Show 1 2A AdviceTele vision Friday April 30 1999 TV TIPS NBA BASKETBALL - The Utah KSL Chan- Jazz tare on Scott '9 Pippen Hakeem Oiajuwon Charles Barkley and the rest of the Houston Rockets 6 p m KJZZ Channel 14 - In “Good PROVIDENCE nel 5 A CELE- Fels) high-scbo- ol (Mike Farrell) is treating 7 30 Fresh Pr 3r3 Hvn pm Fresh Pr 95 Biography AMC We re No AngHs ’‘955) ANPL CNBC CNN DISC D ISN ENC ESPN Rescue Rescue HardbaW Roswell Detective jl)iag Murder 432 KciG fest&624 y4 icSS Standard-Examine- r wire services Love Change Law A Order 1Q91 27 Rescues Larry King T3279 Sheher 79491 iHouse Onosatrs 'GrowPams 'GrowPams Brofherty i'(6 10) Where theRreers Flow Norm 10822566 jFather Dowling XsvA Ijerry Sponger it 30 Paid Prog iPattProg Roseame Cheer Detective 'Biography 32214 Butch Cass utf and lie Sundance KM 5543 they Uvc by Night ''93) 2442479 rrh'Rescues ‘Vets rrr: ir— hr: Vets Vets 'Vets Rescues Rescues Rescue i ?Bnan Wnams yyi Oi Rivera Live (n 568856 Bnan WilHams 5453 Hantoafl 0 56579 - WENN — Rivera live 56356 5 4yv$ Dtag Murder tracker 546654 Rescue - 43099 'touched-AngHK- A& E - current interviews with Oprah Winfrey Jane Fonda Gloria Steinem Madonna Hillary Clinton and others 830 p m KTVX Channel 4 HMfl Highway d presents past and FRIDAY EVENING 16 co-st- ar BRATION: 100 YEARS OF GREAT WOMEN -Barbara Walters lows’ Sydney (Melina Kanaka-redeathlete helps a (guest star Brian Poth) being pushed too hard by hts coach who s also his dad Off the job she gets an ofer she can t refuse from the smitten son (guest star David Lee Smith) of a mob boss (guest star John Capodice) whose dog Jm HOMICIDE: LIFE ON THE STREET - Giancarlo Esposito who plays Mike Giardeilo reunites with on the Ron Eldard his Fox comedy quirky but short-live‘Bakersfeld PD’ Eldard guests as a frustrated father holding his children captive n ther home 9 pm KSL Channel 5 LOVE BOAT: THE NEXT WAVE ALF pops up as a doll that comes to life for a girl saddened by her parents' divorce 10 pm KJZZ Channel 14 World Today World Today Gimme Wild Discovery Teen Witch A 74"27 95r 969) Mooeylme Larry ti4Q News 44Q643lT Thousand Acres i 97) (Top 50 Stanley Cup Playoffs 635092 Sports jntamc-Untot- d f X mg "ftuSC Memo Newsstand iSlocm oCT T363 lf$40)Ffeaicy Fnday CC '577566 Famous America (1990) 85216943 96449 jSpoftscerTter 56T3Q1 Derby Wk jBasebafl Watermtoo ISportscenter Standard-Examin- Specials examine motherhood PBS show poignant Lifetime looks at mentally impaired moms’ struggles By LYNN ELBER The Assocated Press ANG ELES - You already wrap yourself the warm embrace of Day which is May 9 PBS offers “Moms” on Monday and Lifetime offers “Different Moms” on May 10 The two films offer more than a warm look at motherhood and it’s likely you’ll come away with a renewed appreciation for what mom has done for you - or in some instances to you Fust up is “Moms” You'll have to set the VCR for this one PBS is airing this at 3 am Monday on KULD Channel 7 It’s a sometimes lighthearted sometimes poignant appraisal by women of the experience of mothering and being mothered “Different Moms” on cable's Lifetime channel at 9 pm May 10 is a clear-eye- d examination of how mentally disabled parents handle the difficulties of raising children who are not handicapped This sjrecial is preceded by a Lynn Redgrave movie on this topic “Different” airs at 7 LOS Courtesy CBS REMEMBERING MOTHERS: John Zammit and his mother Josephine pose at their home in New York’s Brooklyn borough where John openly expresses his feelings about motherhood They are included in a new PBS documentary “Moms” a lighthearted special that debuts May 2 at 3 am Monday on KUED Channel 7 “Moms” from producers Motherhood is nothing to joke about in “Different Moms” part of Lifetime’s effort to illuminate issues surrounding mental retardation (the accepted medical term the film notes) Liz Garbus and Rory Kennedy are the executive producers actress Alfre Woodard narrates Mentally impaired mothers bear about 1 20000 babies each year and about half get to keep them according to the documentary “Different Moms” focuses on three such families each with offspring of normal intelligence Tim and Elaine Mayfield of Upper Darby Pa have a son and a daughter who is just beginning to outpace her moderately impaired mom in learning skills Tim is mildly handicapped but clearly more adept at handling the parent’s role Margaret Main a single mother with an IQ of 41 is rearing two teenage sons in a mobile home on property in upstate New York owned by her sister Juanita Ingraham of Santa Mina Calif has two grown daughters she struggled to bring up largely on her own By tracking families in varying g the film stages of Lou- is Alvarez and Andrew Kolker and WETA in Washington DC is an outright charmer a kaleido- scope of motherhood made bright by the women sharing their memories theories and homespun humor “Motherhood is a job and after 25 years you don't even get the watch” says one mom “ ‘I'll rip your lungs out’ that's my favorite saying” says another an elderly woman looking back - on her disciplinary style “When you are raising children you have to force yourself to grow up I guess that’s what it boils down to” says another Some of the women are so engaging and wise that you wish they could lead national master classes in parenting Others are hanging on by their fingernails One crisply groomed woman trying to run her big household with military precision is undercut at every turn by typical kid rambunctiousness Another recalls smacking her boy’s legs with a baseball bat her lifelong guilt half-amus- 1207 NIGHT OWL — 9 midnight L5J — — — 1220 Small Business 2000 H Coach (CC 14 Fidsier PG-(CC) 30 LPD Life on fho Bat 11 A&ECracnr ANPL Cebntv Cmsaders CNBC Business Center CNN Spohs Tcxngt (CC) DISC Voyage O’oid 5toriPs G DISN jit Disotti Prjaots ESPN spr rtsC0'lar (CC) FAM 700 C'utnCC) FOXR Last Word MTV Jams Countdown NICK Taxi (CC) SCI-F- I Fust Wave (CC) TMC Movie 'The Nurse" TNN Motor Madness G’ TOON Jabberjaw WGN Babe Winkelman’s Good Fishing 12 05 AMC Remember WENN 12 06 4 j Politically Incorrect — — — — PLEX Move The Cradle Fair 12 30 rii) McLaughlin One on One G M3’ Cops ‘14-(CC) '141 Newsradio (CC) CNBC Uptront Tootghl CNN Moneytine (CC) FOXR Ultimate Fan Will Sign-O- — Late Night 14 (CC) league HBO Dennis Miner MA-- l Newhart (CC) SHOW Outer Limns 14 TOON Banana Splits 12 35 AMC Movie We re No Angels" 12 37 C2J Real TV PG' (CC) 12 55 TBS Movie Nighthawks" NICK — — — — — — (CC) (tt) MotorWeek G Law A Order (CC) ANPL Lassie G CNN Showbiz Today (CC) DISC Discovery News A&E ESPN Inside the PGA Tour FAM Show Me the Funny FOXR Best ot Rush Hour HBO Movie True Believer" NICK Jettersons SCI-F- I Monsters TNN Mesquite Rodeo TNT Movie Death Valley" TOON Help' ft s the Hair Bear Bunch WGN Hercules The Legendary Journeys (CC) Confessions SHOW Dead Man s Gun MAX Erotic (1V American Experience ANPL Timmy and Lassie CNN Crossfire (CC) DISC Nemo DISN Mickey Mouse Club ENC Movie Blue Velvet" ESPN Stanley Cup Playoffs FAM Show Me the Funny FOXR NBA Action MTV After Hours NICK Lave me & Shirtey SCFR Night Gallery TOON Devtm G USA Movie Angel III The Final Chapter'’ Plate glass causes DEAR ABBY: Last week 1 was in New York City for a conference On my first evening in the hotel I noticed a large adjacent store had an entrance from the hotel lobby As I walked quickly to the store entrance I suddenly received a blow to my face that knocked me down broke my glasses in half cut my eyelid and made my nose bleed I door! With had walked into a plate-glas- s bright lighting inside the door and soft lighting in the lobby I had seen no reflection on the glass When I returned home this week and related my story nearly everyone I spoke to had a similar story or knew someone who did Because regulations vary from place to place please urge your readers to place decals logos or window or lettering at eye level on any plate-glas- s door that could possibly be mistaken for an open- (5) Fnday Movie "Hollywood Dreams MAX ( - Pane-fu- l experience Athens Ohio I have heard about hapless DEAR PANL-LL- I: individuals walking through plate-glapatio doors during swimming parties or summer barbecues but this is the first time I've heard about it happening Your suggestions are in a business establishment ss valid DEAR ABBY: Please send a wake-u- p call to Nanny PG ICC) 14 Njhtman PG (CC) 30 LAPD Life on the Beat A&E Movie Body Double ANPL Jeffs Collie CNN CNN International DISC Storm Warning' G' DISN Movie ‘The PGA Golf Love Lucy (CC) SHOW Red Shoe Chanes SCI-F- I Tales of Tomorrow TNN Dukes of Hazzard “G' TOON Speed Buggy G' WGN Xena Warrior Pnncess PG-(CC) 2 02 PLEX Michelle s Third Novel FOXR NICK — — TMC Movie Nurses Candy Stnpe HBO U S Comedy Arts Festival Tnbute to Monty (CC) Python MA-(13) diate highlight universal appeal Overcome distance language barriers Libra plays critical role GEMINI (May 21 June 20)' Study Aries Taurus messages for added wisdom Toss aside preconceived notions Impnnt style don t follow others strive for independence of thought action Leo plays top role CANCER (June 21 July 22) It s a day that could be for you - food romance serious consideration of marital status You receive excellent health report Capricorn another Cancer native featured LEO (July 23 Aug 22)' Check Gemini message accent versatility inieHectual curiosity Relative desires to travel with you no matter where Put a stop to that pronto Traveling a'one this tnp very beneficial VIRGO (Aug 23 Sept 22) Take care of tools where you place them Tendency is to tnp fan and you would have no one e’se to fame but yourself Taurus Leo Scorpio persons p'ay exciting rotes Stick with number 4 LIBRA (Sept 23 Oct 22) Words have power the power w ii nde wth you Keep plans flexible put ideas on paper - and legally protect them You exude personal magnet sm aura of sersua' y and sex appeal Virgo involved SCORPIO (Oct 23 Nov 21): Spotlight on home environment rece-vmexpensive g t from Leo Flowers luxury of scenano Peop e comment “You thick wy I'ems -- tailor- child-rearin- Movie "Worth Winning" 141 Judge Mills Lane ANPL Lassie G' CNN CNN International DISC WiW Discovery G FAM 700 Club (CC) o time pane-fu- l d women who marry for “love” and never look past their beating hearts As cold and unromantic as it may sound financial security should also be a consideration when making a lifelong commit- Unt1 starry-eye- ment The moment your Prince Charming adds your name to his credit cards bank accounts or other legal documents he can begin weaving a web that connects you tighter than any marriage contract - Been W &MivE drawing Men you purchase a I 1 Standard-Examiner- 5 as "You sure are fl&qMitrUtr intrigue secrets that are about to be revealed Financial transaction involves you in minor dispute Law on your side 18) Take care of unfinished AQUARIUS (Jan business What you thought was safe and gone is actually following you Lunar position emphasizes ability to wm friends and influence people Hot romance featured j There ore two easy ways fo ! pvs Mom 4 Part order your Congratulations Graduate ad c CAPRICORN (Dec 22-Ja- n 19): Something of importance is occumng behind your back Focus on mystery 's Eft 1999 21)’ Go slow some les(Nov sons require repeating Act accordingly You are intngued by what lies beyond Pisces Virgo persons play leading roles will have these letters Initials in names: G P Y SAGITTARIUS r Celebrate The High School Or College Graduation Of That Special Someone With A Greeting In The Special Graduation Section Appearing Sunday May 23 geles CA 90069 much of yourself don't you?" Response right" entered for this You're automatically there DEAR BEEN THERE: Many people marry for love and have strong and lasting marriages so I’m hesitant to cast aspersions on all love matches However if someone marries a financially irresponsible partner one’s first thought should be damage control Send letters to Dear Abby at PO Box 69440 Los An- Forecast ter Saturday May By SYDNCYOMARR Los Angeles Times Syndicate ARIES (March 19): You have done your job well you currently are considenng oumey that could take persons figure in you to Bombay Capricorn- Cancer-bocolorful scenano Find your tree1 y TAURUS (April 20): Finish what you start obtain valid hint from Anes message Look beyond the imme- pal — 200 7j Battlefield Vetrnm 13' HOROSCOPE -made PLEX Movie "Travis McGee" 2 30 ill To Be Announced t Love Lucy ')f 30 Baywatch PG (CC) AMC Movie "Butch Cassidy and the Sundance KkT ANPL Snippy CNN Diplomatic License NICK Bewrtcned G SCFF1 Lights Out TOON Funky Phantom 2 35 s Martha Stewart Living SHOW Red Shoe Dianes — Night ‘14 full-stri- ing 210 1 35 Movie "Night Call Nurses" TMC tally impaired parent deals with a child’s changing needs - and in the case of the older kids how they coped with having parents who are different Life for these children is tough on many counts Disciplinary skills and even simple jobs like providing nutritious meals may be difficult for their parents to master and it’s clear the children take on part of the burden What helps the families function best is outside help whether from relatives or from agencies that can pinpoint and bolster their weaknesses There are only 40 such organizations nationwide filmmaker Garbus said in an interview “Without those supports a family which could really make it might not Ultimately I believe we have a collective responsibility for our weakest members As a society I believe it’s our responsibility to provide that support” she said There's another key to a family’s success: A parent's love for the children and a fierce desire to do right by them “The most important part of parenting is something that is not measured by IQ and that is the nurturing and loving ability to be there for one’s child” A ‘Different’ look Labor of love 13 gives a full picture of how a men- feelings are clear Call the Classified Department at 625-4300- :: Serd the order form below wth photo (optioncl) and $2250 to us by Wednesday May 195 pm 20-Fe- b PISCES (Feb 20): Individual who should know better attempts to involve you m get nch scheme Steer clear let it be known 1 don l expect something for " nothing Make fresh start in new direction Leo in picture IF MAY 1 IS YOUR BIRTHDAY: Views verfied dunng June you will once again be on solid ground You are independent m thought and acton you crave adventure you exude aura of sensuality creativity sex appeal Leo Aquarius persons play sensational roles m your He could have these letters initials m names - A S J During July romance could be transformed into pans for marnaae Your most memorable month financially and romanticaiy is like'y to be October Your Name Address to Notify Graduate: Address Name City Address Phono Gly -- Slate -- Tip Slate ZP Visa Or AXa Jercad Expiration Date rvXf J aurnr' or r rvl'-- w ia t f rr Ml rS4U jriA'N43 ““—-C-S d |