Salt Lake Telegram | 1949-05-20 | Page 5 | Some Women Talk Too Much and out of Happy Marriage

it if of Happiness Irne me me Women Talk Too Much nd Out of Happy Marriage Hoover and rd Hoover U w is isail all packed for her Hubbard She's sit sit- pleno eno ome Lome among her bags cry- cry yes eyes out wrong with her Isa- Isa rS I t here herent over st t time she was nt say enough against buld thin think shed she'd be satis- satis that the machinery is isor for or divorce just the trouble trouble she she shea J J. but t a divorce no now ope ens so far she feels she out Everyone expects f her to go through with it it and so soshe soshe soshe she thinks she must mustI musLI I never ne heard of anything sillier sillier sillier sil sil- lier than that If It she still loves Tom why doesn't she throw her arms around him and say so Tom made it quite quit clear that he didn't want a divorce but was willing to let Bernice have her way since she was so dead set on it In my opinion he would be glad to forgive forgive for for- I give and the forget whole thing thinS I 1 think he would Hubbard and andI I II I 1 told Bernice so But that made I her cry more than ever She said she knew she would never again I find anyone so kind and considerate consider- consider I I ate as Tom has always been This just doesn't make sense I Isabelle A couple of months ago aco every time we saw Bernice she complained that Tom never took her tier any place was b buried ried in his business and was so absentminded absentminded absentminded absent- absent minded that he didn't even give her a pleasant good g morning I 1 I used to get bored and quit listen listen- ing But now that she's broken up their home all at once she I I seems to appreciate Toms Tom's virtues What sort of way is that The plain answer is its it's a way that leads to disaster The main trouble with Bernice is that she talks taUs too much and is carried away by her own eloquence She dramatized dramatized dramatized drama drama- herself as the poor little neglected wife and really fell in inlove inlove inlove love with the role She found it got ot her a great deal of sympathetic sympathetic sympathetic attention Why she needed so much attention I really dont don't know It may be that Toms Tom's money made life so easy that she relaxed and didn't use her very great talents If there had been a houseful houseful houseful house house- ful of children there would be no Reno She blames her family and friends for the theay way ay things thinS's turned out If it weren't for them she says she and Tom Toni would never have come to this sad parting of the ways ridiculous Bernice insisted in insisted insisted in- in on telling everything to everybody even everybody even intimate details that were embarrassing to hear Yes I know But she claims that at first she told only her mother and two or three dear f friends r i e end n d s. s After that everyone seemed to know all about her trouble and wanted to hear more Now she feels she is being pushed into this divorce Bernice had better face up to the facts and dry her tears A woman can easily talk herself out of a good bood marriage but she cant can't cry herself back into it