| Show Dorothy Dixs Dix's Dix s 's Letter Box Bo J MARRIAGE THE T WHY DO MEN CEASE TO BE E LOVERS AFTER WORRIED ENGAGED GIRL WHOSE FIANCE INSULTS HER WITH JEALOUSY SHOULD WIFE NO 2 BE 05 ON FRIENDLY TERMS WITH DIVORCED WIFE NO 17 1 EAR EAR MISS Please DIX DIX Please tell me rue one ono thing thIns which I cannot under D DEAR stand Why Is it that a man can court a B girl for three ye ears and become more and more moro Infatuated with her and want her caresses cares more than ever while after marriage be he gets getso tired ti of her in Sn a few months iii iii i i honestly believe belle that a II man can go with will wl a i girl for ten years and bo be as much In love bye wIth withas her heras as eer e but it If he marrIes her Sn in a month he i bury himself behind a paper answer her in fn one mono mono- monosyllables syllables give her n a peck on the cheek Sn In place of ofa MISS CYNICAL is this a kiss Why t I IAnswer Answer VS Various answers answer may be given to your youri Miss Cynical One way to answer anser an vei Sa 0 question i who said eald the parable of 0 the man it Is by S 2 W street car after he h y to chase a P that th lt he ceased which ch being Interpreted It lt ai had caught l that courtship Is I a means to an end T means mean B S and mar mar- his objective r S and nd that having won automatically ceases lover i ned ried the lady the wooing her lUX answered by saying that the reason re be may Again your our question petting parties after marria marriage manthan why hy men nien show less enthusiasm over foolish enough to make ki kimg is because we e are did before than they do St nobody want to Therefore In the family circle mg Ing obligatory that becomes a dally daily habIt and a You Sou cant can't keep any thrill 1 In a thing do St It expected to that you OU do because you are husband and wife have to kiss each fact that a II The very meet no mat mat- matter matter time they and other time they part every every desire desiro to kiss or not strikes a adeath adeath have any whether they ter the caress of all meaning death blow at romance and robs rob to be worth hayIng having It must h have ve flavor to It it It 11 must mu For a kiss Is Ss always In Inthe desire and no one tenderness by be 18 Inspired by love by the he mood for tor these conjugal kiss which must be 1 Inevitable that the it is Ss Hence into in stated Intervals as II a a matter of dut duty should degenerate given iven at stated cheek that Is an Insult to both the the nothing but a peck on and nd the receiver If married couples had enough sense to cut ou out all the flavored osculation which Is given by a mal mar who ham and the business problem Is grabbing for his hat with his mind on thoughts thought are whose woman and received by a of the day lems lem she what centered on getting the tha children off to school and might be restored to the status will order for dinner kissing kitting It n occupied in their pre days day There would be fewer kisses but they would have more pep in them with his wife as falls tails out of ot love theory that a man roan As for or your marries that is a mistake unless the woman proves vex v ery ho he soon on as Of C Curse and disillusioning That is generally speakIng disappointing philanderers by nature and that tb course urse there are a a few men who are could hold but the great majority of o men are fairly well we w ell no I woman wives than tha til their theio lot fonder of ot domesticated and they are general generally a they cy were sere ere of ot their sweethearts The very fact that a man has haa ha picked out a woman to be her makes make him think his hi wife and bestowed his name upon better of her Just Just-ia he thinks better of an automobile as soon as it becomes his hi own property The only reason that be he is less demonstrative after alter marriage he before marriage Is that he be doesn't feel eel that he be has to be hi hit than an was They feel fecI foolish handl handin handIng glib Americans are Not t many it I Ith t soft talk and they are glad when It St Is over but they can say with th clothes and food The mistake that women make is in not understanding who work like dray horses hone tomake tomake to tomika this th and realizing that the men enen their devotion really proving make mika them comfortable are if they are dumb when It comes come every day In every every way even to lovemaking and their kisses kl e are as flabby as a cold buck buck- buckwheat DOROTHY DIX wheat cakes 00 a C a a aLEAR sensible girl gri and an a af and settled EAR r MISS DIX I DIX I am a good honest LEAR tell tel t el DEAR snakes makes me roe much but he f engaged to a man roan whom I love very ery I do during the day and when he be Is Ss not with me ore ii iia In Inthe him at everything If it I speak to some ome one of o the tb the a evening If It I I go so Into a stor store the office he ha wants want its leaving late it If I a few minutes street and am tell him hin hi did what I did I must even to know all about It 11 and why I when It H left a certain place and when wh what at street car I take exactly I arrived at my destination All of o this Is getting on my nerves and am disposition What should I do about it ruining ning my WORRIED GIRL Answer little Worried Girl there Is Just one sen sensible Why you poor life of et would s save ve yourself from a sible sibie thing thin to do if you refuse to torture and that is i to break your engagement and marry the man who treats treat you with so little trust and con and If It are Idiotic enough to t Why the mans man's halt half Insane you nothing but a prisoner You will wil wilbe yourself will find marry rry him you OU to have havi havir ha to anywhere or not be permitted to have any friends or go jot nf the natural pleasures of ot life No Xo matter how much you give gl re any r conduct yourself you will be forever In to him or how v discreetly you wrongly con under ler suspicion and have bave your ybur tur most Innocent action all sorts sort of vile Furthermore you will have to liste to does not have anything to go on accusations accusation for Jealousy If looks into Its Ita own black heart and puts it own dark Inter Interpretation on other actions The Tho days of ot the grand Turk are over o and and the harem barem Is Js an in Independent American girl girt does not fit so at atre 10 ution Into which the who wants to to keep you you under lock loci loc bave re nothing to do with a 1 man alibi for every mInute you yoc yc to frame an and I key and who forces you are away from him marriage In which there Is I not There can be no happy absolute trust between husband and wife And there Is I no way half house houie In trusting It must mu t be all In all or not at atall atall atall all and so ao I earnestly advise advice you no noto no to marry a man who and to have and honest be straight does not believe you to so ao such strength and Integrity of character that you could be trusted to go anywhere In the world and talk to any man and still keep your our honor bright Jealousy Is the of ot all insults because It Jt shows that the th one ne who Is Jealous of ot you believes you to be untrustworthy DOROTHY DIX o 0 EAR r DOROTHY DIX I DIX I married a s divorced man His first wife Is DEAR and his first wife had three children J married gain My husband all of ot whom are married One day recently while we e were visiting one of the married daughters his wife ex-wife drove e up bu bul seeing our car carIn carthe can In the drive didn't get out of o hers but my husband went out and anda an had a long conversation with her ber My husband says he be would like me to be on friendly terms with her as he says gays be he will always be b Interested In Sn her ber since she Is the mother of ot his hia children but I Iam Inot am not cot so minded broad as that What do you think Answer I am afraid I Iam am m a poor authority on the tho etiquette of the divorced but I I understand that in the higher circles circled where whre they have haye had two and three husbands and wives apiece It I is quite proper to send lend a man out to dinner with one of his wives wives ex-wives and ask a k the three Mrs Joneses to meet each other at tea breadth of mind minde However as you say aay this takes takeR considerable o more e than most moat of ot us possess so I can quite see bow how you ou would not feel particularly drawn to your our husbands husband's first wife nor enjoy discussing with her ber his little peculiarities But if your husband couldn't get along well enough with fit first wife to live with her you have no need to be Jealous of her There Is I no other woman In the world to whom he Is Isso Isso Isso so thor thoroughly dIsillusioned dl DOROTHY DIX Copyright by Public Lodger Ledger |
