Show ' 4E Standard-Examin- Thursday er "I "I' Irradiation preserves food May 20 1982 Dear Abby Advances in science made it of people in developing nations Radiation’s potential to curb possible for people to eat shrimp chicken and smoked world hunger — and to reduce turkey that had been preserved sol- energy use in food processing — recently has attracted widespead ely with radiation! interest in the United States and Singer John Davidson actress other countries Cathy Lee Crosby and France Belgium So far football player Fran Tarken-to- n Holland Japan and 18 other countries were among those who tried the have given clearance for commerfood cial irradiation of such foods as Food irradiation can help save vegetables poultry fish grains five-year-o- Familiarity upset grandma By ABIGAIL VAN BUREN DEAR ABBY: I am an older gentleman After my beloved wife died I married a lovely refined widow my age My grandchildren ages 10 and 12 started to call her “Hazel” her given name Hazel feels that it is disrespectful for children to address an older person by her given name and I agree so I asked my daughter (the children’s mother) to please instruct them to call my wife “Grandma Hazel” I thought a word from their mother would solve the problem It didn’t My daughter informed me that she asked the children how they felt about it and they told her they preferred to call her “Hazel” so they continued to do so I recently suggested rather pointedly that should this irritating situation continue it would eventually have some rather unfavorable repercussions They have not as yet taken the hint It is causing a strain on the family ties What do you suggest? Should I just keep quiet and quietly cut them all out of my will? FROM MISSOURI DEAR FROM: Why not approach your grandchildren directly? Explain how proud you I’m not talking through my hat Have you ever worked in an abortion clinic? Well I have are to hear them call you “Grandfather” and you know it would make your wife feel very proud to be called “Grandma Hazel” Explain that it is rude and disrespectful to address an older person by her given name If they object to the term “Grandmother” or A sample of the interviews: Question: “Why are you here?” Answer No 1: “My boyfriend refuses to see me until I get rid of the baby” Answer No 2: “I just found out my boyfriend is married” Answer No 3: “When I told my boyfriend he left me” Answer No 4: “My boyfriend says he is too young to be a father” Answer No 5: “My boyfriend says the baby is not his” any variation of it suggest “Miss Hazel” as an alternative — anything but just plain Hazel And if this doesn’t work you’re from Missouri — show ’em! DEAR ABBY: My daughter is marrying a young man soon He has never been marrried but he has a son whom he sees every day After he and my daughter are married do we look at his man’s son as our grandson? NERVOUS IN MASSACHUSETTS son-in-la- lives especially among the billions - and fruit V OFF! "The Best of Dear Abby" featuring Abby's best answers and favorite responses during the past 25 years is now available You can obtain a copy of this book by sending $995 plus $1 for g new and handling to "The Best of Dear Abby" in postage care of this newspaper 4400 Johnson Drive Fairway Kan 66205 Make checks payable to Universal Press Syndicate grandson DEAR ABBY: This is an open letter to Dr Heineman who thinks if a man gets an unmar- 'Top Line" ?300°° the baby and women can’t handle it alone OFF MY CHEST IN MASSAPEQUA NY w 6370 REGULAR PRICE Abby I am sure many more girls would keep their babies if the men were more supportive But the truth is it’s the men who do not want DEAR NERVOUS: Inasmuch as your future sees the boy every day and obviously as his son it would be very generhim regards ous of you to “look at” the boy as your ld best-sellin- ried girl pregnant and she wants an abortion and he doesn’t his wishes in the matter are as important as hers NOW Woman finds career in modeling at 45 herself settling her husband’s other people have done this why dentures the things that call for a middle-agecan’t I?” model She still does the when weeks later and ads of that sort commercials Eight By ELUE GROSSMAN NEW YORK (NEA) — Beauty business affairs And when that been and wealth have always part ended too she fled Washington and bought she says “a charming of Kaylan Pickford’s life At 51 townhouse at the bottom of Beacon she’s a strikingly attractive woHill 120 in Boston That’s when it all hit 7 — 5 inches feet man pounds a the fan” — who wears fine clothes and There were long empty days diamond ring the size of a grapefnot a was time Still there long ruit Abiding grief There was despair first the “Thinking of life without Bill was ago when she says “For someone unbearable” she says “I didn’t time I understood how could contemplate suicide and I know who I was I had always been a wife and a mother I had never had empathy for that person” Pom-frworked in had no resume wasn’t Born in Boston reared 21 to do anything and I was Boston’s trained she left Conn at School of the Museum of Fine Arts living in a society that said I was too old to do anything” to marry a lawyer They divorced after 10 years later and three years Seeking answers she began sethat she says “I married William eing a psychiatrist reading biogand hisPickford an enormously physical raphies books on self-hel- p man a sportsman and athlete who tory “anything where people were involved in trauma and chalowned two hotels in Washington he DC A month later they said lenge” She ran to Mexico for six had cancer and four and a half weeks to study Spanish and came years later on New Year’s Eve home to the same bewilderment 1968 he died I was 38 I had been “But” she says “I began to working around the clock as a wife realize that as long as I stayed a and mother and suddenly I was victim I would be one I wanted to work so I took a two-da- y aptitude staring at the walls alone in a house in Washington test given by a wonderful “My husband was gone my two psychologist in Cambridge The results said I belonged in commundaughters were in boarding school and my dyslexic stepson had been ications” In 1974 she moved to New York reclaimed by his mother He was a to write “I had sold a story to the lovely sensitive boy” she says “but he had been a terrific emo- Daily News the year before but tional problem At 14 he was bare- writing was too isolated I needed ly reading at a second grade level people I longed to find out what I and he was still wetting his bed I could do but I was very shy and knew he would never make prog- afraid of finding out what I couldn’t ress until he stopped bedwetting do Here I was 44 with no resume because that was so demoralizing looking for a job in New York Then so when he wanted a wristwatch I one winter day feeling very depresaid go six weeks without wetting ssed I came across an ad for a your bed and you can have it course in commercials” she says Eventually he did He never wet “On impulse I called and because his bed again and his attitude about there were only eight students in the class I enrolled I was scared everything changed” to death and what got me through now and over was But all that alone in Washington she occupied the door was that I kept saying “If et d course ended she forced herself to make the rounds of agents’ offices “I didn’t know what else to do and besides I had learned what an 8x10 glossy was And one day an agent said ‘You model don’t you?’ I thought why not so I said yes and he gave me a job modeling a wool jacket and a hat for an Sear’s publication I know now I was terrible but someone had actually asked me to do something and I had taken a chance on myself I discovered I liked modeling and working with the camera” Slowly sporadically she began to appear in ads for laxatives and GOAL DAYS NO INTEREST Pre-own- ed 24 MONTHS TO NO DOWN PAYMENT PAY women very little representation although the money these 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