| Show ii AN A t AMAN LOVE ti TWO WOMEN AT ATTHE L fH THE SAME TIME TI ME I jJ r By Bv BETTY BETrY BLAIR When the finest interests of marriage are maintained on a a high i pi i al and physical l pl plane and then hen a husband or wife we br breaks a the vows vOW there is s definite evidence that the weakness is IS' In in the J individual 1 and and not in the marriage plan itself J Dear MUs Blair V Is It possible ible for fOl A nun man to be really rully in In love with two women At at t the same time mc I t i have been married seym Beven years fUI er and d h hay have one child My Juu- Juu bind band has hu always Alway been very considerate and kind to me During the last summer he fell feU in Iove Iov with a young woman whom I knoWS know HP Re became very Intimate with her ther and met to me Recently he told me about bout the whole affair Altair He He promised he would not pee Pice her any more except In a D. business capa- capa f city r W I 1 know they reel feel they ar am giving i up Ip a good deal and that they m 7 each ach other very much She i la 13 also abo married He Ue says be lie wUl will always V count her his but best friend and will attempt to atop loving Joving her r Often Otten I am extremely bitter hitter and nd re- re toward them At other times rl t am m completely certain his love for 1 m ma 0 I is del dead I L cant can't icem leem to get a cLear unemotional view of the whole J My fy mental condition tnt Isn't c helping my physical condition any jL VI I haven't been welt In recent n ent years I. I anyway Io If It I cant can't change I am ld afraid I will lose him completely 1 advice can cany c Thanking you yon for any you y five me THE TR WIFE T To tel a woman she must adopt philosophical attitude when her mental disturbances are are drag dragging ing her her ber phy physical cal condition down an and her oher ph physical condition doesn't lend any fervor to her mental mentel serenita serenity a seems like an utter waste of ot words Still under the tho circumstances it itis i is the thc th only thing a woman may hope to to do to reestablish her own mental and 2nd physical balance balence and to obtain f from lUG lifa any ny 2 ot of the special happi happi- nez that should be hers There are ao as 3 many different kinds of love ove o as there are people on whom lt lt Is bestowed A man may have havo a 2 cerl certain n kind hind o of love lo ove for his hs wife wite and the a the thc mother er of hIs hie hi child A tender tender- u a desire to protect her to bund build a 2 hone fo for her to tc h he have e her with him him in public to lend end o or whatever his need eed it to his o in life ife But Sut for or lot another WO woman who makes an ap- ap tP wholly on 0 the physical side he may have a p passion iol t.- t. that t h has in ll it rone o e o 0 of the tho feeling een he ho h has hnz fo for or his hs wife wie And une unless s he Is s wisa iz to resist est t th this s Hig the Oi primitive tive irge may 2 bow bowl h him over j r 1 If a wire wife is in wise wie she wi will wil play up the the companionable Interests that should exist between husband and wife She will not lose Jose her dig- dig over the situation She will that the ur urge e which sees by h name ns of ot so cc o appeal in Li o of L the e vary variety but that thia love Jove that calls forth forta Ul th the fin finest t of M manhood that exist in men are there thero waiting to be brought bought out by her foresight and ingenuity Patience g. g cheerfulness cheerful cheerful- n ness t. t tha tho a ability to tc s smother ot r ones one's inmost 1 nn feelings ei are e required o of the te v wi v ifa fo during b the d tine time e that th this thi a Ital it si l drama ia Is i t a ir the tl boards beards b A wO t. t o of t. t this tO soc core t of ot ce and ste strength o of character car save her er husband from ron O himself se Heto He wants to b b be saved Don't Dont ont doubt but that he denounces himself for foi his hi inability to get hold of himself Science of ot Mind is a a. magazine you yot may find in the bookshops It has ha helped many nanya a woman suffering the disturbances of what seems to hithe be hi bethe bethe the marital tragedy to establish herselt herself her bet self on a philosophical basis that nothing shakes She is able to transfer trans trans- fer ter the love that heretofore has been beer built up on oi the physical plane ora on or ona a a. spiritual and universal plane that gives her unlimited powers power for lor creating creating- good for Cor herself and those with whom she in contact IN FRENCH I I Dear Deal tea Miss f Miss Blair It Mems that everyone reads Heart Beart's Raven Haven with no thought of ever writing writ writ- lug ing but whenever an emergency for tor Information aris arises it Is one cf the first sources to- to which we turn Now I amIn that particular cIa class clasi My question Is this I would like to have a French phrase meaning I 1 will love you always or M My love 1 i. i b yours I would appreciate this very much WONDERING It is not ot my pl place ce to question your need ed of a statement in Fre French ch nor in what mam er manner you hope to tc use it and I hope I may be excused for tor intruding on a privacy you did not offer by au suggesting that you donot do donot donot not put it in a letter Jetter to a young man it if that is your our in intention If It you want to tell a a. young man you will love him always ys do so sc in plain English En and save gave him the trouble of hunting up an interpreter or else refrain from doing so 20 altogether I if it it is 2 a case that thet you really shouldn't Je J o taime talmo tout jours Is th th expression ex cx- x for which you ask asic De Der r Miss T The G company py th that e employs por rift me e gives mo no a to present each Christens and each erch t tine 6 I am n a z little pu ee as asto asto to the correct way to offer ray 1 thanks There here are three o of them who sele send the gut gift with t. t all eil three thu names o 0 on the le ac- ac co p g caret card Should I te a a. note ote o of thanks to eec each or Just to the president o of the firm Zone and include the t 6 ot others tZ in n t the sane same note Than hn you au for sr cr YOU your hel help 1 In th this natte u JOAN JOA Write Wt a a. note c cf t. t thanks kz to each per person cn whose name nane appe appears o 0 oa the card accompanying the gift It CHILD MARRIAGES Dear car Miss Mies Blair In r reading an en article last st ev evening I If Iran Iran f ran n cco across the e c expression r child chUd roar mar r c As 15 z I was wa aJ o of the tho opinion there were no child eJ In thIs country since cIrce they are ero pro prohibited by liw I wonder v. if it you con cnn explain that expression to mo me Thank you In Th some states the age limit for o a 1 girl z-rl to th marry narry wt with parental e ta consent consent con con- sent t is z 1 14 years yes Tho rho writer o of th tha 2 article a ca nay may y have bee beer been rin efe-rin eng to tots this ts ek early eary J ago age gc or he e nay may J have been bean b e E g to the ce term teru te used by bl psychologists i in w which ich case any marriage ariage under er 19 is called a 8 achild child marriage ge They Tey are re so o called b because te most ot people o le lenar marry nar marrying i ing ng under this age do so before they have reached an n ago o of emotional emo eno tlona stability It t is doubted by psychologists that those thOS who marry so young ever eve do reach the level of mature emotions and 2nd believed that their emotional instability is s passed on or to their children Knowing nothing nothing noth noth- ing about the context o of the article to which you have hav reference I can 1 only gue guess J at the meaning it t may have havo inferred but hope I may have found the tho right answer |
