Show t t u v ala i BY AMY ADAMS l f SOG SOCIAL I At C TS SH SE P 1 tr r girl rl 1 chum dmm with anti I 1 are mI l lI to hi k wire rl ab- ab abnormal normal t WI dIm di t smoke k kI I take drugs lIt er believe in b marital m sex Very r few bo buys want A date dateus I us because liSt were we're nu 1 fun r ln or 01 squares square Must of I our 11 mend who grew n w lip up with us are 11 now I f d l dl drug addicts and pot smokers or have h had ll shot gun ln weddings Iddings I e ure so H I when WE hear heI he I about our old uld that Wl we sit it down and cry Is there no room cm Left for girls Jil like Jilt t us We are arc both IS 18 old and it seems lik like wherever I we wego I go were we're out of oC place Must we 1 webe be forced to sit home and knit Social H Rejects ej Dear Rejects R If you think you are rejects then there are millions more like you youl On the contrary the rejects J and the S Second Cond Hwd Roses Hoses are arc In the minority My hats hat's off to you dears deals Stay Slay just the way you nn are a and nil no one will ever sit down and cry over YOU There are many more nice nic boys available than the other I kind Seek out And they In I all probability are looking for fort forI t I girls just like you Save that knit one purl two for when hen you are hapy married and expecting If Dear Amy comes to see me nearly every weekend Sometimes he spends Saturday or Sunday night at our house I spent the Labor Day weekend with his mar mar- married ried sister J Jan an and her husband Peter What I am tryIng to figure out Is a Christmas problem He is gIving all my family presents Do DoI I 1 to In turn give his family presents each separately or can canI canI I just give one present for all and should I Include Jan and Peter eter in the exchange of presents Pondering Dear Pondering Assuming Ills his immediate family ly y all live under the same roof one gift would be appropriate for all alL If your relationship with Jan and Peter I is close and I gather it itis itis is Include them on your gift list also tear Am Amy y What hut do you do when you love It a man and hIs 4 children yet nt he wont won't believe belleve you even though h you try to do everything YOU you know how to please him Further his wife ex-wife has moved to in n and nd you feel fecI Ilia that t she doesn't approve of you do I have two children of my myown mynon own non My children cant can't under under- understand stand why they are arc told not to call iI him daddy which they have done for the last year Io Do you give up the man you love and his children or stay and keep house and hope that things will change nel E MS Dear r EMS I Unless you are married to this man you OU have huv no rights right In that household household And if you are taking orders from from his w ex-w wife ex-wife t I think you are screwy Unless this man makes up hi his mind which woman hi he wants to marry and run his household move out out S M If Dear Amy m I 1 nm am In a fine mess My husband hus- hus husband band and I are going through a divorce and I have found out that I 1 am pregnant tells He-tells me he doesn't love me doesn't want me and we already live apart I 1 became pregnant In June and lie e left in ht July I 1 told my hus- hus husband husband band about it but it doesn't mat mat- matter matter ter to him should I do I cant can't work because I have dif dif dif- difficulty carryIng through a preg- preg pregnancy pregnancy nancy This I know from prevIous miscarriages I am living with my mother now Mrs E Dear Mrs E It Is Imperative that you con con- contact tact your attorney immediately and Inform him that a child will willbe willbe be born of this marriage and while it may not mean anything to your husband as he puts It now he be must pay nil all your maternity bills and support you YO and his child chUd thereafter If Address all letters to AMY ADAMS I o c THIS NEWSPAPER For a personal reply enclose a I stamped self addressed envelope |