Show GIRLS FIND DIFFICULTY IN MEETING N FRIENDS FRI ENDS By BETTY BLAIR The way to friendship is by the highway of personal endeavor by seeking to give kindness to others in need of companionship and the friendly gesture rather than to get Its rewards are the richest friendships known in the category of friends Dear Miss Mis Blair Biair We are two lonesome working girls who have been living in Salt Sait Lake City for the past year It seems as though we dont don't have an opportunity to meet or come in contact with any fellows of our type or whom we care to go out with In fact we are very seldom asked to go out Above A Average We think and everyone who knows us seems to think that we weare weare weare are above the average as far as looks and personality are concerned concerned concerned con con- and we arc are also considered consid consid- ere ered to be well dressed Our problem is How can we meet someone We Ve feel that if we could only meet some fellows we would be more popular because because because be be- cause we always have been in the thep p past st until we came to Salt Lake City Could you suggest some places where we could go to meet some some fellows vs We arent aren't In the habit and dont don't approve of going to public dances yet we are a lot of fun when we weare weare weare are out We Va have always had high id ideals als and moral standards Do you think the fault lies with us or is It because we haven't met anyone of our type as yet We feel as though we would die if we dont don't get to go out this summer We would forever be indebted to you If you would only help us as M we are really desperate TWO VO LONESOME GIRLS The only rule I know whereby girls who come to our city may meet young men of their own standards of thought and living girls who do not carry with them letters of introduction or an entree into homes of the people whom they would like to meet is to go to the places where likely young men are apt to go I suggest the golf goIt links tennis courts riding academies and last but not least church auxiliary asso asso- All the churches have them and young people who are religious minded attend these ses ses- ses- ses It is a good thing also aiso to join study groups for there you make friends of ot both sexes And I do not exclude dance halls for lor there you also will meet your own kind since people of all kinds attend First you must make the effort to bo be friendly to others by placing yourselves in a 3 position to meet others then you must be ready and willing to accept friendship from others who may be as lonely as M you Idea of Giving Work your problem out with the idea of giving rather than of ot getting getting getting get get- ting companionship The girl who goes about with the idea of getting only becomes so self centered she Is apt to drive the very ones she seeks from her Her disappointments disappointments disappointments disappoint disappoint- ments made her more than ever aver one apart She develops that far-away far detached wistful lonely atmosphere about her that haunts people but brings them no closer to her No girl need be lonely for com corn She needs only to recognize recognize rec rec- that others with natures more ingrown than her own need bringing out by her kindness by her first spoken word to know how eagerly they will grasp at the first straw of ot friendship offered One step leads to another Girls whom you meet will want to Introduce Introduce introduce Intro intro- duce you to their friends Some of them will have boy friends who will bring their friends into the circle But remember the effort rests first with you COMBINED mINED GIFT Dear Miss Blair I Iam am invited to a a. shower for a 8 to bride who is going away to tobe tobe tobe be married Since I will not be attending the wedding I should like to make my shower gift something something something some some- thing that would also do for a wedding present May I do so and still be right Thank you JENE Except for the fact that your gift may far outdistance other gifts atthe at athe atthe the he same party I should say you OU might give the combined shower- shower wedding gift As it i is Js I think it would be better for you to give an Inexpensive shower present and buy buya a separate wedding gift that will be besent besent sent lent directly to the elects bride home from the shop from which it itis itis is 13 purchased |