Show THERE are many kinds of charity as well as many different ways to give gilts gifts can call be harmful as m well ell as I 1 hep tul actuated by selfishness as well as by ganelos ity says a well known wilter a donation Is made because the donor knovs that it will be given a laige amount of publicity and a good deal ol of pleasure obtained from the tact fact that many people will look upon the giver as generous chai liable and unselfish thus hospitals ate are founded schools endowed rith the stipulation that they be named alter after the person contributing the money too often hen ille the making of a gif alti Is considered it is irom from the standpoint ot of how much good will mill I 1 get out ot of it rather than how much benelle will alil it be of course money given in ili this way is beneficial but how much more laudable if the spirit ol of unselfishness and generosity were present what a wonderful state hen one can enjoy giving because he sees others made happy and not because his conscience dictates that it shall be done or that a certain amount of publicity and material matei mate ial ilal gain Is to be derived from the act ach then too it Is not necessary as it Is sometimes considered to have financial means in ili order to be charitable the best of gifts are often just a little brotherly slid and personal interest a word of advice and encouragement a smile or a slap on the back in many cases where a man has gotten into the rough of lifes course and considers himself to be out of the game of knowledge that sometimes has confidence in his ability is taking a personal interest and backing him tor for a winner renews his confidence in himself and he starts down the fairway with renewed ewed ambition whereas an impersonal donation of money while it in might ight help stands a chance to further deprive him of his feeling of independence and confidence A visit to EL a sick man helps a lot more than a bunch of flowers a word of cheer from a friend I 1 is often the best of medicine in the modern modem day rush tor for wealth and material gain the meaning of the word vord brother Is last fast being forgotten the tendency Is to becomes become a group of becht anical beings devoid of all but self selfish lish thoughts striving tor for wealth and display one might well pause a moment and remember that art after er all life Is short it Is better to have ones memory perpetuated petua ted by friends and kind deeds than by boarded treasures along this line Is has been said the thing that in this life is the most worthwhile that cost the least and counts the most Is just a friendly smile |