Show Dear Mrs Bliss SS W I Family Duties Prevent Girl From Pursuing Art Career By lt Mrs Airs Mary lary Bliss BUu Persons seeking guidance uldanie on courtship marital or family problems should address their letters to Mrs Airs Mary Iary Bliss Salt Lake Telegram Salt Lake City 10 Problems will be discussed In the column only and no correspondence correspondence cor cor- or personal Interview Interview Interview Inter Inter- view can be entered Into Correspondents Correspondents Correspondents Cor Cor- CorI I respondents must sign their true names but these will not be published if It writers so desire Dear Mr Mrs Bliss I just cant can't seem eem to get along at home I 1 dont don't know enow what to do I I 1 think I 1 am artistically inclined and have been given quite a bit of encouragement at school but the family has no money to waste on a career for me Mother just wants me to stay home lome and tend my two young brothers brother How can I r ever get anywhere re reif if f I 1 am always alway going to have to be stuck tuck at home I am 18 now and during the summer I r would like Uke to o get a job so that I can save a attle little money towards going to art school chool later on Is it fair for my family amily to keep me tied down at home J. home ome J. J. J J. J Dear J. J J. J At least with art you can always be practicing at home or anywhere If It at atthe atthe atthe the present time It seems that you OU can be of great use at home helping with the younger children children children chil chil- dren delve into some self study There are innumerable bookou books book you ou could study from the public library H It y you u plan Pan your housework housework housework house house- work wisely you could find time timeto to do a great deal of valuable study as well wen as some practical painting Use homely objects as models and sketch awa away Your two brothers ought to bo be favorite models A Jealous Fiance Dear Mrs Bliss Id I'd like some advice from a disinterested party like ike yourself I have planned to marry but my fiance Clance is so terribly terribly ter- ter I jealous of me that I wonder if f our marriage will work out I Ilove Ilove Iove love ove him very much and when he heis heis hes is s in a good mood we have wonderful wonderful wonderful won won- times together But sometimes sometimes some some- times Imes he is very depressed and I simply imply dont don't know how to make him happy J. happy J. J G. G Salt Lake Dear J. J G. G Be careful of oC marryIng marrying marrying mar mar- a a. very jealous person Jealousy is Its own undoing for forIt forit forit it will take freedom from you U If he goes gocs from high to low v In lu his moods it might be that he needs psychiatric care Take your time before marrying If you can get your fiance to consult consult consult con con- sult a psychiatrist do so IIO See Doctor on Weight Dear Mrs Bliss I have Just had my first baby But I am still 10 pounds overweight How can I get jet back my figure 1 The new baby aby takes most of oC my time and I I r dont don't get a chance to exercise Mother Dear Mother Alother Before you do any exorcising exercising consult commit your doc doe t tor r. r He can tell you just what exercises will help you most and he will know If It you are ready for strenuous exercising Also Mso your overweight condition may be due to a glandular disturbance and he will be able to determine this I dont don't know how new your baby Is but with a little planning planning planning plan plan- ning you'll be able to find time for exercising if yon you are really serious about regaining your figure A Selfish Child Dear Mrs Bliss My little girl girlis is five years old We Ve live in a neighborhood of ups grown-ups and Carol plays only with children once or twice a R. week when we go visit vIsit- ing I realize that she has not had much experience in sharing her things with others But what am I 1 to do when she does docs nothing but cry when another child touches her toys It is getting so that I Iam Iam I Iam am ashamed to take her any any- where Is there any way I can help her to get over her selfishness selfish selfish- ness ness P. P. P G. G Dear P P. G. G Dont Don't give up taking your little girl to play with others She needs the experIence experience experience ex ex- of at playing ln with others her own a age e. e We e find that once the selfish child gets get his toy back hack he seems to prize it le less s samI and amI will give ghe It up more easily later Infer It Is natural for children to tobe tobe tobe be selfish and the they have to work workout workout workout out their own problems of ot sharIng sharIng sharing shar shar- ing with others Be De tactful with the child who grabs your daughters daughters daugh daugh- ten things Try substituting other toys Read l Ia Mary Bliss's column olumn next Monday l on this page |