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Show SOCIAL ETIQUCTTE. Concerning Car lMtimg and I'alllus: AfUr the Wadding. The period of card leaving after a wed ding la not jet definitely Axed. Horn authorities au-thorities aay t'n dy; but that In crowded city and with an imtneiiee ee-quajntauca ee-quajntauca would be ImpoMible. Mr. John Sherwood, one of our foremoet authorities au-thorities on maimers ami sooial usae", ays that If only Invited to tha rhnrrh many ladies Mushier that they perform their whole duty by leavinn a cwrd aome time during the winter, and Including tha young couple In their invitation. Very r.'Koroua people call, however, wUlilii U-n day, and if lnvib-4 to the houae t he rail la mill more Imperative, and miiat be mada soon aiUir the wedding. But If a young eouple o not aud Uk future nkl mm, hut only Invite one to a rhtirrh werl'ting, thereto often a eeriotisdlfnmilty tn know, big when to call, and the rtrnt vlnit murf I indefinitely postponed until teey amid their card notifying their frtenda of their whereabouts. Wndiung invitatujoa requ're no ncnrw, but ople Uvlng at a dlaluive who rannot attend tho wedding should send their nartU by mail to aiurure the koala that the Invitation Invita-tion haa Ikm-d received. It ia adnibttilila wlinr a niarrlin takea plnen during a aeaeon of family mourning or of a inlef'irtmia to Uua tarda almply hearing the name of the married party, with new addroaa, ai d another rant In-eloaed In-eloaed upon which U r.ngravsd the mldon name of thc Lnd't. knteuiallfl feUrtalnuwul. Moat people are made oilarrable by what aome elaver wrilr on ethiuiitu haaduhtel "nyatemallc enlertaioment." "It ia lm-iwrative." lm-iwrative." thia authority ramliwl ua. "to rieot the wiahea and peeuliafitiea of tha i.Ur. It ia not lofroquantly tha raea that a vuuLor In tlie family la not allowed to hme a momeiit'a reat, but U paee.t from one to tlie otlier to be talked to or to Ui auiuwd aa their fiuey may aiigrt. t n-der n-der the riw.-umsUitv'i a peraon rrfum u, bed at UlKht worn not in body and tnind, luateadof fnelingtuai the 'y ha Ikv ii one of pe d rwrt. Tkui mimUrt rffort t oiitrtaintng to aomeilinea tha rauaeof tbeborter,liig of rieua. Tha nm whif:hlaetaaldin every weil rt.Kutat-d home for the gtiwrts should be, who wi n-pW, n-pW, ae rod i''' Intruaiuri, and the pri-vaoyof pri-vaoyof UeJoaaddwratwuUI b rwi-ea-Ki. If the visitor a'uoald aoe fit W and pr.rttoiiof tie time ia arl'iaion tlie etrfer taioernhooldBotrardltiw a aign tt ! Uieounpanlonafcipnf t oe ftiuily bsa hero I iuund uiUueut r.!j4 uiiprr.flubit" |