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Show 1 1 T f H'rw lft Vt.lrtirws I uy 5MfpI;nt Is this love? Take a closer look wonderful thing that has hapby Bob Narindra pened You fel excited at the guest writer One of the most common prospect of just being in their questions ep-- asked at our company, just being close to web site Lovingyou com is them isn't enough, you want to le a part of them, a part of How do you know if it is relife forever. their ally love?" You can't stand the thought Well, as you can imagine, of this also happen to be one of being away from them yet, when the most difficult questions to you are, you still feel bond that that answer! Love is such a ties you together wherever strange, wonderful thing that You can almost feel go. codified you nobody really has what it is yet And to further w hat they are feeling. You feel complicate matters, there are like, with a little bit of effort, so many different kinds of you can we what they are seelove: the love you feel for a ing and think what they are friend, a family member, a thinking. It is almost as if you sport or even a pet. This is both can occupy each others such a crazy emotion that bodies with complete trust there is absolutely no way and harmony. That to me is that I can definitively answer love. Now, on the other side of the how you know it is love... but I am there are a host of a to spectrum, it going try! give Now, in order to find out if emotions that people confuse you love someone, the basic with love. One of the most place to start would be to ask common is lust. There is a difyourself, do you want to be ference between wanting to with them? If the answer to sleep with someone and wantthat question is no, then it ing to spend the rest of your really cant Is love. When you life with someone. love someone, you want to lie Being overly dependent on with them. Not just be with the other person is also not a them, but share everything part of love. Some people fall with them. You have a great into the trap of thinking they day at work and want to rush love someone just because home and tell them every they are afraid to be alone. t ever-prese- They have become dependent on the other person for so much that they dont know how to make it on their own, or they would much rather be with someone than no one. This leads to the old cliche, in order to love someone else, you must first learn to love yourself. Well, weve all heard that before, but what does it really mean? It means that you have to be confident in your own ability and your own judgment. You really have to like yourself and know what you have to offer another person. There is no way that you can love another person if you are so stuck in your own hang ups that you how down and propitiate to the other person. That is, you do anything they ask and agree with everything they say out of fear that they will love you less because you dont do those things. Basically, the question of whether or not you are in love with someone is pretty cut and dry: you either are or you arent... and deep down, you know the answer. You just have to trust yourself to recognize it. D tf9 How to have a fairy tale romance by Jennifer Good guest writer Growing up, we all dream of the perfect relationship. Our dreams ars reiterated over and over in the chddhocd classic movies and books we watched and read. But once we hit the "real world," it seems that those dreams we've tried so hard to keep always end up breaking in pieces all around us. This often leads to the viewpoint that finding and maintaining that fairy tale romance is futile and hopeless. There is one exception... that loving couple who seems to have everything together. How many times have you questioned, "Why cant we be like them?" The truth is, every couple can be hke this by following the traits of the characters you formed your dream relationship from. Start living your life the way you want to by applying the following traits of a fairy tale couple today! Leave no doubt of your affection. In romances youll notice how the main pursuer is usually always up front about their feelings. Never do they let them believe otherwise. Take a look at your relationship (or past ones). Does your partner really know exactly how you feel? When was the last time you told them why you loved them or showered them with unexpected attention for no reason? If its been awhile... do it now! Value your relationship. Most fairy tales involve the characters going through a tremendous obstacle to actually be able to be together. Overcoming those olistack teaches the couple how valuable the relationship and each other are. In real life it is easy to forget how important your relationship actually is. It may not seem Hke you've overcome great feats to be together, but if you think about it you could be alone still searching for someone. Think about bow you would fed or what you would do if for some reason you would never see your partner again after today. How would that affect you? Make D D D For a Sweetheart of D Dinner for 2 for only $18 featuring D e Smoked Rack of Prime New Zealand Lamb served on a bed of wild rice and smothered in wild plum sauce. Dinner also includes our famous Chocolate Fudge Brownie. $18 for 2 D D "not including tax & tip Regular menu also available Open 4:30 till close 36 South 100 West ' - D 259-430- 2 (one block west of Main behind Canyonlands Motel) ODD D |