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Show THURSDAY, APRIL 12, 1979 PLEASANT GROVE REVIEW, PLEASANT GROVE, UTAH THURSDAY, APRIL 12, 1979 Funeral Rites Held For Lucille Hillman Funeral rites for Lucille Paulson Hillman, 79, who died at the American Fork Hospital last Friday, after a short illness, were held in the s Stake House Tuesday, April 10, at 11 a.m. Bishop Lynn Jarvis was in charge of the services. Speaker at the ser-vices was Kay L. Jacobs, and Bishop Jarvis also gave remarks. A life sketch was given by Lynn Paulson, and was writ-ten by Gene R. Paulson. Musical numbers were given by Warren P. Kirk, accompanied by Winona Kirk, and two vocal numbers by Nina Paulson Richards and Peggy Lambert, accompanied by Catherine Rees. William E. Petersen also sang a vocal solo, accompanied by Mary Deane Paulson Ivie. Prayers were given by Ford R. Paulson, Robert Marrott and Harold Clark, and the grave in the Pleasant ' Grove City Cemetery was dedicated by Guy S. Hillman. Pallbearers were Bradley Zenker, Steven Ivie, Kent Church, Blake Peterson, Michael Church and Jan Paulson. Lucille P. Hillman was born Nov. 1, 1899, in Pleasant Grove to Niels Peter and Mary Amelia Robison Paulson. She married Edgar Allen Hillman on Feb. 21, 1931 in Pleasant Grove. He died Nov. 10, 1964. She was a member of the LDS Church, a member of the Pleasant Grove Garden Club, Shade Tree Committee, and the Chrysan-themum Society. She also worked on the Ar-bor Day and Strawberry Days Committees. She was a longtime employee at the Bank of Pleasant Grove, retiring in 1965. Survivors include one son and one daughter, Thomas Edgar Hillman and Mrs. E. Ray Bone of Lehi; nine gran-dchildren, one brother and two sisters, Jean R. Paulson of Orem; Mrs. Edna Church, Burley, Idaho, and Mrs. Mary Blake, Granada Hills, Calif. Entertain . . . P.G. Cloggers, Chorus atPTA P.G.H.S. Cloggers Eind Chorus will enter-tain at a special PTA Election meeting Thur-sday 7:30 p.m. April 19th at PGHS auditiorum. Principal John Gourley will be directing a discussion of this years attendance policy evaluation, success, and ideas for next year. Those to be chosen for PGHS PTA First Vice President are: Mrs. Shirle (Lila Mae) Debenham, Mrs. William Mark (Dena) Bezzant, Mrs. Morris (May) Carrillo, and Mrs. Carl (Janice)Warnick. Those not elected for Vice Pres. have been asked to be members of the PGHS PTA board of 1979-80- . WE m 6 R. Scott Craghead PGHS Student Selected as Outstanding Student in April R. Scott Craghead, a senior at Pleasant Grove High School, was selected as out-standing student for the month of April. He is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Robert G. Craghead. Scott was honored Tuesday at a luncheon held at the Alpine Country Club. The American Fork Rotary Club commen-ded him on his achievements. Scott is a Utah Boy Stater, belongs to the school golf team. His important classes this year in school are calculas, drafting and English. He has received a scholarship from Utah Technical College in Provo and plans to at-tend next fall and major in electronics. j j - ! AWARD Yukus Inouye holds award for Outstanding County Official, received recently. Inouye Cited as Top Official in County Gov't. Former Utah County Com-missioner Yukus Y. Inouye, received the 1978 Outstanding County Official Award at the Utah Association of Counties AnnualConference held in Salt Lake City. The conference is held each year for all elected officials from the 29 counties in Utah. In presenting the award to Mr. Inouye it was pointed out that he is a former farmer who operated a cattle ranch and farm , and is a licensed real estate broker and developer as well as being a general contractor. Making the presentation was Kenneth Dallinga, chairman of the awards committee, which selected Mr. Inouye. Mr. Dallinga is the Weber County Treasurer. "It is a great honor to be named to receive this coveted award," said Mr. Inouye. "I feel it is very much of an honor to be included with the many fine people who have received this recognition previously." The plaque states that the recipient is being recognized for "outstanding service rendered in county government." There were five nominees for this year's award, including Nina Reid, the current Utah County Recorder. The association is composed of the various elected county officials from throughout the state including sheriffs, treasurers, recorders, assessors, commissioners and others. In making the presentation Mr. Dallinga pointed out the long list of accomplishments of Mr. Inouye over the years. Firemen Get to Six Fires During Past Two Week Period Six fires kept the Pleasant Grove Fire Department busy during the past week and a half, and the firemen were called out more times than in the past month. On April 1 Max Bond had a haystack fire at 155 North 1200 West and the entire stack burned, loss $2500. On April 3 they had a dry run to Norton's Food Store, where a possible furnace fanbelt slippage caused a smell, but no damage. On April 5 a grass fire was worked on in Cedar Hills and April 6 another grass fire at Ronella Fillerup's, 799 South Main. Also on April 6, Frank Merryweather, 1148 East 900 South, had a fire in his wrecked cars loaded on a trailer. They were valued at $50 and the loss was $50. After the storm this week gets over, Chief Fred Keetch asks everyone to be careful of grass fires on their lots. It's easier to not start them than to put them out. Save r Gasoline 33 It works! SAVES Rin Mm. Public Service I I tV Tml B3 oi This Ncvbpdpe. e. j iwr The Adverlising Council MM PPP CoiKU The Department of Transportatioi mmmmmmmmtMmmmamtmml , A GLASSMAN 2Lvj AUTO & TRUCK GLASS :.y JtK "WE COME TO YOU" Ul lM CALL FOR ESTIMATE i 756-216- 2 W GERT HEINZIG M AMERICAN FORK Prescriptions for Peace ( t of ITIind; )f ? A cheerful face is nearly as B good for an invalid as heal- H i'hy weather. R Your PrtMiprMN Center 1 Inrane 76 So. Maiil gPjeoioni Croyetoh j MoneyMarket Certificates Current Interest Rate For the Week of April 12 .57 A ! i r paid on f $10,000 deposit for a 6 month period. Highest possible interest rate. Savings & Loans and Credit Unions cannot pay a higher rate. For more information call 785-352- 1 IS Bank Of PLEASANT GROVE 66 South Main Member FDIC Early withdrawals are subject to a substantial interest penalty Phone 785-203- 1 - Highway 91 - Lindon, Utah ! Wishing You a Happy Easter Grocery Department 1 Duncan Hines Pudding Cakes 69 Campfire Marshmallows, 1 lb. 2 for . 88 Western Family 'Robin Egg' Candy, 10 oz.59 f 1' Ostrom Piceces Stems, Mushrooms 4 & 2 99 C Clover Club Chips, Sour Cream & Barbecue . 69' Olsen Medium AA Eggs 77 I DelMonte Ketchup, 38 01 89 ! Frito's Corn Chips 59 ! ; Pepsi7-Up- , 16 oz (PiusDeP.)99 J Produce Department Celery, Lb. 16 Easter Lilies & Corsages I 4 Lb. Bag, Red Delicious Apples $1 29 ! Meat Department ; A&R Franks, 12oz 99 J Maple River Boneless Hams, Lb. .$1.69 Fryer Breasts, Lb 86 ; Mild Cheese, Lb I1 I Farmers Korner Bacon, Lb $1.29 - All Meat U.S. D. A. Choice ! Easter Candy, Cards, Decorations, Novelties ' Toys 25 OFF Open 7 a.m. fo 10 p.m. 7 Days a Week j SMITH BROS. I I MARKET I I 93 South Main - Phone 785-233- 1 I I Locally Owned and Operated I I Pepsi &7-U- p, 60,8.991 I Clover Club Barbecue or Sour Cream Chips, 801 79 I I Tab or Coke, 6 Cans $1.39 1 I A&R Franks, 1201 99 I I Norwest Buns, 8 Pak .39c I 8 EggS, Large AA Grade, Do: 79' I I Keebler Grahams, 2 Lb. Box . $1.29 Lays Cheetos or Corn Chips I I Reg. 89, Only 69 I I Prices Effective April 72, 73, 74 I I Compare Our Low Meat Prices I 1 STORE HOURS; 8 a.m. to 9 p.m. Daily I I SHAMROCK NURSERY Afc 387 South Main - Pleasant Grove &JBb Ijp Phone 785-545- 3 (W (2 Doors North of Purple Turtle) SEEDS Fruit Trees jo $1m $5,8 : Reg. 35 Mm j Re9- - 6 98 di Now H fl LAWN I use FOOD I of For Summer I I II Spreader Flowers L!y Communication Is Problem in People Getting Divorced in U.S. by Dr. Ford McBride This year in the United States, more than a million couples will seek a divorce. I wonder how many of these marriages could have been saved if communications skills had been worked on and improved. I have never seen a troubled marriage in which communication was not a problem. Some couples retreat into silence; others argue. There are many reasons why a marriage end in divorce, but in-dications are that poor communication is frequently an un-derlying factor. In counseling a young couple the wife said that her husband cared nothing for her and made her feel un-wanted and inferior. The husband spoke up immediately and said, I didn't know you felt that way, why haven't you told me this before? Effective com-munication between this couple was almost t. A question couples often ask is whether it is too late to improve communication or to make changes. Marriage counselor, Robert Buchanan says that if a couple still feels some love for each other, constructive changes can be made. It is the couples attitude toward change that is a key factor. Improving communication means making changes. There are numerous activities couples can use to improve and maintain effective communication. Counselor Lucy Ulman of Newton, Mass. suggests that the couple talk about anything at all for 30 uninterupted minutes every day. Before a par-tner responds, however, he or she must sum-marize what the other said. This exercise en-courages careful listening. Another idea is to ask your spouse for his or her opinion about something and then listen to that opinion without preparing a counter viewpoint. A communication technique called "dialoguing" is also useful. Each partner writes about feelings concerning an impor-tant topic, such as love, life or children. These written com-munications are then exchanged and discussed to help build mutual understanding. There are hundred of other techniques that can be used to improve communication but any technique is only as good as the couple's willingness to spend time and effort in making it work. Dr. McBride can be seen every Wednesday on Channel ll's Newsroom at 6 and 11 p.m. Beautif ication Meeting (Continued from page 1) flowers, etc. at Shannon Field. Dixie Beck of the Shade Tree Commission brought out that the trees in the Time and Tempera tr island had to be removed and moved to another area. Councilman Steve Peterson suggested that various clubs be asked to be responsible for various sections to be maintained. He also discussed the annual City Clean-U- p Project. Moya Told, president of the Pleasant Grove Garden Club, presented plans for Garden Club projects regarding redecoration a room in the Recreation Building for use by various civic clubs. She also accepted the challange of Councilman Peterson to have the Garden Club oversee the main-tainenc- e of the Rose Garden and to help get others involved. Mr. Hoglund had prepared a list of areas which should be considered for beautificaiton. A full discussion on the concentration of efforts on en-trances to Pleasant Grove, City Hall, City Recreation Building and general clean up involving youth was held and assignments made to committee members made to get the job done. Plans to follow up in the near futur were made and meeting adjourned. Dr. Daryl Says . . . Parents Get Tested by Dr. Daryl J. McCarty Parents seem to be most afraid of their of-fspring at two pints in the youngsters growing up years. When the child is only a few hours old, Dad may be reluctant to pick up the baby for fear it will "break." When the baby become a teenager, some paren-ts are afraid the kid will break away. I'm told of a man and wife who were given this ultimatum by a 17 year old son; "Either you let me drive the car to school, or I'm not going to school anymore." Mom and Dad han-ded over the keys to the car. That kid was testing his parents. He in-timidated them and won. Many other parents wouldn't do that to a child. They're smart enough to do their job firmly and thoughtfully. Psychologist Alan McFarland says paren-ts can have fun living with their adolescent children. He says many people find that being the parent of an almost-adul- t threatening and emotionally deman-ding. "I hate to see parents who have been delighted with their nursery level and young children lose their enthusiasm as parents of teenagers," he said. "Basically, your job is the same as it was when you helped your toddler learn to ride his tricycle," he said, ad-dressing a group of parents. "You show him how, and then you step back and let him do it. But you're always there when he needs you for help or advice." Watching your kid ride away on a trike you bough him is very dif-- ferent from watching him roar away in a Pon- - i tiac you're buying for yourself. j Psychologist Mc- - , Farland and many others wise in the ways of dealing with i teenagers will tell you that the parent who's too weak to draw the j line will wind up toeing the line. Being the parent of a ' teenager requires a touch somewhere bet- - ween kid gloves and boxing gloves. . Find that happy mid-point and life with your teenager can be happy. That's not to say you ' won't have problems. But you'll be able to deal with them. |