| Show 5 S SECRET NUPTIALS li TAIL F TO AD ADVANCE V ANCE L HAPPINESS THEME THEMES THEME'S S 'S By BETTY BLAIR S i f If the timer inner spark that is said to be in every human being cant can't 7 be bestirred stirred to activity by lifes life's great crises it is certain to lie dor dor- r 1 mant during periods of less need S Dear Miss Blair I am ft a girl 10 years rears of age who was u secretly married last summer Uy Ly husband Is 21 and we both continued con con- living at our S P-S- We were homes home r t own S bO both working but his fI was only a a. part part tUne I job and ana ho he didn't t think we should try S JJ S S to rent an apartment until he got time full t t work But since we were married he hc has hI J iI been drinking quite a abit bit and has hu now lost hi hl his Job altogether He Ho keeps telling me mo hac his ha c jf bard hard luck lucic stories and andI I keep on handing out S. S money to him He doesn't seem to be bo the same name man at all that I married I thought we were going to be so 50 happy and would soon bo be In a Do little home of our own Now I cant can't see any hope forthe forthe for the future at all The worst of It Is 15 that he d doesn't seem to love m me as ashe as ashe ashe he did when we were first married He Ho Ie Is BO so Indifferent Once when I 1 asked him If he be was was was' sorry that wet we got cot t married he said he didn't t see seeS S how It helped matters any I Judged from that he be was sorry and wished we hadn't got married I have talked to to him about hit his drinking but he be sa says san when ho Is despondent he doesn't care Oh I feel so heartsick and blue over every every- thing If U he would only snap out of or It and try to be himself I would feel teel letter better Shall I ask him 1 If he would what shall I do like 1110 a Do divorce or My parents dont don't know we are married mar mar- ned ried yet and neither do his I If my mother knew she would feel simply terrible especially now since he has lost Jost his Job He seems to hate to take the money moncy I give him but he takes It U anyway I really dont don't have iny any to spare as I pay my mother so much for room and board to help her ber Please advise me what to do DOUBLE BLUES Well Ven my dear when you married this young man you did so for lor better and for worse The worse has bas happened instead of oC the better better bet bet better ter and were it not for the fact of marriage obligation obligation obligation that a part your gation so far as the two of you are marriage marriage marriage mar mar- concerned was vas to keep your a secret I would say it is your place to live up to your marriage marriage marriage mar mar- contract However inasmuch as the marriage contract has never been kept between you in the true sense of the word and your our husbands husband's husbands husband's hus huz- bands band's attitude indicates it never will be why not just make up your mind to end the whole thing as se secretly so- so as it was begun Talk TaUe the matter over with him and nd see how he feels about it If your talk accomplishes nothing more than to stir him out of his Indifferent indifferent in indifferent In- In different attitude it will have served its purpose The Tle thought that he Is about to lose you altogether may stir a spark of manhood left in him to pull himself together at least to the point that he he stops drinking and pushes ahead to try to get a job If you can appeal to nothing fine and good in him your task is hopeless hopeless hopeless hope hope- less and you had just as well stop trying Just write it down that your step was a mistake and that you will use the experience gained to build a better future for yo yourself than you could possibly have built with him And unless you can be sure the money you are giving him is being spent to help him to get geta getS S a job ob dont don't give him any more He may nay be holding holdin on to his marriage contract now for the simple reason renson that it nets him spending spendin money It was a mistake for him not to take on some of the responsibility of his position in the beginning It may have brought out some hidden fineness in him that the situation cannot now r recover cover TO USE MASCARA D Dear ar Miss Blair Will you OU please tell me how to use mascara so It doesn't smear Thank you iou ou B 0 G. The rule is to powder your face before you put on the mascara Dip DipS S the mascara brush in m water Be sure to use plenty of water It is the too little use of water that causes your mascara to smear After dipping dipping dipping dip dip- ping in water whisk the brush lightly across the cake of ot mascara Open your eyes wide and use upward up ward strokes to cover every lash See that each cach one is coated with one S stroke of the brush Dont Don't apply a second layer If any spills spiUs over on the skin around your eyes remove it immediately with a bit of cleansing cream FRIENDSHIP F TROUBLES TROUBIE Dear Miss Blair Blair- I have hare asked d you jou OU for advice before but nothing before has troubled me meas meas as this does Three years ago no I got Into a In school for stuffing I 1 have ha practically lived this downS down S except by a a. very few people While I 1 was on this spree a. a as they called caned it It I was vas going with A A. A who was my best girl friend Then we stopped going together until this year when we are Juniors This girls girl's mother doesn't forget about my trouble In which her daughter was Involved Sho She tries to fJ Ti Letter Letteri question arid and requests request for advice should be b addressed to MISS 1 BETTY BLAIR HEARTS UA HAVEN VEN THE TELEGRAM l SALT SAIT LAKE CITY Write legibly upon only ono one nido 0 of ot tho paper It Is I. necessary that tint you oil append tho the right ht numo namo and ami address but these will viii bo be hold in to confidence confidence confidence dence find and will not appear In print Questions involving advertising Information cannot annot be answered keep the two of us apart BO so we meet on a certain corner every time Urno we want to go together The funny part of It Is that A AIs Is wilder than I am True I smoke and take a n drink to bea be bo boa bea a good sport but A gets goe goes much farther than I. I But she aho Is the grandest friend I have ever had and I I truly love her I cant can't stand the Idea of our breaking up lip and A feels exactly as I do about It U. She does docs all the planning of or our going together My mother likes A and arid welcomes welcome her to our home What shall we do Shall we forget each other which means Ill I'll have to w go away awny or she will or shall we try to to make her mother like me inc and see seo that I am i really good I am nm a II girl 17 years of or age ase Thank you so much for your TROUBLED advice I The only future I see for either cither or both of you is for you to give up all these things that make I mothers and others think ill of you and play up all aU the good points that are arc arc really in you instead of those little weaknesses and vanities vanities vanities van van- that you think make you good sports In the long run nobody is going to think any the better of you for falling in with the tho ways of other people and allowing them to do your thinking for tor you There are certain ideals you have for yourself that at times youve you've forgotten just because somebody thinking swayed you out of your better self Why not live up to the best that is in you ou instead of living Jiving down to some of your weaknesses Im I'm sure if you do well those this As mother as as who remember certain things thing against you will reconstruct their opinion of you You could if you wanted to be bea a great influence in the life of ofA ofA ofA A by making her see sec that for tor fora tora a girl t to 9 get drunk was a shoddy way of trying to be a sport The whole world thinks so even those whom she thinks she may be pleasIng pleasing pleasing pleas pleas- ing by her behavior A Anew Anew I new set of friends altogether might be very good for b both th of you ou |
