| Show THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK All II Too Many Are the Thoughtless Remarks That Give Pain to the Listener The girl who Is popular is she who makes a study of the things that are better left unsaid One need not be aggressive In speech to to be a social socia failure Oh those things that mean Ulean no actual harm yet make u sQuirm 0 Sometimes thoughtlessness is at fault again a too hasty tongue more often lack of fine feeling There Is nothing for instance In announcing announcing an- an an an- flouncing you have been invited to a a. a certain luncheon or dinner yet when that announcement makes another woman realize reaUze she is a fill up far better better better bet bet- ter would it be to say nothing You may think it shows how popular popular lar is your guest to remark the number number number num num- ber of things that are being given in her hex honor Tell of this entertaining to a friend who feels she should do likewise but is prevented by poverty poverty- it is one of the things far better left unsaid If you are the hostess who has achieved at much trouble two tables of bridge or a simple family dinner for a friends friend's house guest dont don't you feel when that friend announces that she was compelled to turn down an elaborate luncheon for your Invitation that the Information might with better taste have been suppressed Better unsaid Is the gloomy greetIng greet greet- Ing to an Imaginative friend How pale you look have you been sick To the average fat woman far better bet bet- ter unsaid are discussions on on flesh dumpiness big hips and double chins The hundredth woman may not be sensitive but the ninety nine secretly resent being asked How SHow much do you weigh now or Arent you stouter than the last time we met |
