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By Dr Jovie Brothers repeated sexual assault Women living in such c md'tums set n to be easier Dear Dr Brothers My llkyeai-ok- f sifter has betn rajert three times bs prey for potential rapids Ri searchers three different men Im sorry to ouml den found that in mans cases women cold and heartless but 1 figure if a who had been raped mine than once had first been the victims of an I woman has this incestuous relationship A targe pereen happen more tage of the s multiple rape victims it than once then studied were also nw arrivals in a must be she community with a transient l.fe history asked for it More than twice as many of the had several fighting argu- repi ated rape victims had a history of ments with the emotional problems in comparison with v family about this those women raped for the first time I and franklv, I'm strongly suggest you stop arguing and bored with the start trying to empathize with yom whole subject I sister She needs moral support, espe Dr Brothers think my sister is ctally from the men in the family overreacting and is just trying to get Dear Dr. Brothers: I have a 2 year-olattention and sympathy I cant help daughter and I wonder what you wandering whats wrong with her feel she should have in the way of toys M A and books that would help prepare her nut Dear M It s still difficult for some for school My mother thinks Im a I know how but tools educational about men, such as yourself, to understand the terrible violence of rape Male comHtitive the school system is today and I think the first five years are prisoners who have been the victims of as much to rape might be doing the rest of the male important asenough I dget in appreciate it if possible population a service if they could teaching youd send me a list of materials that convey their own feelings on the will 0V help prepare her subject Dear O V.: At the head of any list Id Its almost impossible for anv one who send would be the advice for you to has been raped to overteact Believe listen 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