world made up of wishful thinking'- ' If you really do love your husband hus-band and are not just worried be- |
