Show Selecting a Wife to toA PERPLEXED youth torn between A conflicting emotions writes I 1 am In sorry straits 1 am tn- tn to a young oung latI lady who Is a 0 red hot suffragette a ette I love her deeply but she does docs everything of which 1 disapprove She Sho Is s mannish In dress and walk I like a a. woman to glide and wear frilly clothes Sho carries a 0 night ke key and nd comes home homo when she likes while I think a woman should bo be a a. clinging vine Ine She thinks a married couple foolish to have children for r ten years while 1 I punt dote on babies Ought I to marr marry her Certainly not son unless your Idea of ot matrimony Is a a. drawn battle baUle Instead of ot a a grand sweet swoot sr g Two people whose opinions and tastes are as an antagonistic nn- nn as yours your and this girls girl's could no more moro get along peacefully to together together to- to gether gother than fire tIre and water And the tho pity ply o of It is II that Old Mother Nature who concerns herself with the tho good of ot the race and not the happiness of the individual almost Invariably In gives gl to men and women endowed with those these opposite characteristics a fatal fascination for each ench other so that they marry each other and live scrappily eve n r ar I Dont Don't bo misled son son Into believing behoving that marriage Is some sort of magic malc soothing syrup that softens down all the tho angles In peoples people's dispositions and makes those who have always disagreed disagreed dis dis- agreed on ever every subject ablo able to agree as soon noon as ns the knot Is tied Take Tako It as a a. sure tip Up that the tho matrimonial matrimonial matri matri- menial yoke isn't a patent adjustable collar It Its It's tho the most stiff and gin stock that was ever Invented ted and the most liable to gall Kall Also Aba p people ople are not changed by having the marriage service road read over them thom As they before wedlock In character and disposition dis position so they are In n wedlock Only a little more so so Therefore If you OU wish Ish to be happy though married pick out the tho kind of a wife you OU want ant Instead of ot marrying the theone theone one who Is exactly the sort of a n woman you Jou dont don't approve of or and then trying to make her over Into your OUr Ideal Behove Bellevo Be- Be hove me that Is a a. painful process the tho end whereof IB is generally generalli Reno Of course It Is fa part of ot evor every mans man's van vanity I t to believe that his wife Is s going to be bo as ns plastic as clay In his hands hand and that he can mold her hor character to suit his own fane fancy Never ever was there therea a greater fallacy on earth than this B By the time a girl Is old enough h to man marry olio eho has hardened Into the sort of a woman she oho Is going to be and you could change the color of ot her eyes oyes or ortho ortho tho tIm shape of her face easier than you Jou could her tastes and beliefs and standards standards standards stan stan- dards of conduct The Tho question of ot whether she Is going to be bo Independent or clinging sensible or a fool tool broad minded or narrow and prejudiced thrift thrifty of a 11 sp spendthrift Is IB already settled son and no mere man can alter the verdict She's Sho's there to take or leave Jea but she sho Is THERE One could laugh at your own particular lar Jar dilemma were not your our case so typical of ot the man many matrimonial tragedies tragedies trag trag- edies edles that result from a n. man mon marrying the tho kind of ot a n girl he doesn't want In Instead Instead instead In- In stead of ot tho the sort of a ono one he does and then quarreling with her ever after be because because because be- be cause sho she Isn't something that she never ne pretended to be In your Jour case you OU have drawn the picture of an ultra-modernist ultra girl A girl who is Independent Intelligent willed self-willed and determined Theres There's nothing wr wrong nJ about her She has as much right to her hor political opinions as ns you ou have havo to yours ours If sho she prefers to wear sensible comfortable clothes In Instead Instead instead In- In stead of or lacing herself hersel Into tight fronts she certainly has common sense and hygiene on her side of ot tho question What hat you OU are arc looking for Is a sweet s fluffy headed little creature who dotes on dolling c herself up and who will sit at your our feet Ceet and ask you what you think thinks ho-thinks thinks about everything from politics to pie The reason there thero Is so 50 much domestic misery is chiefly because so many men mon mendo mendo mondo do tho tiro thing thing- you are tempted to do doman do- do man marry women who are arc one thing thing- and then expect them to be something else Wo We should think a man a candidate for tor fora tora a lunatic asylum i if It he bought a grand piano and then complained because It was not a 0 cook stove when whon ho got It Ithome home But Dut that Is la no more unreasonable than for tor a man to marr marry a 0 girl bo- bo cause causo she Is a beautiful butterfly of ot fashion Cashion and then blame her because she Is not a thrifty working hard do domestic domestic domestic do- do wife Nor Is It more rIdiculous ridiculous Adieu lous bus than for a man to pick out a n. professional pro pro- woman who has achieved success success success suc suc- cess In some calling on which she has put years ears of or study and effort and then foci feel himself ill III used because she does not want to give gl up her lifework and become a n darner of stockings Yet we wo see these ill assorted matches made mado dally daily when the men might Just Justas as aR well have picked out the kind of ot a wife wiCe the they wanted In tho tiro first place The attraction that draws people of ot opposite tastes and temperament to together together together to- to gether doesn't last The only onh tic tie that endures Is of ot similarity The people we like best are lre those who are arc most like Ilko ourselves and who agree with us Instead of ot contradicting us us last week with Mr and Mrs Geor George Georgo e Christensen In InU Mt U Plea Pleasant ant Mrs Irs Emma W. W Da Day Is here from Crom Ogden Off Off- den to spend the winter with Mr and antI Mrs Alfred Lunt The rho Modern Woodmen held a successful success ful CuI ball at the Arlington ton last evenIn even- even In Ing Wilford returned the tho first part of tho the week from Kansas Kansa where he has been In lu the mission field G G. G S. S WInn Inn Is 18 down from Crom Salt alt Lake visiting his parents parents' Mr and Mrs S. S R. R Winn Miss tI Pexton has been visiting In Mantl the past week Mr Ur A A. A AV W. W Vague Hague went to Salt Lako Lake TuC Tuesday da on business Mss Miss r Emma mma Boucher and her brother broth broth- I er r Mr II Boucher came down from Crom Salt Salt Lake Monday I evening to visit with their rent parents MIss Luella v neen of or visited t I tI her sister bore horo Saturday A A. A H it Anderson of Mona Monn was t a e p hl visitor last S Saturday Mrs Irs Adams of or Logan Is here visiting ler her bor daughter Mrs Jc Joseph sEph G G. G Irons and will remain for tor the holidays 5 The lure Ia Ladles Ladies los los' Literary Literary club b blast met at tho the home homo of or Mrs D O. O Miner lInel to last Monday day evening and listened t to an nn Interesting talk on India b by Mrs Irs J. J R. R ee A paper on the tho de desirability Jl of or a public library and gymnasium lum for tor was wasn n read ri-id hv by Mrs Irs nO Roy I F. F Homer J J. J M of or L Ic an was a l visitor hero Sunday Sunda Charles and arid George Tolle Tolley have ha re returned returned re- re I turned from Idaho where they have been for Cor some time |