Show I I It f fo o BETTY 1 II J Letters and questions for the department should b ba be addressed to Miss J Betty Blair Hearts Heart's Haven t Salt alt Lake Telegram Write only on one side of the paper It 1 is necessary to append your name and address but these I are ale held in confidence and will not be published Lost and found notices J I cannot be published In the column s t DEVELOPING PERSONALITY Dear Miss Blair I am a constant reader of Hearts Heart's Haven and find man many nany answers to tomy tomy tomy my own problems I am 15 years old and in the ninth grade I maybe maybe may maybe be too young and silly but oh Miss Mis Blair where and how can I I find fine persona personality I ity There is a boy of whom I an am am very fond fond fond-as as a friend Of course I know I do not know anything about abou love lover and I dont don't want to for severa several years to come but what I want wart to know is is how hew can I I get this boy to think of me as I think of him He l-ie Heis Hes lieis is is s very jolly full of the best sort of cf fun fun clean in man manners erG and mind Thank y you u very very fery much MaI May Ma MayI I come again CLICKS I I Dear Miss Blair 1 I am a girl of 15 not bad looking b but t very unpopular Will you please help me Ill I'll thank you for all the h help lp you you give me UNPOPULAR Both B. B h of you OU 15 16 Both th oth have a a. a feeling cling that youre you're ouro not quite quito measuring measuring meas meas- up to standard Both sitting on on the c sidelines Waiting for lor this thing called personality or popularity larity rIty or what you will to como come and aud take you OU by he the hand and lead oa 3 ou Oa to your our hearts heart's desire And girls gIrIs let et mo me tell you ou yours ours arc both perfectly legitimate desires only you dont don't go about it the right wa way tray to realize their fulfillment Every ounce of your our own development must come by your our own effort How do o you OU feel hen when you ou first got up up in the morning Does your Jour body tody tingle with a zest and love lovo of life lite with a zipping urge to meet the theda day come coine what will Or Or do j I L Lyou you you O feel feet ane attitude a wIthdrawing wIth wIth- drawing from people end and events 1 If II tho former ormer then all sit you OU need to d dis do doIs dois is to learn to communicate your you thoughts and feelings and interests interest to others l If the latter then you Ou have int interests 1 no p particular or yi iri and must S set t about first o of all encouraging encouraging- these by training Make an actual count during th the day of ot the th interesting objects events people that have havo crosse crossed your our Path Recount som something o ot of each cach experience aloud to someone el else You can make make- people feel your you presence and your persona personality bj by bringing them in contact with it It not by waiting aWaIting for them to wake ake up ui upI to the fact tact that there you were vere aJ all the time They will never know 1 It unless ss you impress them vividly with the tact fact I If there are those in particular whom you like find out what the their interests are after alter you OU have hae impressed Impressed impress im Im- Im pressed press them with the fact fad that you OU are axe an individual to whom their In Interests Interests interests in- in might be trusted And be sure sur that you are interested listeners listen listen- ers elS once you ou have p persuaded others to talk to you Nothing is more discouraging Ing to the m making o of friendships than a restless fidgety listener Once you have shown yourselves ourselves to be s sympathetic in intelligent in- in listeners to the interests o. o Qt other people your our first r round und Inthis in inthis inthis this battle for tor personality Has lias been won Continue daily dally to add to your our own ph physical and mental strength L Lyou If you are Ire not feeling a zest est for living something Is wrong with your Jour Internal internal inter Inter- nal economy You rou need daily dally cold showers long and deep bl exercises proper diet at least nine hours of sleep You Tou need to be sure that there is no physical hindrance hindrance hin hin- drance to perfect health such Mich as diseased tonsils or adenoids The person does not live Jive who can resist th h charms of ot ofa a a healthy happy girl hoiS brimming with Ith a a. love of life and people and events You must bring all ati three fully into your your own owr own lives by making them a part of yourselves through your yom keen observation allon learning o- o of f accurate details about a a. variety of or things What arts for instance have you rou made a apart apart apart part of ot yourselves Do you play or sing or talk well wall It is not Impossible impossible impossible Im im- im- im possible for you to learn to do all ll three so well that you ou will ill attract other people to you There are many other things you may do well wll w And when the time really comes for you JOu tp fall in love these love these feelings you ou have now are but preparatory steps you steps you will be fully equipped to o carry catTY on oh the business of or love The question now is What have you ou to offer that will wilt attract boys hoys and ind girls of your Jour own age to you O 1 Make the most of the gifts you have Show interest in other people Give i ithem them hem an express their I Interests to you ou Little by little the he bird builds its nest Little LittI b blittle by little Ittle personality is acquired Good Gooduck Goodluck Goodluck luck uck to you ou both BUNIONS Dear Miss Blair Will you please tell me if there theres is s any cure for bunions If so o olease clease help me out cut by telling me how to get rid of cf mine Wishing you happiness and success BA BABS Here Heres Here's Is a a. home bome treatment for lor your our bunions Babs Soak the tM feet teet at bed time thue in hot soapy s aPY water wa- wa ter er Rinse dry well and nd paint the tM bunions with a lotion made of equal parts of ot iodine and belladonna During Dur Dur- ing ng the day wear bunion pad pads which ou you may buy from any drug store ste When a a. bunion is inflamed and contains pus it may be brought to toa toa a a. head by with flaxseed When the Inflammation has bas gone down extract the pus us gently and bathe with an antiseptic solution such uch as peroxide If the t e bunion does not respond well to home treatment it is wise to consult a reliable chiropodist B Be very ery careful care care- tul ful ul to avoid avold any Infection Jn in n it 11 Th Thank you yot tor for th the wish Babs ETIQUETTE OF WALKING Dear Miss Blair When a fellow is walking with two wo girls should h he h. walk on the outside or in the middle 1 Also will you please tell tail me how much I should weigh I am 14 ye years rs old and 5 feet 6 inches tall tail Thank youN you N NEW EW A fellow tellow never nerver sandwiches himself him him- self elf between two to girls irIs when walking walking walk- walk ing ng Sew New but always keeps on the he curb side of the W walk lk This Is Isone isone one ne of the ancient rulings s that has never lever been discarded The reason reasons is s obvious It Is isa simple matter of protection projection for both ladies ladles from the he dangers of ot being thrust over oyer the he curb edge by crowds And even on less crowded thoroughfares hC res the ruling remains the s m. m m. m Your Tour weight should be approximately pounds Welcome RACCOONS IN UT UTAH H Dup Des Miss Blair Will you please tell teil m me mt wh whether th r or II not ther there are any raccoons in Utah tah A m man n has an animal which lie he le caught alive aliv and which h he claim claims claims isa Is s 5 a r raccoon cco n. n but I tho thought these thu animals anal were found d only in the southern states tate Will you please describe d a raccoon to m me mc Thank you for this helpful information informs tin tion- G. G H. H According to the bulletin Utah Mammals by Claud Barnes rne a 3 few raccoons are tre known to inhabit th the swamps fields and str streams ams near St. St George Ut Utah h M Many ny are trap trapped d here there each year their P pelts Its bring bring- lag Ing ng an n av average rage of ot 11 each They are very fond rond of grapes rapes which are I grown extensively l lo In th that t vicinity ord ord was 3 also SO received r by b Mr Barnes that a l. l rac raccoon on wa wai trapped on the ban Mn of n Henrys Henry's Fork for Just jud I below belo th the Wyoming line others othera oth- oth ers era rs have han reported that they appear appear- occasionally along tho the streams of southeastern Utah and in Arbuckle canyon near the mouth Weber of Weber canyon Their mime name is derived from the Indian word by which this animal was known in Vir Vir- ginia The TIle animals have havo on each foot fool r 5 well developed toes with claws laws th the soles naked they have pointed nose and nd ears tall rather lather long and nd bushy usually ringed A male weighs about IS 18 pounds a female about 10 pounds In general they are a dull brownish gray becoming on the back strongly yellow yellow yel- yel low ow on nape and tail tall and a pal paler r gray rray on un the belly and feet on all the he upper parts especially along long the he the spine the long hairs are black- black tipped On the cheek is a black patch atch that Includes the eye and joins with the narrow blackish stripe that runs from the nose to the he dark color on the forehead Around this the tue face Is dull white whitest in a band above each eye Other minute descriptions of ot this Interesting interesting In- In animal are found in Mr Barnes Barnes' bulletin You are welcome GERMAN POLICE DOG Dear Miss Blair Blairs I have a dog that I 1 would like to gi give live e away through your corner He Hes is i. s 1 1 old and year was sold to us as asa asa a German police We hate ate to part with him but he ho doesn't like to be b. teased eased and the kiddies will tease him nm He would be it a wonderful dog for fol or someone on a farm or or someone who would train him for a watch dog og I hope that someone wh who will be real good d to him will wi call ca Hyland Th Thanks so much Mis Miss Blair B Dogs ar are are like people in in some respects re- re ts They do not like being teased eased and w we hope this dog clog will have lave his persona persona rights respected In n the new home we hope he may find Ind Thank you ou B fl for lor letting us s have hav him ADDRESSES OF STARS Dear BeU Betty Blair Blairs This is the first time I have he- he e. e ered your c corner and I hope I am am welcome I would like you to give me me the addresses of pf thes these movie tars Bessie Love Dave Davey Lee Mary Pickford William Haines Johnny Mack Brown Thank you a a lot ot- ANXIOUS Were We're glad for this first visit Anxious Following are the addresses addresses ad- ad dresses for which you ask Bessie Love x ve William Haines and Johnny Mack lack Brown ma may be addressed Mayer Goldwyn studios GuIver GuI Cul- v ver Cr r City Cal CaI VyLee Da Davy Lee is at W War r. r ncr ner er Brothers' Brothers studios Hollywood l and nd Mary Pickford at Fairbanks studios United Artists Santa Moni Monica b boulevard Hollywood Come again |