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Show 2 r 1 -7- Thursday, May. 8,200 Saying 'No' so kdds understand r i It there are times when we need to say no. Children, being the intelligent little people that they are, and wanting what they want, usually at some time resort to whining and begging in order to get what they want. Of course, if it works, they do it again and again and again. Robert Preidt in his article entitled I low to Say No to Kids, Nicely offers suggestions from Jody Johnston Pawel, author of The Parents Toolshop: The Universal Blueprint for Building a Healthy Family. She says, When children nag, parents Brandley- - Parkin Sarah Brandley and Troy Parkin were married Saturday, April 26, 2003 in the Logan LDS Temple. Following the ceremony, they were honored at a wedding luncheon at Zanavoo and a garden reception at the Brandley residence in Mendon, Utah. They will be further honored at a reception Saturday, May 10, at the Centerville City Hall. Sarah is the daughter of Stephen and RoseAnn Brandley. She graduated from Mountain Crest High School and has studied at BYU-IdahTroy is the son of Richard and Kristine Parkin. Troy graduated from Viewmont High School and has attended Snow College and BYU-IdahHe served a mission in the Hawaii Honolulu Mission. After in honeymooning can: State a reason for refusal Recognize the child's feelbut remain firm ings 3. Give a conditional yes 4. Suggest an acceptable alternative 5. Encourage the child to save money for the purchase 6. Have the child pay the extra cost for name brands 7 Let the child choose one item from the options 1. 2. o. o. is a good idea to say yes as as we can to children, Sarah Brandley Troy Parkin Hawaii, will make they their home m Bountiful for the summer and resume their studies at BYU-Idahin the fall 8. Stick to the budget. Children can get several low ver-coitems or one brand nan ne 9. Tell children they'll defrTinite-lnot get the item if they asT k again. 10. Leave the store" Stating the reason for these refusal usually worked the behest forme. Children can and understand if the reason is justifiable. latPeer pressure to have est product can be the source of the whining, states Jody Paw wel. Parents have to teach childrcn how to respond topcerpres-ssur- e. as well as how to gain peer approval in acceptable ways-- s. Fifty-fiv- e percent of 12- - Z 13 olds can get their parerr its to year are delighted to announce the marriage of their daughter Jennifer Anne to David Lee Beck, son of Dr. Stephen A. and Leslie Beck. They will be united in marriage on Thursday, May 15, 2003 in the Salt Lake LDS Temple. A garden reception will be held in their honor that evening at the home of Bette and Boyd Rohwer of Bountiful. Both have been attending the University of Utah where Dave will receive his B.S. in business marketing this semester and Jenn will continue pursuing a bachelors degree in nursing. The newlyweds will make their home in Salt Lake City. very thes Jennifer Anne Eggett Lee David Beellive Homes has a very unique concept in elderly assisted living. A new home in Bountiful, opens May 5th, will provide luxury living in a family environment CNAs provide assisted living level I and level II care. Each person has their own pnvate room and bath, phone and cable hookups and receives pampered personalized attention. Whats surprising is that it doesnt cost anymore. There are no add-o- n fees for this higher level of personal attention. Due to the limited number of residents and unique personal care, most new homes are 100 reserved poor to even opening We have been very fortunate. The response has been fantastic and the home is filling up rapidly" Says Tanner. Ive lived in other facilities but this is truly a home. After, moving to Beellive I wouldn't live anywhere else. Everyone is so caring" says Andrian I lerbert It is our long time resident. goal to make everyone feel the way Adrian docs. We want each person to become part of our family and we hope to become an important part of theirs. It is very difficult for people to move from their home. We provide quality personal care while making living here as much like their home as possible or better if we can. We try to pamper all of our fnends that live here', says owner Ric Tanner. The personal pampered attention includes having each persons laundry done separately, pressed and put away, a staff member present at doctors Beck Havens- - 24-ho- Jensen Derek Jensen and AnnAlisa Havens will be married May 9, 2003 in the Salt Lake LDS Temple. A reception will be held at the Fairway Chapel in Farmington from 8 p.m. that evening. AnnAlisa is the daughter of Gary and Joyce Havens. She graduated from Davis High 6-- School. Derek is the son of Gerald and Carolyn Jensen. He graduated from Bountiful High School and served in the Los Angeles, California Mission. Following a honeymoon to Los Angeles, they will make their home in Bountiful. AnnAlisa Havens Derek Jensen Preidt states is nagging, of a recent survey. My personal experience on this issue is that if you give in once, the problem accelerates on other issues. survey referred to was the Center for a New Amencan Dream. They reported that children learn the nagging habit early in life and, lire done by according to them, its the result putting children at the of household attention. Now here is another difficult line to draw. How do you let children know they are important without letting them completely dominate the entire home. One mother said to me, Every time the phone rings, my little girl of parents center When you run an ad in the Classiads, it also appears at E)nd Von KihkdvuI Beehive Homes Assisted Living Comes to Davis County y desj Eggett-Bec- k Terry L. and Colleen Eggett give in to the result st needs something right then. Another mother in the process o working through this problem said, I am in the process of teaching my child that when the phone rings that is my time and not theirs. I remember a teenager who walked into any room and imme diately talked loudly and virtually never stopped. People found him obnoxious. He had learned that he could get by with that behavior. As he came to understand that everyone likes to talk and when he entered a room it was important to notice how many people were there. Then if there were seven people, he might want to use 17 of the time but no more. Also, he needed to enter the room listening rather than rudely intruding into the conversation. It was fun to watcl him learn, use these principles and gain peer acceptance. As parents we can do a lot to help our children accept no as an answer and then go on and help them develop manners that will help them to be accepted by people who interact with them. www.dippertoday.com appointments and an in Winnie save beautician once a week families time and imoney BeeHive even conlracts vv .uh a local pharmacy that track -- s the medication needs of each and delivers them nglit the Ten home. tcxi Even the home cooked We meals can be personalized. had had a sweat lady who scrambled eggs, honey bnitter toast and orange juice every day of her life. So that's wha- -t she what wanted here too If that is makes her happy or if som-eoneeds breakfast in their rroom due to feeling poorly one nariiorn-mwe a happy to accomnicxlate them. Home made bread i --isnt a here treat it is freshly baked almost every day', remurked Tanner Other services includes CNA care, RN monthly There are over 30 BeeHive ones living in a BeeHive assessments, dietitian appremwed Home. They are invited to sonal elderly assisted living homes in menus for diabetics, per Utah and 90 across the western drop in any time they want. housekeeping, furnished rejourns, United States. There are eight There is a visiting pol- - , family discounts on dispcwosable new homes under construction. be and to be s individual icy an and prepared goods seccurity asked to stay and eat if you notification system Even! the BeeHive was founded over it twelve years ago in Boise drop in around supper time. design of the home mal-c- es Idaho by Dennis Toland and This Bountiful new and convenient tewo get easy BeeHive Home is located at The doorwayss are Twayne Walker. They started around. the wider for walkers and vv concept in order to take 903 West 4000 South in fe Bountiful and will be open in been care of their own grandpareand hallways have nts. Soon thereafter Dennis minimized May, 2003. Reservations can be made by calling Ric Tanner p There are lots of acti vines and Paula Toland moved and 1 You at or opened the first Utah BeeHive designed for fun and educs-ntio- n. can also visit BeeHive Homes e are Home in Pleasant Grove. The activities in the honi Families will find that it web-sit- e www.beehive- - R at ldual centered around indiv- to visit loved very convenient homes.com. tradiwith the interests. Along tional celebrations for birtHHidays COMPLETE AMENITIES & SERVICES and anniversary's we havese had Care Direct TV in Hawaiian luau's, wate- r- color Medication Assistance quilt Rooms Private portrait painting, masking, Vaientincss dolls together Home Cooked Meals putting Laundry and Linens for Primary Children's Mctxhcal Activities and Outings Housekeeping ideos Center, personal history All Aspects of Daily Living FUmished & and even a Harley Dav nelson and exotic car picnic M Christ of k, Piano Organ Unfurnished Rooms the ideas come from the - resiPrivate Rooms Baths Family Discounts on of dents. They are things Senior Affiliations Center our fnends have wanted to do Disposable Goods never for sometime but have Fixed Monthly Fee Hospice Care Affiliations a fun gotten around to llus is RN Monthly Assessments (no add on charges) place.Tanner said ne g 24-ho- 24-ho- heel-chai- 295-317- 916-223- 3. 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