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Show -"JIwiii iKiiiiimuiimiiiii 11 minium, timiiiiini, 1, mnmunn 1$ I Health and Beauty j -By I I ,llllillBIi uiraiiniiiiiiiimiiii DB. SOPHIA BBUNSON urn 1 nun in reality they are disgusted and will go off and repeat the remarks to the persons about whom they are made. Naturally, this awakens feelings of resentment and though she may never know it she has lost friends. Maybe the people to whom the remarks were repeated are too big to retaliate, but they will never nev-er trust or like her again. They are well aware that insincere people peo-ple cannot be depended upon for they are incapable of loyal and lasting friendship. "To thine own self be true and it must follow as the night the day thou can'st not then be false to any man." Charm is incompatible incompati-ble with insincerity and she who would possess it must be free from hypocrisy. The magazine articles on charm tell you that your manners must be pleasing. A well stored mined will enable you to talk interestingly. interest-ingly. All of this helps, but if you would possess true and lasting last-ing charm you must be kind, unselfish un-selfish and helpful. As you think, so will you act.-If act.-If your heart is right, goodness will shine in your eyes, ring In your voice and radiate from your face. Children and even dogs will love you. People will be attracted to you, for you will live in such a way that it will give you happiness happi-ness and lasting charm. CHARM Watch your thoughts. Remem- : a that God's word tells us, "As a man thinketh in his heart, so is be" and you cannot artif ically conceal con-ceal it at all times. oSoner or later lat-er your real thoughts will reveal themselves and you will stand before be-fore others as you really are. One day a patient came in my ' office and related the following: There are some people in my : neighborhood that I dislike. One day I met them and they began joking me about a trivial matter. I spoke to them very insultingly and I am sure that they think I am rude and ill-mannered. I spoke before I thought. I expressed express-ed my real feelings ecause I did not like them and was taken off - my guard." This woman probably created a " feeling of antagonism and disgust by her unseemly conduct which v. was due to being momentarily off her guard. She cherished evil ; thoughts in her heart to which se gave expression in an unguarded unguard-ed moment. Some women may have carefully careful-ly trained manners but really lack : consideration for others, as well as true refinement. Such women Jill often show this by catty remarks re-marks about others. Some of them I are so unfeeling that they even i hold up the physical defects of others to ridicule. The woman who ; doesthat is often trying to be wit- : ty, and is really making a bid for popularity; but she is only making : herself thoroughly disliked and feared. The ones to whom she makes the remarks may some- toes laugh and seem amused but |