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Show Ann lenders The Salt Lake Tribune, Monday, June 30, 1980 A 1 5 Adjective of a sick mind Dear Ann Landers: Can you believe that researchers are now trying to get us to accept incest as "not necessarily harmful? One "authority even suggested it might be a good thing. I read a long article on this subject, not in a sleazy magazine but in Time, no less. The whole under-the-count- concept is so mind-bogglin- g I had to write to you and ask is the world changing THAT much? Am I crazy to think this is the sickest of sick? A Johns Hopkins expert Ann Landers says, A childhood sexual experience, such as being the partner of a relative or of an older person, need nut necessarily affect the child adversely. One of the authors of the original Kinsey report goes further. He says, "It is time to admit that incest need not be a perversion or a symptom of mental illness. Incest between children and adults can sometimes be beneficial. Another "researcher says that if there were a little more touching in the home, the nation might not be facing the present rash of feverish adolescent sexual activity outside the home. I have been reading your column for nearly 25 years. What you say has a serious impact on the morals in this country. Please state your views on this subject. I feel as ii I am completely out of touch with the times and need to be set straight. Thank you, Ann. Reader In The Detroit Free Press Dear Detroit: The "experts and researchers can to sell books, shock the say whatever they wish socks off people on talk shows, or grab newspaper and magazine space. Incest is a hideous crime against children, and no amount of fancy language can make it "beneficial. Any kind of sex without informed consent should be considered unacceptable if not damaging. How can a child give informed consent? It is not possible. Even though there may be an absence of violence, the act of incest is an assault on the innocent. I have no credentials from Johns Hopkins, but over the years I have received thousands of letters from young girls who have been sexually a oused by their fathers, grandfathers, uncles and brothers. They are pathetic creatures, trapped by fear, shame d and feelings of guilt. They write desperate, pleading letters almost never signing a name or giving an address asking what to do. I A advise them, "TELL SOMEBODY AT ONCE TEACHER, AN AUNT, A DOCTOR, YOUR CLERdeep-seate- Mrs. Wahlquist News of weddings GYMAN. YOU CANNOT ALLOW THIS TO GO ON. Then, I pray that these terrified little girls will have the courage to take my advice. Incest beneficial? Only a sick mind could have hatched that adjective. Dear Ann Landers: I manage an exclusive specialty shop. We handle fine merchandise. You wouldnt believe the supposedly high-clas- s people who come in here eating cones, apples, candy bars, oranges, buttered popcorn and hamburgers. The damage done to our stock is disgraceful. Will you please print this letter in the paper? Perhaps certain people will recognize themselves. Bevei iy Hills (Rodeo Drive) Dear Bev: Dont expect to see any improvement, and they never dear. The worst slobs are the rich think you mean them. well-dresse- ice-crea- m There is a big difference between cold and cool. Ann Landers shows you how to play it cool without freezing people out in her booklet, "Teen-Ag- e Sex Ten Ways to Cool It." Send 50 cents and a long, stamped envelope to Ann Landers, P.O. Box 1W5, Chicago, Illinois 0611. 1 Mrs. Bowles Mrs. Katsanevas Stagg-Sehaef- er - Lisa PARK CITY Dianne Stagg and James Ronald Schaefer J r. were married Saturday at the Carbide Lamp, Park City. A reception was given after the ceremony. Carbide Lamp was also setting for a rehearsal dinner. The bride, a daughter of Mr. and Mrs. John D. Stagg, Park City, graduated from Utah Technical College at Salt Lake. The bridegroom is a son of Patricia G. Parker, Heber City, and the late James Ronald Schaefer. He is a graduate of UTC. Baumann-Burto- n Ge- HEIDELBERG, rmany The bridegroom is a of Mr. and Mrs. David M. Burton, Salt Lake City. He is a graduate of the University of Utah and is a charter member of the Salt Lake Yacht Club. He is serving with the U.S. son Sabine Lt. Baumann and Christopher N. Burton were married Saturday in the Heidelberg Castle Chapel, Heidelberg, Germany. The bride is a daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Hans Baumann, Mannheim, Germany. Services Armed in Germany. Brame-Walilrpi- ist RIVERSIDE, Calif. Valerie Gay Brame and Duke Frank Wahlquist were married Sunday in the St. Francis of Assisi Chapel. Mission Inn, Riverside. A reception was given in the California Room, Mission Inn. Red Baron Inn, Riverside, was setting for a rehearsal dinner. The bride is a daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Charles L. Brame, San Bernardino, Calif. She attends the University of California at Los Angeles, where she is affiliated with Kappa Kappa Gamma. She has a teaching credential from the John Robert Powers modeling Angeles. school, Los The bridegroom is a son of Judge and Mrs. John F. Wahlquist, Ogden. He graduated magna cum laude from the University of Utah where he also completed a masters degree in mathematics. He is studying law at UCLA. He was elected to Phi Beta Kappa and Phi Kappa Phi. Anderson-Bowle- s Didi Louise Anderson and Jeffrey Kent Bowles were married Friday in the Wasatch Presbyterian Church A reception was given at Forest Glen Con- dominium Clubhouse. Sifantonakis- Katsanevas Maria Sifantonakis and Michael Katsanevas were married Sunday in Holy Trinity Greek Lake City, is studying sales and business management at UTC. Or- thodox Church. A traditional Cretan ceremony was held afterward in the churchs Memorial Building. The Athenian was setting for a rehearsal dinner. The bride, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Joseph Sifantonakis, Salt Lake City, graduated from Utah Technical College at Salt Lake with a degree in accounting and business management. The bridegroom, a son of Mr. and Mrs. Emmanuel Katsanevas, Salt The Royal Palace was setting for a rehearsal dinner. The bride, a daughter of Mr. and Mrs. John S. Salt Lake Anderson, City, graduated from the University of Utah where she affiliated with Pi Beta Phi. The bridegroom, a son of Mr. and Mrs. Kenneth Bowles, Salt Lake City, attended the U. of U. where he affiliated with Beta Theta Pi. Merritt-Ma- home of the couple, Portland. A reception was given after the ceremony. The home of the bridegrooms parents was setting for a rehearsal dinner. The bride, a daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Joseph B. Merritt, Bountiful, graduated from Tufts University, the University Patricia Shelton DENTAL REFERRAL SERVICE ss Ore. Sheila Merritt and Robert D. Mass were married June 21 in a garden ceremony at the PORTLAND, . M. Sun-Tim- ' '- io" .y. If they could pull that one off, there wouldnt be any more of this stuff unless you had an even more attractive pair to wear to bed when you dont plan to read. i Marilyn Bernard specializes in getting your eyewear and your face paired off in the best 4 f ' irffirtm) Serve Summertime Skillet, the very essence of the season, with fresh sliced carrots and ; No matter how large or small the family, planning, preparing and serving meals is a job. And in the summertime when Mother Nature is in full glory, no one wants to spend unnecessary time in the kitchen. Summertime Skillet is the very essence of the season with buttery rice complemented by fresh sliced carrots and zucchini, sprinkled with Parmesan cheese and served as the ideal accompaniment for pork, chicken, beef or fish. ' Though it looks and tastes extravagant, it isnt. ?This dish is just one of those d recipes that fresh .takes advantage of vegetables and the time saving wonders of precooked rice. g Try it soon! Writer Chicago when they are look even better Beautiful eyes framed by shapely brows. Eyebrows emphasize your eyes, and more than any other facial feature, they determine the expression that your face wears. Its very important, therefore, that your eyebrows are Cleanliness is an important consideration when tweezing your brows. Since carelessness can lead to infection, start by sterilizing the tweezer, which tends to attract dirt. Immerse it in boiling water or wipe it wiih alcohol or an alcohol-baseantiseptic lotion. Then, sterilize the area to be tweezed by swabbing it with antiseptic. Brush Brows First Use a brow brush to brush your brows into place, first stroking up and then out toward the temples. Hold the skin under the brows taut, and pluck in the same direction that the hair grows. Work on only one brow at a time. To determine how the brow should be shaped, try this trick: Hold a pencil vertically along the line of your nose to find where the inner comer of your brow should start. Sun-Tim- 583-010- 0 WPS !!1u31 denial referral SERVICE INC FEMINIQUE Summertime Skillet sliced carrots (about 2 medium) cup thinly zucchini (about 2 medium) sliced cups thinly enriched rice cups packaged tablespoons butter or margarine 1 2 1)4 The Feminine Exercise Technique Includes full use of all facilities! pre-cook- 3 cups water teaspoon salt )4 to teaspoon garlic powder V cup grated Parmesan cheese Saute carrots, zucchini and rice in butter in large skillet until rice is lightly browned. Add water, salt and garlic powder. Bring to a boil; reduce heat and simmer five minutes or until most of liquid is absorbed. Stir in 3 tablespoons of the cheese; sprinkle with remaining cheese. Makes four cups. 1)4 1 Dancercise Classes Desert Dry Sauna Vanity Area Relaxing Whirlpool Private Showers Group and Individual Exercise Programs & Nutritional Guidance Private Dressing Rooms Disco Dance Classes Personalized Service Free Children's Waiting Room Belly Dancing To discover where the brow should arch, hold the pencil in a line going from the side of your nose past the outer edge of the iris, or colored part of the eye. The brow should arch where the pencil falls. Determine where the brow should end by moving the pencil to the outer edge of the eye, still measuring from the side of the nose. If the growth extends beyond that point, pluck away all excess hair. well-shape- d PHONE - Making your eyebrows shapely By Jon Goodman Anywhere in Greater Salt Lake and Ogden. zucchini in b ittered rice. vegetables help keep the budget in line. time-consumi- budget-boostin- and recommends hairstyles and makeup for women. A former Londoner who trained at the Helena Rubinstein salon there, she currently is traveling around the United States as an adviser teaching House of Vision employees how to flatter faces. You might call her an illusionist, in that she recommends frames that enhance good features and camouflage others. For example, Bernard said, you can simulate a nose job with a pair of glasses. The eyeglasses frame is a natural nose reducer because of the bridge. A low bridge covers more skin and shortens the appearance of the nose. itiirrrTir Summer skillets essence of season By Donna Lou Morgan Lifestyle Food Editor If you need to select a new dentist, well be glad to help. There is no charge for our referral. combination, Writer Chicago Eyewear manufacturers would like us to think that glasses can make us all look brainier, sexier and greater than we are. of Oregons School of Nursing, Portland. The bridegroom, a son of Dr. and Mrs. Robert E. 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